If "destiny takes a hand", why do you want to tell fortune?

Every lunar new year's day, several of my good friends are bound to count their lives. One goes to see divination, and the other is more interesting. She counts every year, and every time is different.

The master said to go east, but she didn't dare to go west. We all told her that if you were so careful, we would think that your life path was paved by a fortune teller. Wouldn't it be more interesting if there was an episode in life? She was noncommittal and continued to be cautious.

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When I was young, my classmates always asked about feelings. I want to play any small divination game. Go to the temple and draw a sign for a good marriage. I hope to marry a good family in the future I don't have a golden spoon, but my future husband will. I frowned for a while when I got a bad draw. When I met a boy and felt that I was not the only thrill, I missed a good boy for no reason. After winning the lottery, everyone sticks together like future husbands, and will not break up even if it is inappropriate.

Later, when I entered the society, my colleagues preferred tarot cards. When I have something to do, I met a group of people in black tea shops and coffee shops and found friends who are familiar with us and are proficient in solving cards. Ask one by one and answer one by one. At this time, the problem is about work. Are there any bosses or colleagues? Do you want to change jobs? Will it develop in the future? Are the people around you rotten peach blossoms or good peach blossoms? Strange, like a question and answer in full bloom. ...

The days passed like this. In these days, modern people still tell fortune, but there are more psychologists to choose from. In my opinion, the difference between the two is not too far (sorry, it's a personal opinion). Fortune-tellers follow experience and observation, while psychologists follow scientific basis and academic research, and they all look at "human nature".

We often meet several fortune tellers:

1. It's only your life, no suggestion.

This kind of talk will say how you have been this year or recently, and nothing has happened yet, which is specious. You will say a few more words when you ask questions, and it will be over when you don't ask questions. You only know how to live, and it's up to you to avoid misfortune.

For example, "If there are no peach blossoms this year, you can't get married. Then you were so disappointed that you went back and had a big fight with your boyfriend, and you really didn't get married.

Or "there is a partial wealth this year!" So I bought some lottery tickets, and even if I didn't win, you wouldn't get even with the fortune teller.

2. only speak ill, I hope your luck will change.

This kind of fortune teller is actually a bit bad. I heard that I had goose bumps when I was accompanying my friends to calculate the health of my elders. First, the fortune teller looked sad, and then the atmosphere condensed, saying something about the possibility of hopelessness, the number of bad stars this year, what's the hurry, and so on, and then talking about how to change, how to save and how to avoid it.

This is not a question of whether you are allowed or not, but when you lose hope in your heart, your gas field is sluggish, and even the emotions and moods of people around you will be affected by you. How can I be energetic and let good things happen?

No matter what happens, it will give you positive energy

Usually fortune tellers will encounter difficulties and differences in their life, work, feelings or financial situation. No matter what happens to you, I think you can listen as long as the fortune teller guides you positively.

Once, I accompanied my best friend to ask her if she should get a divorce. No matter what the fortune teller says about her life, she will eventually add: "We still advise each other not to divorce. Although the marriage between my best friend and her ex-husband ended in water under the bridge, in this tangled process, she always handled it with a good starting point and passed this hurdle well.

Maybe you will ask, why can I write this? Is it because I often tell fortune? Yes, I used to like fortune telling.

When you are alive, you still have to go through customs when you are sad. Many things, even if you know earlier, will only lead to anxiety and worry in advance. It is better to live happily every day, and something in a good mood will follow.

Fortune-telling itself is life. Which fortune-teller you will meet will do the math for you. It's just a chance to meet him. He is good for you, and you are good, but it's not bad. He is not good to you, so what if you know? Some people deliberately do things that "seek good fortune and avoid evil", but the result is "evil".

In the recent news, a woman listened to the instructions of fortune telling and squatted at the crossroads where cars were coming and going to burn paper money, trying to help her family eliminate disasters and solve problems, but she was hit by a car and sent to the intensive care unit. Sow bitter fruit, do you want to bear the bitter fruit, is it possible?

Generally speaking, it is more accurate to calculate the past, but not so accurate to calculate the future, because the fate of the future of life can be changed.

So my attitude towards fortune telling is to ask myself from these "results" and change my feelings. Is my character not good enough? As a villain in the workplace, do you have any problems that need to be improved? Is it because of your consumption habits that you broke the money? Is it because you often walk and drive carelessly? Fortune-telling is to look at the future according to the present trend of fate.

This is why I used to have my life counted, in order to let the third party outside tell me the current trend of life, continue the current good trends and good ideas, and live better in the future; Bad atmosphere, bad personality, stupid ideas, don't plant evil causes and get bad consequences. (Of course, if you have high wisdom, you can analyze the good and the bad. Why bother this god, hurt this money, find someone to calculate. )

What can determine a person's future is not life, but mood.