Chaos ~ ~ ~ Can I bear this relationship? Whether ~ ~ sisters help me analyze it.

Meeting is always fate. At this point, it is really difficult to choose. You have thought about all the problems you may face in the future, especially the three pairs of old people you will face and the children you don't have. Responsibility and pressure are self-evident. But people have feelings. You might as well take this as a condition. He didn't tell you before because he was afraid that you would leave him as soon as you heard about the baby. It is estimated that he has encountered many such situations. However, looking at his heart for his ex-girlfriend's parents and children shows that he is also a kind person, really not a bad person, not deliberately trying to deceive you, but really helpless and heartless in reality. From this perspective, it is understandable. The main question now is how to deal with the future:

1. Evaluate your future work ability and income with him and see if it is too hard to raise three pairs of old people and two children (you should be able to have another child yourself);

2. Tell your family as soon as possible, and often tell them about getting married, listen to their opinions, and calmly analyze how to choose.

Since you came into contact with him, you agree with this feeling, and you think you will be happy. Now, you have another obstacle. Evaluate for yourself whether you are willing to give up this relationship and this person.

I don't believe in fate, and neither do you. But to believe in fate, I think you should finally listen to your heart, clear your mind alone before going to bed at night, and don't be too impatient. If you are destined to be him, you will eventually come together. Finally, I wish you happiness.

Supplement:

If so, your future life pressure will not increase because of his ex-girlfriend. The question now is: your family! If they don't agree with you to marry a man with children for secular reasons, it will be even more annoying. After all, they are also good for their children, which is understandable. In fact, this man is also a very affectionate person, not an unreliable and untrustworthy person. So, let's make it clear to his family. They have been there before, and some problems may go further than yourself. The family really doesn't agree, and you're not going to find one with children yourself. If you are willing to give up, the sooner you want to give up, the better, so as not to delay both sides. It would be great if your family allowed you to associate with him. The generosity of you and your family may bring happiness to the rest of your life. What's wrong!