The 90-year-old mother is evil all day, but she doesn't listen to advice. Her children are getting bored. What should I do?

What else can I do? I can only be filial and let my mother spend her old age safely!

When I mention my 90-year-old blind mother, I feel bitter tears! My mother was born before liberation. She is the daughter of a big landlord. Although she has experienced many family changes, she is still strong. To put it bluntly, she is an out-and-out troublemaker, making a mess of the family and making us brothers and sisters disown.

There are seven brothers and sisters in my family, five women and two men. The eldest is my sister, the second is my brother, I rank sixth and my brother ranks seventh. Our family is a little special. My mother hasn't been pregnant for years after my sister was born. At that time, my parents thought my sister was my only daughter in my life. Although my mother's feudal superstition of son preference is deeply rooted, she loves my sister in every way, which can be said to be a last resort.

When my sister was seven years old, my mother suddenly got pregnant. My mother is superstitious, and everything in my family likes to go to witches for divination. When mother went to divination, the witch said that mother was pregnant with a son. Mother was very happy when she heard these words. After my brother was born, although my parents preferred sons to daughters, my love for my sister never changed.

At that time, rural families had only one son, which was easily looked down upon, so parents always wanted to have another son. Who knows that after my brother was born, my mother gave birth to four daughters in a row. My mother is a little desperate. Not only did she hate the four daughters born behind us, but she often called us goods at a loss. All the delicious food at home is left to my brother and sister. Our four sisters have great opinions about our mother's practices and seldom get close to her.

My father is a serious hen-pecked wife, and his mother is his remote control. She told him to go left, but he was afraid to go right. My father sometimes feels sorry for my sister when he sees my mother's unfair practices, but he dare not openly resist my mother. My sister and I are ten years apart. She/kloc-got married at the age of 0/7. I only vaguely remember that on my sister's wedding day, many people came to dinner at home. I can't remember anything else, because I didn't get the care of my sister since I was a child. It can be said that my feelings with my sister are very cold.

After my brother was born, the four sisters behind us had a hard time, because my mother experienced too many changes, which led to poor health and could not do coolies. At that time, it was still the age to earn work points. My mother can only do light farm work and earn little work points. Father earns work points alone, and there are so many children at home. It's really hard, sometimes I don't have enough to eat.

At that time, our family could only cook porridge often, because there was no oil and water in our stomachs, and we were easy to get hungry. In order to support our two sons, my mother actually cooked for my brother and my younger brother in a small casserole, while our four daughters could only drink that rare rice porridge.

My younger brother and younger brother hardly have to work, and they play around like playboys every day, while our sisters will be scolded for being a little lazy. My second and third sisters didn't finish primary school, so they dropped out of school and went home to help. My fourth sister studied very well at that time, but she was dropped out of school and went home after reading only the first grade. My brother and younger brother didn't want to study, and my mother tried to mobilize them to study, but they went home before finishing junior high school. They wander around all day. My mother never asks them to work. Due to the lack of anti-allergic genes, I am easily allergic. When harvesting corn and cutting rice on a hot day, I feel itchy all over. But my mother doesn't understand me. She always thinks I'm an excuse to be lazy and often scolds me.

I have to study hard in order to escape from the hard rural life. But when the first grade starts next semester, my mother refuses to study for me. At that time, when I asked my mother for money to pay my tuition, my mother actually told me that it was useless to provide me with so many books, and I didn't need to raise her in the future. I ran to the river to fight. I originally wanted to commit suicide by throwing myself into the river, but it was a pity to think that I would die like this. After thinking about it, I gave up the idea and watched the sky get dark. I quickly got up and went home. When I came home, I saw the scene at home, which deeply hurt me. The family was having dinner there, and my parents turned a blind eye to me as if nothing had happened. No one ignored me or invited me to dinner. I feel very sad. I wonder if they will be sad if they die like this. I went to bed without eating or washing my feet that night.

Maybe my father was scared by my actions, but I didn't expect my severely henpecked father to secretly pick a load of rice to sell behind my mother's back, and the money made me pay the tuition. After that, my mother stopped telling me to drop out of school and go home. I thought my mother had figured it out, but I didn't. A teacher in our village knew that I was about to drop out of school, so she mobilized my parents, saying that I was so good at reading, and asked them to continue reading for me. She also said that she might rely on me one day!

Although life is hard, I still grit my teeth and keep studying. Fortunately, I was admitted to the technical secondary school with excellent results. At that time, my grades could go to key high schools, but my mother didn't agree. I could only go to secondary schools, and the class teacher felt sorry for me! At that time, being admitted to a publicly-funded technical secondary school meant eating state food. The news that I was admitted to a technical secondary school spread all over our village. At that time, I was the only girl in our village who was admitted to a technical secondary school. In those years, I have been a role model for those girls in our village. Because of the lack of love since childhood and indifference to the concept of home, I went to work in the field after graduating from technical secondary school.

In my junior high school years, all three sisters got married. When they got married, the bride price given by the man was taken away by his mother and there was no dowry. The three sisters are dissatisfied with their mothers and seldom return to their parents' homes after marriage. When the two sisters were in confinement, her mother said that she was in poor health and never took care of them or visited them.

After my brother got married, his ex-wife came from the mountains and her mother never liked her. The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is very stiff. Later, for some reason, my former sister-in-law left two young children and divorced my brother. Before long, my brother remarried. Soon my brother got married, too. Sometimes two sisters-in-law have a little conflict. Mother is not only not well coordinated, but also speaks ill of her daughter-in-law everywhere, which leads to great opinions on her.

In 20 10, my mother had an accident, her eyes were injured, and she soon became blind, all of which were caused by herself. Mother not only reflected on herself, but intensified. If her family is negligent, she will die. Fortunately, her old father took good care of her and gave her shit and urine, but she was not satisfied and often disliked her father.

In 20 15, my father was terminally ill, and the doctor said there was no cure, so he mobilized us to take him home. Although we took good care of our father, it wasn't long before the 88-year-old father left. During our wake, when many relatives of our family came to pay their respects, they all went to visit their mother. My mother actually told those relatives that if we continued to treat my father in the hospital, my father would not walk so fast. We were speechless when she said this.

Just two days after my father's funeral, my mother clamored for us to send her to a nursing home. Of the seven brothers and sisters in our family, I am the only one who comes out to work. The family is full of farmers. Of course, they don't agree to give their mother a nursing home. Moreover, my salary is not high, and I really can't afford that expense if I rely solely on my ability. When my uncle heard about it, he persuaded his mother for a long time before he let it go.

After her father died, her mother moved in with her brother. She thought that her father was gone and no one took care of her so hard. She may be under control, but she's not. Mother made a mess of my brother's house, and we felt speechless. When my brother was still alive, he often delivered meals to his mother. But the year before last, my brother left because of an accident, and the white-haired man sent the black-haired man first. My mother may have been stimulated, and being a demon is even worse. Everyone talks nonsense that her brother doesn't support her.

Although my brother and sister-in-law are very tight-tempered, three meals a day are cooked for my mother, but my mother also said everywhere that my brother abused her and refused to feed her. Sometimes when my brother and sister-in-law educate their children, the mother will scold them and make the family look like a pot of porridge. My mother has a clear mind and remembers everything clearly. Every time I go back to my mother's house, I will tell her to take care of my brother's family. After all, there is great pressure on my younger brother to educate two children. My mother never listened and spoke ill of her sister-in-law, which embarrassed me.

I have been married for a long time and seldom go home, so I will be responsible for my mother's expenses. I can basically send money back to my mother on time. Sometimes the salary is delayed and I can't send money to my mother on time. My mother will tell people everywhere that I haven't sent her money for a long time, which makes people speechless. It stands to reason that the mother is blind and the younger brother is responsible for providing three meals a day. Besides, he is too old to use money. I heard that my mother often takes the money I give, even to outsiders, but I don't care. I have a lot of money to give and often give more.

I often advise my mother not to make trouble and gossip. Although my mother promised at that time, she still went her own way in less than two days. Look at my mother. She's a demon. A few months ago, my 85-year-old menstruation came to warn her not to be a demon, saying that if her mother didn't get rid of this bad habit, menstruation would never recognize her again. Just a day or two later, my mother did the same thing again, which made people very helpless.

Every time I go back to my mother's house, I will tell my brothers and sisters that my mother is old and don't care too much about her. Who let us have a bad life and get such an unreasonable mother? Let's accept our fate, be kind to our mother and let her spend her old age peacefully. We are parents, and the children are watching us. The tree wants to be quiet and the wind will not stop, and the son wants to raise it. Our children are filial to their mothers, and their children will be filial to us in the future. If we don't support our mother, our children will not be good to us in the future. It is said that the eaves are dripping!

After my repeated persuasion, my brothers and sisters, including my sister-in-law, finally softened their attitude towards their mother.

When the 90-year-old man at home is a demon, we children just go in one ear and out the other, regardless of her. She was tired and naturally stopped.

The 90-year-old mother is evil all day, but she doesn't listen to advice. Her children are beginning to get bored with her. What should I do?

Everyone will go through the process from childhood to adulthood and from middle age to old age. Many old people are worse than children when they reach a certain age. Children are lovelier every day, and old people are confused every day.

By the age of 90, the problems of the elderly may become more and more. When children, they have to treat the elderly as their own children or grandchildren, and they are more and more patient to make the elderly better and better.

There are some people around me who are sent to nursing homes, so that the family can worry and just go for a walk every week.

However, in some nursing homes, she takes care of her diet and can't be as patient and meticulous as her family in the rest of the time.

The best way is to find something that can attract attention, such as TV or Tik Tok· Aote Quintz's, so that the more attractive she watches, the less energy she has to do other things.

We will get old one day. Of course, we hope our children can be patient with us, so we should take care of the elderly in many ways. Older people will certainly be more and more cooperative.

Send it to a nursing home.

1, father. It's 93. I pay 2,000 yuan a month, and his own pension is 900 yuan. He goes to the streets every day. I used to ride an electric car, and I fell several times, and my nose was swollen and even broken. It will take seven or eight kilometers to ride to the streets in the future, but it will be boring to ride. The police will get used to sending it home several times. As soon as the old man goes out, the neighbors will say that the old man has gone out to harm people again. It means that whoever knocks down is unlucky. But there is no way, always can't tie up. My brother always said that the old man was wasting money. I smiled, and the old man loved it. As long as he dares to spend money, I dare to pay. However, I fell at home two days ago and lay down for a month.

Grandpa is upstairs. Just over 60. I am sick, diabetes, coronary heart disease, hypertensive cerebral infarction. The sicker she is, the worse her temper becomes. She always hits people with crutches, and her aunt is always black and blue. Especially at night, I always go out to do business and collect accounts. What can we do? We can only send my uncle to a nursing home, 4500 yuan a month.

Their son is in Germany. Two years ago, I went to Germany three or four times a year to take care of my son. Now I'm fine, in a nursing home. They are not short of money, and it is unrealistic to hire a nanny. Two women can't move at all and can't catch the old man.

3. sister Wang Divorced female, over 50 years old. My mother is over 80 years old and has been paralyzed for more than 20 years. She's always yelling. Now that my daughter is going to have a baby, there is no way but to send the old lady to a nursing home.

Sister Wang is good enough to see her mother for more than 20 years. Now the old lady is skinny, her feet are twisted like withered vines and she has bedsores. Let me change the medicine. I changed it once, taught her by hand, and then told her to change it herself to strengthen nutrition and keep the bed soft. Two months later, I learned that the old lady's bedsore had healed. Although she let me know casually when she came to get the medicine, I was still greatly surprised and amazed.

Parents are the people who love us the most, and they are also our favorite people.

Old people are always like this when they are old. Psychologically, they seem to be rejuvenated. They are noisy. They are either demons, angry and don't listen to anything they say. Some even pulled their pants and told her n times that they had to go to the toilet to defecate and urinate, but she still couldn't remember, and she was stubborn ... like an old child.

At this time, the children are really tired. After all, the old mother is 90 years old, and as a child, she is also over 60-70 years old ...

But think about it, when we were young, just a few months, when we were one or two years old, didn't mom come like this?

At that time, I was in the infant stage, and my old mother was a young nanny. My old mother got married when she was young. Men are outside, women are inside, and everything in the family depends on women, even having children. She doesn't even have to sit for a month. After giving birth in the morning, I have to cook for the family in the afternoon. Not one or two children, some families basically have two or three, or even six or seven.

Babies of several months old and children of one or two years old often lose their temper or make noise for no reason. He doesn't know how to reason with him. Although my mother will be annoyed when she takes the doll, she still patiently educates the doll. ...

Old people are getting older and older. It doesn't matter if he doesn't like noisy old urchins, but he does take care of them. As a child, he was an old man at that time, and he couldn't do it. But think about how hard his mother raised us. Now that she is old and an old child, she is bored. She still has to do her duty and filial piety.

She raised us, and we will raise her old. A person's life is neither long nor short. Being a family in this life is a kind of fate. It's hard to say whether we can meet again in the next life.

She is old and doesn't know anything. She likes being a demon. While annoying her, you might as well be more patient and tolerant, so that your old mother can enjoy her old age.

It's not easy for them to raise us. Crows know how to feed back. How many people are in their sixties and seventies and their parents are still alive? When you are 60 or 70 years old, your parents or one of them is still alive, and that is true happiness.

Each of us will grow old, and one day, we still have to be filial and do our duty.

After all, the tree wants to be quiet and the wind will not stop. A son needs to be raised, not waiting for relatives. It is really a fate to be a family in this life. Be more patient and tolerant, and let the old mother enjoy her old age.

90 years old, how many days can I be a demon? 90 years old, most of my children are 60 years old. Although it is a little tired to take care of it, they are all retired after all. Maybe some children have a third generation, but what else can they do? 90 years old, you say no, you are gone. Hang in there!

It is not easy for an old man to live to 90 years old. The parts on my body have rusted for a long time, and I still have a few days to live. If you are the devil, you can be the devil. Let her go and watch you don't fall or freeze.

Old mother is a demon all day. If she has no other diseases, that's a good thing. Obviously, she is quick-thinking, and she still has requirements. People often say that old children mean this. Children should be patient, grab her heart, satisfy her whatever she likes and make her happy! Coax her and spend her old age safely.

Don't use the word devil, okay? My mother was born in 1940, and her monthly income is 2400 yuan. She is busy growing vegetables and watering every day. How much is a catty of vegetables here? 2 yuan has a catty of money. I advised her not to grow vegetables and to have the energy to do cleaning at home. However, people are not sick at all when they grow vegetables. When they do sanitation, they all call their knees painful, which is an incurable disease. To tell the truth, I am most afraid of my parents getting sick. They are timid. No matter where you are hospitalized, you need someone to stay with you 24 hours a day. Let them go to a nursing home? It's impossible. My sister likes to watch it during the day when my father is in hospital. After watching the evening, I just arrived at the hotel, and my sister called and said that I would send my father to have a check-up. Makes me look like an iron man. One month before my dad died, we spent 6.5438+0.5 million to save him, 6.5438+0.5 million! How many Jin of vegetables can I buy? Ah, it hurts! Distressed! The main reason is that money is spent and people are gone. If my mother is ill, it will be more troublesome. As long as there is pain, she will scream there. Hang in there, okay? It is out of the question. As for me, as long as my mother is not in hospital, I will stand and watch everything. Thank you very much, brother, no matter what parents do! As long as they're alive. I have lost my father for many years. Now whenever I go to any funeral, I will think of my father and cry!

My mother is 92 years old and is a little blind in one eye. She is in good health and has a physical examination like a young man. Just a hobby, partiality and gossip. The boss didn't support her, but she said the boss was the most filial. My second brother and I raised him. I raised him in the northeast, my second brother raised him in the northeast for 4 months, Yintan in Shandong for 2 months and Hainan for 6 months. Eat whatever you want, just play every day. A mobile phone makes hundreds of calls a month. Hundreds of phone bills are a medium for small talk. Send the elderly for a year. The living expenses are paid by us, by the eldest daughter-in-law, and the second brother's family has no money. Speechless, there is a god with a head of three feet, and filial piety will be rewarded. Support yourself and the boss will be rewarded and comforted.

At this age, there is love. Let him go to the bay.