If my husband doesn't go to work, he will sell the house. What about living in a house?

Husband and wife are not trying to change each other. But to communicate and get close to each other's hearts. Deepen understanding in communication, and then find a coordination method acceptable to both parties. If a man doesn't make progress, is it really that he doesn't make progress, or that a woman is too demanding, or that a woman doesn't know how to encourage him, or that a man is really lazy? The right medicine can cure the disease. Blaming and arguing blindly is of no benefit except falling into a vicious circle. Sometimes, you forgive others and yourself.

To put it another way, he is actually a competent lover. Gold is not enough, and no one is perfect. Life is stormy, look at the advantages of others. You will find that life is full of warm sunshine.

It is a pity that men are not motivated, but it is sad to be corrupt.

Everyone has his own ambition, and it is not impossible for some people to be content with the status quo, not seeking fame and fortune, but seeking dullness and living a carefree life. If your husband just doesn't make progress, but he loves you and your children very much, then I personally don't think it is necessary. You can live with money or without money.

On the contrary, if you are not motivated, you are lazy and you don't care about your family, then you can treat it as waste, and there is no cure.

Everyone has his own set of outlook on life, vigorous for life, and plain for life. If you want him to make progress, you must be prepared that he will be out all day, can't care about you, and even lose his temper. Sometimes don't think too much, life will force you to do something, as long as you live well, it doesn't matter.

I often ask my female friends that most of the criteria for finding a boyfriend or husband will be "self-motivated". Frankly speaking, many people probably don't know where the so-called boundary between making progress and not making progress is. Some people will say that being enterprising means being enterprising and making money. Women probably forget that men are human beings. He wants to work, but he doesn't have that much time to spend with you. He makes more money, and maybe Yingying Yanyan will surround him. All gains must be doubled and given up.

Women will say, I didn't expect him to make me rich. However, I hope he is a good planner and a good life. Yes, this requirement doesn't sound high. However, there are not many men who can really balance these. Therefore, many women began to complain and vomit after marriage. Everyone can't change immediately because of another person, even the people at the bedside don't have such power. The result is both losses. Men still go their own way or are bored. A woman's heart is only tired and sad.