Don't be shallow

Shallow, literally, is a derogatory term. For people, shallowness means shallowness, cheapness, affectation, ostentation, flattery, and lack of self-respect.

In daily life, quite a few people have shallow characteristics. Undoubtedly, no matter where shallow people are, their words and deeds will be despised or even looked down upon.

It should be admitted that shallow people will not achieve anything, let alone much. To overcome this problem, or change this situation, as long as you are willing to work hard, you will be able to do it.

So, where can we start to get rid of shallowness? That is, firmly establish the four consciousnesses of self-love, self-esteem, self-reliance and self-improvement.

With these four consciousnesses, we can become a truly powerful person who is respected in life.

The shallowness of modern people is mostly that they never understand self-love. Mr. Lu Xun once emphasized: "No matter in any country, most people admit that' love yourself' is a matter of course. This is the essence of preserving life and the foundation of continuing life. " Therefore, cherish yourself at all times, don't betray yourself, and don't do anything detrimental to your image.

Hegel said: "People should respect themselves and get the noblest things." Shallow people are looked down upon because they are too self-abased, too lacking in integrity and backbone, and think they are incompetent and nothing like others. If a person wants self-esteem, he must first overcome his inferiority complex and never do anything detrimental to his personality.

Must have the spirit of self-reliance. If a person wants to survive and develop well, it depends on a tenacious sense of self-reliance. The ancients said, "People are seven feet tall and stand tall. How could he say "beg"? "

More self-improvement. Ouyang Xiu believes: "If you have the ambition to become a cola, you should strive for self-improvement in time." People, only through their own struggle, can change their lives, there is no choice.

If a person really has these four consciousnesses, he will not only stay away from "superficiality", but also become a gentleman who does something, dares to take responsibility and is loved.