Is the fate of one's life really doomed?

Not exactly. Fate accounts for only one fifth, and man-made accounts for four fifths. Life is not absolute, only relative. Adjust your mentality first, and then reflect on your whole life, and you will come to a lot of truth without losing your mentality. My view is: adjust your mentality and naturally understand the same sex. There is a saying: "One life, two fortunes, three geomantic omen, four products and five studies". The change and development of life depends largely on your own grasp. Remember, human life is natural and inviolable, and human life is adjusted by two, three, four and five; The second luck refers to walking with people and meeting noble people. Third, feng shui is the most important, and both houses need to be adjusted; The fourth is to accumulate yin and yang, and Buddhism, Taoism and immortals cross; Fifth, reading is Confucianism, and the book has its own classics. Try to think about life this way: remember that there is only "more" in life, not "more" Reflecting on life, you will know a lot-life is short, and there are many reasons for people's life. Family, classmates, colleagues, lovers, lovers, comrades-in-arms, nobles, villains, enemies, benefactors ... first adjust your mentality; There are many important moments in a person's life, such as growing pains, confusion in entering a higher school, vague emotions, difficulty in finding a job, joy of success, lessons of failure, being a parent for the first time, the growth of children, last wishes before going to bed, and expectations after life ... So people should adjust their mentality. Think about what people live for. No matter why people live, they have their own reasons. Each has its own advantages and disadvantages, and each has its own needs. Over time, the demand is self-evident. Right or wrong, there is no absolute. At this time, right and wrong. Some right and wrong, later generations comment. Face life and be realistic. Let nature take its course and drift with the tide. For example, love-love has three reasons, one is the material basis; The second is the spiritual foundation; The third is sexual relations. If you have one of these three, you can have love. The function of material life makes you feel safe; The role of spiritual life gives you support; The function of sex life makes you happy. Similarly, when one of the three is seriously missing, then love will also be lost. The same is true of marriage and family. However, marriage and love are not exactly the same after all. When there is no money as the foundation, marriage will soon be in crisis or even die, while love may last for a while, but there will be cracks and uniqueness. If it can't be changed, it will eventually die. This can be found on the basis of philosophy and reality. People don't need to deceive themselves, they must be objective and face the reality. This is the helplessness of life. How many roads you have traveled in life, how many choices you have; How many things you experience in life, how many choices you have; This is life. Take advantage of the trend and be yourself; Rain or shine, don't be others. I am myself. There is only "more" in life, not "most". Try to be the person you think is perfect. People should strive to realize all kinds of wishes in life. Yourself, parents', lovers', friends', bosses' and colleagues' ... The realization of one's wishes and one's own wishes constitutes the road of life. Keep a state of mind, indifferent and peaceful. Have no desire, no desire, and enjoy yourself. How to understand if you don't want anything? Take advantage of the trend and be happy naturally. Go against the trend and lose more. If you want to be smart, control your desires. Enough is enough. You are superior. To put it bluntly, everyone has it. If it is successful, it is rare. World competition, survival of the fittest. Things outside are short-lived. If you want to be long-term, cultivate one's morality. Wisdom of Buddhism and Taoism warns all beings: the source of pain and the beginning of desire. It's really hard not to want anything. If it is easy, how can it be superior? A person's life, but a lot. Face helplessness, believe it or not? Believe in weakness and don't believe in self-deception. There is no rain for a long time, and there is little dew. There is no reason to know anywhere else. On the moonlit night, the gold list does not call the roll. Life is so helpless, I always feel that I have no sense of accomplishment and I don't know where to go. Life is going, how can we not be depressed? If you can enter an empty door, you may be depressed. A person's life is unpredictable; There is no fixed number of joys and sorrows; Juvenile abandonment, betrayal in middle age and loneliness in old age are three major sorrows; If you live all your life, you will be swayed by considerations of gain and loss; Just fell into the world, crying; The joy of childhood, compared with trouble; Teenagers try to be brave, and when they are frustrated, they will be folded; Young people are confused and emotionally confused; Even if you get married, there will be daily necessities; Middle-aged career, tired and rushing around; In order to take care of the old and the young, condescending; Seeking wealth in the middle and late stages, looking at flowers in the mirror; At the end of the family, children and grandchildren are unfilial; I am dying, and my wish has not come true; After a lifetime, there is a lot of helplessness; You ask what you are afraid of, and you have it everywhere; If you ask what you are afraid of, you will always encounter fear; In the world of mortals, fearless; If you want to get rid of dust, your heart is empty. It's important to keep an attitude. Think of others and learn to be content. Let nature take its course, and everything goes with fate. People have worries and joys, and they are extremely happy. Choosing to pursue is more important than the process. Peace of mind, sit tight. Dont Ask For Help, just want peace of mind. People are better than others and take care of themselves. Be kind to others, and Buddha will repay karma. Face helplessness and cheer up. Step out of the circle and look at yourself. Control desire, the immortal is helpless. To do this, luck has come. If so, I feel very good. Always, fate knows it. Every key point in life, that is, everyone's charm, constitutes a fleeting time. At every critical moment, you should grasp your own advantages and charm, so that you are a smart person. -When parents are happy in the world, when children are happy at the beginning of life, when they are successful in their studies, when they enter the social employment, when they are infatuated with their lovers, when they rise to power and win honors, when they tie the knot, when they are in their children's arms for the first time, when their children grow up carefree, when they get married and start a family, and when they are welcomed back to their hometown. When their predecessors lined up in front of their sickbeds, when their children kept giving good news, when they died, when they had support, when they wrote their wills in calligraphy. Try to grasp yourself. Actually, I figured it out. Everything is clear. To understand life, people must first adjust their mentality. First adjust the mentality, then reflect, then be wise, then have no desire, and finally know God's will, reason, people and destiny. Does my answer help you? ?