Can you accept the death of your parents-in-law? Why?

I think parents-in-law should be prevented from retiring.

1 The son-in-law has done a good job and will be really blessed.

I once heard that such a thing happened in our village.

Because the little red family in the village has two female households and no sons, the family is going to find a son-in-law for the eldest daughter after marriage. On the wedding day, there were very few men, because there were many poor boys at home, so they were not taken seriously at all, so they took the money and left.

After marriage, this son-in-law is really nice. He farmed and worked, and all the money he earned was given to his wife. He is also very kind to his parents-in-law. Who knew that ten years later, this woman abandoned her family and asked him to leave home clean? Everyone in the village is talking about it.

Her parents are also very honest, and even beat and scold their daughter directly. Her daughter left in a rage and never came back.

The son-in-law especially thanked her parents-in-law, who repaired the house with the money given by her parents-in-law, and her luck turned to business. Now his married life is particularly good, and his parents-in-law also show off in the village every day, boasting that he has a "good son".

That day, a fortune teller came to the village and said he was lucky because he was supporting his parents-in-law. It seems that people should be kind and accumulate happiness.

Supporting in-laws is conducive to family harmony.

As a son-in-law, your parents-in-law have given you the treasure that you have raised for more than 20 years, so you should be grateful. If the daughter gets married recently, at least she can see each other often. If you marry far away, you will have little time to meet each other, and your daughter will not be able to visit her parents often. This is really hard for parents-in-law.

Then I'm a daughter, too It is really difficult to take care of parents after marriage. Sometimes I think, I don't have filial parents at home, but we wait for my husband's parents at my husband's house. I don't think there is anything wrong with filial piety to my in-laws, but I feel very weak and lost. I will also discuss this issue with my husband. He always said it was your parents. We should go back often. When people are old, they want to see more children. So every time I go back to my parents' house, my husband will take the initiative to buy a lot of things. I am very moved, so I won't complain if I honor my in-laws.

People are mutual. Although there is no law that stipulates the death of parents-in-law, if the son-in-law does, the relationship between the wife and her husband's family will not be bad, even if there are contradictions, it will be put to rest in this matter. If there is no contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law in a family, the atmosphere at home will be particularly harmonious, and everyone's mood will be particularly good, which is also conducive to the growth of children.

It is good for children's growth, and set a good example for parents-in-law.

Besides, we will have children and be parents-in-law. What would your heart be like if your son-in-law followed your example and didn't die for your old age? So set a good example for your old age.

It is our duty to support our parents-in-law.

Finally, many families are only children now and in the future, so it is our bounden duty for son-in-law to support her parents-in-law.

In the future, the pressure of the only child is really great, so it is even more important for husband and wife Qi Xin to take care of their parents together, otherwise it will be really difficult.

Everyone will get old and die one day. May we all have a good son-in-law.

I think it's totally acceptable, because that's how old people raise their children. Although China has a tradition of caring for the elderly by sons, my thoughts have changed since I became a parent. My daughter is as devoted and educated as her son.

My opinion is that it is acceptable to die for in-laws.

First, you can ask this question. It feels like you and your wife are both only children. "Since they are all only children," your parents are parents, and your daughter-in-law's parents are outsiders. Don't send it to a nursing home? "You should know that you are both only children." You should regard yourself as their son. Sometimes traditional ideas are not suitable for this, so some things have to be flexible. Otherwise, where is your wife? Is it an unfilial position? Without a son, the son-in-law can't support the elderly and is dead. Think for yourself from another angle. What would you do if you changed roles with your wife? I'm afraid you're not as generous as your wife.

Second, your question is vague, and you are talking about another hypothesis. That is, if your father-in-law has a son, that is, your brother-in-law, this happens. Some people really don't want to care, and individuals have their own ideas. Normal, but even for this reason. I also want to say: why not support it together? Moreover, the parents-in-law are old and time is running out. My daughter is my mother's little cotton-padded jacket, because it makes the couple not harmonious, so I will try it. It will also make outsiders see jokes. Men are more generous, not here. Parents care about the elderly, making money to support their families is what they have to ponder.

Anyway, the only son has a brother-in-law. Filial piety is our traditional virtue. It is also an unshirkable responsibility to have a sense of security and a sense of death. Men really can't care about this.

If your mother was an only child when she gave birth to you, would this problem still arise? The person who asks this question must be an only child.

First of all, I am a man like you. I didn't mean to help that woman pull the frame.

Men and women are equal between husband and wife, and both parents should be treated equally, especially the parents of the only child!

The parents of the only child have worked hard to take their daughter from pregnancy to baby, to childhood, to at least 18 years old, to the United States, from primary school to middle school, to college, to finding a job. Selfless dedication, no return, be your wife, bring money to your home, make money for you, have children, manage housework and work hard.

What do parents-in-law want at this moment?

What about you? It didn't take on the responsibility of the old society, in which the man was the master, the economic income was exclusive to one person and the family was the pillar. The woman is not only a housewife, but also takes care of rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea, and has no economic income. She depends on you to feed you and you worship you for a living.

Therefore, both parents should do their best to support the elderly and die, both ethically and practically. Besides, things are unpredictable, and young people don't know whether they will have boys or girls after marriage. Being kind to the elderly today means being kind to yourself tomorrow.

Personally, I think that we should set a rule and principle in everything we do. Without rules, we can't be Fiona Fang. First of all, it is best to follow the principle of equal rights and responsibilities for providing for the aged. Secondly, it depends on the specific situation. If the in-laws are really helpless and only have daughters, then as a daughter-in-law, they should assume this responsibility unconditionally, without any choice, otherwise they are affectionate, reasonable, benevolent and unreasonable; If parents-in-law have sons and daughters, then in order to be fair, we should try our best to act according to rules and principles, otherwise people's psychological imbalance will lead to contradictions and problems. No matter what the situation is, in the final analysis, if people can really be honest with each other, there will be no problem, but it is actually very difficult. Rules and principles are used to solve this difficulty. Therefore, if we want to live in harmony, there must be no rules and principles, otherwise things will be difficult to achieve. After all, everyone is human and it is not easy.

There is no doubt that I can accept the death of my parents-in-law. As for why I can accept the death of my parents-in-law? I think it is mainly because of the following reasons.

First of all, although my parents-in-law and I are not related by blood, because I am with their daughter, my parents-in-law should naturally be my relatives. To put it bluntly, my parents-in-law are also my parents, so it is natural that I can die for my parents' pension. Of course, I can also die for my parents' pension.

Secondly, people often say "love me, love my dog". Since you love your wife very much, you should love your parents-in-law. Since we love our parents-in-law, it should be my duty to provide for my parents' old age, and I should not make any demands or conditions.

Finally, it is my responsibility and obligation to prepare for my parents' pension. Although my parents-in-law are not my biological parents, since I married their daughter, they are my parents, so it is natural for me to support my parents. There is no reason to do so.

Therefore, because of the above three reasons, I think I can accept the death of my parents-in-law.

As the title,

It is definitely acceptable, and this problem is also a reality that many generations will face in the future!

First of all, we should understand that the pension mechanism in China cannot be perfect at present and for a long time to come. Old people's pension mainly depends on the way of family pension, and many generations in the future are only children, so the pension of parents-in-law should naturally be shared by husband and wife. At this point, some people may ask: Isn't it that the son-in-law has no obligation to support her parents-in-law? Yes, the current law of our country does stipulate that the son-in-law has no direct maintenance obligation, but he should assist his daughter and fulfill his maintenance obligation to his in-laws. However, it also stipulates that a daughter-in-law enjoys the same rights and obligations as a son-in-law. That is to say, a husband and wife, who only has their own children, should directly bear the obligation to support their parents, while the spouse only bears the obligation to help.

However, the current situation is that both husband and wife are only children. If both sides only care about their parents, the young couple will only be separated. So I think that when both parents are getting older, the young couple should start making preparations and arrangements. When the old people can still run, walk and take care of themselves, the young couple will not interfere, so that the old people can enjoy the happiness of life in this beautiful leisure time. Then we should start to choose a place with a moderate location and convenient life in all aspects, and buy two houses, so that when the elderly lose their ability to take care of themselves, they can concentrate in one place, which is convenient for taking care of and having their own independent space. It should be an ideal form of providing for the aged at present. Of course, rich people help themselves.

Therefore, for a long time, the young couple will be composed of only children, and the elderly who support and honor both sides can only be borne by their husband and wife. Therefore, we should not slack off, but should uphold the fine tradition of respecting the elderly and make reasonable arrangements so that both elderly people can enjoy their old age!

Nowadays, many people are only children. After the only child gets married, it is inevitable to support his parents. Every child has the responsibility to support his parents, whether in-laws or in-laws.

Accept or not, this question can only be given to yourself. Whether someone else forces you to make this decision morally or legally, it is not only your lover but also the old man who will be hurt in the end.

But then again, no one has parents. If you are unwilling to support your parents-in-law, then don't ask your lover to support your parents. People's hearts are better than people's hearts, and people change people's hearts. If this happened to me instead of my parents-in-law, what decision would you like your son-in-law to make? We are all children, at the same time, we are also fathers and mothers. Therefore, we should take out the traditional virtues of our Chinese nation and let it be carried forward and passed down, instead of letting it disappear because of selfishness.

I can accept it, but it depends on my ability to speak.

To tell the truth, many people are really dangerous now. It is a good state that one person is full and the whole family is not hungry.

Men with better economic conditions will give priority to their parents' pension, followed by their parents-in-law.

But like my generation, most of those born after 1990s are only children.

Both the man and the woman have only one child at home. In fact, their parents should take care of it, and so should their parents-in-law.

So the pressure is relatively high.

Personally, in fact, many parents of our generation have worked hard all their lives and given the best to their children.

But the current situation is that our generation can take care of themselves, and parents are already very pleased.

I used to have a neighbor, 1988, and their family was also a combination of two only children.

Married for several years, I dare not have children, but I just can't afford to raise them.

The year before last, they finally planned to have a baby.

But accidentally came a triplet, and all the plans were upset. If families with better economic conditions may think this is a good thing, many people will flinch from triplets.

But the reality is very embarrassing, a moonlight milk powder, diapers and so on all cost a lot of money.

So the couple soon went out to work.

A child is placed in grandparents' house, a child is placed in grandparents' house, and he takes a child with him.

In this case, it is difficult to raise your own children, let alone parents and parents-in-law.

But it would be nice if everyone is trying to make their lives better.

After all, filial piety is the traditional virtue of the Chinese nation.

If you don't have the conditions to retire, you must be kind to your parents-in-law.