Believe in fate or believe in yourself

After two or three years, because of the epidemic at home, the mobile phone really couldn't stand it, so I looked through the books I had read before in the study and vaguely remembered that I liked prose. I opened several collections of Bi Shumin's essays, ticked a few boxes and circled my favorite words and phrases.

Teachers have taught us to write compositions since childhood, using words, metaphors and parallelism. The more flowery the rhetoric, the higher the score. So do many students. In order to write a high-scoring composition, what they don't know very well echoes each other from beginning to end, and all subjects use a lot of words.

In the past, I didn't like narratives, but I liked essays that expressed my thoughts in scattered points. Just like girls in literature and art, I always wanted to express my bad mood through some metaphors.

Today, when I saw Bi Shumin's essay "Hold Your Right Hand", I felt a little bit like expressing something. I often stretch out my right hand and my left hand to compare with each other to see what is the difference in texture between them. Many people know (palm reading) that men are left and women are right, and many grandparents at home often take us to calculate and see what our future fate is, whether it is good or bad. What a fortune teller usually says in his memory always makes people feel very accurate, either very good or very poor.

Do you believe in fate? I often ask myself this question, is it fate or hard work? What is fate-material satisfaction, power control, people's control, rich spirit, bumpy life experience.

People are really complicated emotional animals.

Whenever I am depressed, confused, lonely and sad, I will especially believe in fate, believe that this is God's arrangement, let us hone and beat, and believe that fate is unfair.

Whenever I am happy, when I feel happy, when we are happy for success and Excellence, we also believe in ourselves more. We firmly believe that as long as we work hard, we will succeed, and as long as we dare to fight, we will reach the destination we want.

Gradually, I found that I just gave myself a way out and comforted myself. As Bi Shumin said, "When I was timid, I used fate as a shield. When I shouted at the biggest injustice of fate, it was a prelude to my escape. Fate is like a basket. I put my tolerance, forgiveness and all the delays into it, and then I covered it with the veil of fate. I carried it on my back and walked slowly forward, with a feeling of peace in my heart. " Find yourself a reason to feel at ease.

Is your destiny in your own hands? Some people say that fate is like holding a handful of sand in your hand. The tighter you hold on, the less you can hold on to things. When I was a child, I always wanted to grow up, thinking that I could control my own destiny. When you are old, you really realize the taste of being young and frivolous.

I believe in fate, everyone's life nodes are sometimes arranged, don't envy others, wait patiently. I also believe in myself. My attitude towards it is half and half. When the fate node comes, you need to be fully prepared in the early stage. When you are ready, fate will come naturally.

I like the word "accumulate wealth and make little money" very much. The fruit is heavy and needs to be accumulated slowly. I'm not that smart, and I don't have that kind of good luck. I can only move forward slowly. Maybe I walk slowly, but I know I won't stop. Keep hinting at yourself, don't worry, take your time, and you will get it.