How to make a mean, unreasonable and listening parent correct his mistake?

1. First of all, all parents in the world love their children, perhaps in different ways; Secondly, the older generation of women are somewhat snobbish. Don't try to change them at once, and don't argue about how to change them when they are old. Just be flexible in practice and know what you are thinking. They really can't tell the truth. I think it's all good intentions, as long as it doesn't affect family harmony. 3. Find reasons from yourself and use wisdom to resolve conflicts. I think we can handle problems well by fully understanding our parents. For example, when your parents-in-law came to your house for the first time, your mother pretended not to see it. Maybe she is fighting for your position so that you won't be angry in the future. Besides, since you know your mother so well, you can talk to your parents-in-law before you come and tell them your mother's temper, so things won't be so embarrassing. Another example is to buy clothes for the little sister's children. By knowing your mother, it is completely unnecessary for your mother to know such a thing. Just do it secretly. You and your lover give your parents a lucky money of 1000 yuan each. As a result, they also talked about it everywhere. They mean well, and it's nothing to show off their children's filial piety in front of outsiders. If I were you, I would say don't talk about it before giving them money, or you will lose money next time. In a word, you are not fighting against your parents, but against feudal ideas. Since it is an idea, it needs to be changed slowly.