How to predict the success rate of chasing girls?

How to chase girls with high success rate?

I have understood the five steps of chasing girls, and the success rate of picking up girls has greatly increased.

Boys often make mistakes when chatting with girls. Of course, the main reason why she ignores you is not only because you made a mistake, but also because you don't have a correct system and method of chasing girls. The first step to chasing a girl, you don't know her well. The most important thing at this time is to arouse your curiosity, make the other person want to explore you and give her something emotional. That is emotional chat, not rational chat. Mobilize her mood through some humorous ways. Step two, let the other person pay attention to you, and then you can exchange information with her. And through some reasonable high-value display to generate initial attraction.

Step three, you can share some of your hobbies with her. The purpose of this is to resonate between you and establish a sense of connection.

Step 4: You can talk about what you think about something, so that you can see your personality. And you can judge whether your three views are consistent.

Step five, when you have finished the previous steps, you can find an opportunity to send an invitation.

These five stages are a gradual and slow upgrading process. If you don't have the concept of progressive relationship and want to invite directly without a few words, then 99% of you will be rejected by girls. Do you understand?

How to chase girls

The most precious experience. . Hehe ~ ~ I wish you success first ~ ~ Chasing girls requires a surprise attack with tactics. Be confident. No matter how ugly and poor you are, be confident. Maybe the girl you like likes you. So before you pursue a girl, you should have confidence.

Don't think that you can catch up with all the girls just because you are rich or handsome. Moral girls will appreciate your connotation more, so when you get along, show your self-cultivation and demeanor.

Don't be arrogant, and don't show off your advantages and capital everywhere. This will give people a frivolous feeling. Don't brag. Girls are not fools. They can see your good points. Girls like boys with depth very much.

4. Having culture and connotation does not mean giving up individuality. On the contrary, boys with personality will fascinate girls now, but you should master the performance of this personality and don't draw a tiger to make trouble.

Be generous, even if you have no money, don't be so stingy in front of the girl you like. Not that you are extravagant, but don't haggle over every ounce. Of course, many girls still like rich boys, but I have never looked down on such kitsch girls.

6. In the process of pursuing beauty, you will definitely pay a lot, and you may not be rewarded. But don't talk about what you have done for her all day because you have paid so much, which will make them look down upon it. Girls will not be touched by your efforts on the surface, but they are still very happy inside. She will remember everything you have done for her. Try to keep working hard! 7. Some people say don't give girls gifts casually. I don't agree with this. I think we should give them gifts and do more for them. A girl with a conscience will feel indebted to you, so she won't have the heart to refuse your date and so on, so that she can get along. Of course, the premise of giving gifts is that girls have a good impression on you.

8. The purpose of our pursuit of girls is to make them fall in love with themselves, so we should be like Leslie Cheung in "Standing in Okinawa": we have been circling in front of Faye Wong, not to see Faye Wong, but to let Faye Wong see him. We should learn to show our strengths! 9. Learn to speak sweet words. Although everyone knows that sweet words are deceptive, girls just love to hear them. Don't be afraid of nausea and affectation. I know it's fake, but I have to say it.

10. Women are proud of themselves. So we should always praise them. Even if they are as ugly as Zhao Benshan, we should say that she looks like a fairy. They may not believe it, but they must be very happy.

1 1. Learn to do romantic things, and remember that any girl likes romance, even if she is usually serious. I once lit a heart with a candle under my ex-girlfriend's dormitory. Many people think I'm shameless, but I won the heart of a beautiful woman.

12. As the saying goes, men are not bad and women don't love them. When you are very familiar, playing a little evil, saying some naughty words and touching your hands will make girls very happy. Don't always be such a gentleman, it will give people a feeling of Mona.

13. Don't slander your rival in love in front of her, we should be generous and cheat him behind his back! Appropriately praising your rival in love will make her appreciate you more.

14. Be careful, pay attention to her usual words and give her a surprise. For example, the first time I pursued a girl, the night before, she casually said that these shoes were a little cramped. The next day, I braved the rain and went to town to buy her a new pair of shoes. She was very moved.

15. If you want to be her boyfriend, you must be friends with her good friends. Buy off her friends. When you are unsuccessful, it must be her good friend who is with her. If her good friend puts in a good word for you, you will get twice the result with half the effort. This also helps to understand her personality and dribs and drabs.

16. Stick to it. If you ask her out, she may refuse you the first time, but don't give up. You should ask her out in another way, and take the initiative to ask her out as soon as you get the chance. Every date should make her feel good and happy, and there will be more dating opportunities in the future.

17. It should be hot and cold, and there are advances and retreats. You can accompany her to study in the study room for four or five days in a row, and send her text messages and phone calls for three or four days in a row, but suddenly you are cold to her for one or two days, which will appropriately make her lose her appetite and make her feel inseparable from you.

18. In fact, the best trick to use, which is also the trick that everyone loves to use, is to make friends with her first, so that you will have more opportunities for performance and more opportunities for success. But what many people can't do well is get along too well, which will make the other person feel nothing for you. So let you be her friend, not your friend. Try to show all your advantages, but don't show your past and your thoughts easily. It is more attractive to leave some mystery.

19. Be self-motivated, even if you don't like learning very much, show your ambition in front of her. And in the process of getting along, you should show your shrewdness and ability. Girls in this era don't like timid and ordinary men.

20. Don't act like she won't marry. Make her feel that you are very important to her and that she can't live without you. Wouldn't it be a great loss to meet a girl who likes to dump boys?

2 1. In the communication place, we can't understand her preferences and personality. At this time, you have to be mysterious so that she doesn't know you. When you get to know her, you will immediately become the kind of boy she likes, regardless of her dress and personality.

22. Have a sense of humor, but don't be too poor. Don't tell a joke several times. Humor won't make you just tell jokes. But I don't know how to have a sense of humor. I'm poor anyway.

23. When you feel that you have no hope of catching up with her, you can give up temporarily, give the other person space to think and give yourself time to re-examine. Make a new plan and appear in front of her with a new attitude. This is called retreat for progress.

You can lie to her, but don't let her know that you lied to her, or you will be finished, depending on your level of lying. Of course, it is best to be sincere! 26. In fact, any so-called method of picking up girls and the dogma of chasing girls are useless. As Feng Qingyang said: winning without recruiting is the highest realm! So no matter who you pursue, don't use these methods rigidly. In fact, every girl has her own personality, and not all girls are the same. One of my ex-girlfriends doesn't like clean boys and thinks I am the most handsome when I grow a beard and smoke. Very interesting. So instead of learning how to pick up girls, it is better to pursue every girl with your heart.

First of all, there are usually two reasons for this situation: first, she has a boyfriend or a favorite, and she runs away to avoid the trouble and embarrassment of the two people in the future, so you'd better give up, because there can be no result! Second, even she doesn't know whether she likes you or not, but your behavior may scare her and make her feel at a loss, because girls are always slower than boys, not to mention that she doesn't necessarily like you! The more you pester her now, the more you will arouse her disgust! You have to find out the situation before you can take action! Don't trap yourself in a boring relationship, you will only hurt yourself in the end.

I said the second case. Although she is at large, she will feel sorry for you and your kindness. But there is no way, she may just want to be quiet, and she will be resistant to any short message you send now, so she won't accept it! I suggest you give each other some time to think about it! Adjust yourself at this time. Women like a generous man with a sense of humor. The most important thing is to be masculine. Don't cater to her deliberately, it will make her think that you have no opinion! Don't text her that you are wrong, it's even more stupid! After she calms down for a while, send her some funny messages to show your humor. Pretend you don't care. In fact, women are very possessive. The less you care about her, the more she thinks you want to be with you.

Conquer her with your charm, not beg! Come on ~ ~ you can do it.

How can I catch up with girls?

From the girl's point of view, it is disgusting to see that some boys want to chase the girl they like but dare not, and want others to chase them backwards. Most girls don't take the initiative to pursue the boys they like, unless they really like them too much or are the kind of girls who are very brave and brave. So, if you like a girl very much and think she is a little interested in you, take the initiative and don't engage in a tug-of-war with her, you will feel uncomfortable. Maybe the person you like will also suffer.

When girls are being chased, their psychology is very complicated. She may be happy, but she is a little scared. She has ambivalence towards the boy who intruded into her quiet life. She didn't mean to. Don't think she is testing you, but she is actually fighting herself. She is afraid of getting hurt. Don't be afraid that your initiative will bring her disgust. If you don't take the initiative, she won't take the initiative, and it will fade slowly. It's normal if your initial confession is rejected by her. Don't be discouraged, who knows what this girl is thinking? Maybe if you confess twice, she will be moved by you. A good girl with a kind heart is easily moved. If you encounter setbacks, leave immediately, never reply to this girl again, protect yourself tightly and lick the wound silently. And when you are in pain, as everyone knows, that girl may be regretting, regretting! Maybe she will secretly cry and regret rejecting you, and then she will be sad to see your indifferent eyes, but she won't tell you, and she will never let you come back to chase her.

Your excessive self-esteem may hurt a girl's sensitive heart. She will think that you don't really like him, so _ will give her up? Some people say that it is really difficult for boys and it is not easy to chase girls. But my feeling is that this phenomenon is inseparable from the social role orientation of men and women. From a physiological and social point of view, women are always passive.

If, on the other hand, men are ashamed and women are brave, the world will be in a mess! Women's shyness is always touching ~ I always heard that a brave man overcame many difficulties and finally won the heart of a beautiful woman. There are few examples to the contrary.

Some boys are afraid that others will accuse them of stalking and beating, leaving a bad reputation. But I think boys pursue the girl they like and continue to be nice to this girl after some setbacks, which shows that people really like it and are sincere. If it doesn't work, there's nothing to regret. What happened? Who makes people like it? I hate boys who blindly follow others, and I hate boys who have no opinions and care too much about what others think of them. They deserve not to find a girlfriend.

If you are a man, be brave. Girls are emotional and easily immersed in love. Although you work hard, once your heart touches her, you will get more and more love. Such examples abound around us. Girls are gentle and considerate to their boyfriends. In order to get this sweetness, what was the original hard work? And most good girls are devoted and single-minded. Therefore, it is suggested that some boys be brave and pursue their favorite girls. Don't be so timid. First, people feel that you are not manly. Second, it makes you feel uncomfortable. But, most importantly, you get nothing in the end. Happiness is always earned by yourself, don't expect others to give it to you! 1. What kind of first impression should girls leave? 1. I think the most important thing is to let girls see your self-motivated. The greatest charm of a man lies in his successful career. Young people can't talk about success for a long time. At this time, you should make girls feel that you are a self-motivated person. Others can talk nonsense, but this question cannot be vague. You must tell girls that you are full of confidence in the future and you are not satisfied with the status quo. B You already have a long-term plan. In a word, your future is not a dream.

2. Be confident and responsible. Don't be a child. Girls are lazy and want to find someone to rely on. You should show your confidence and sense of responsibility. It's better to have a wrong choice than no choice at all.

3. Don't be too serious, but don't be too casual. Be serious where you should be serious, and ridicule when you should be ridiculed. Girls like men who are a little cynical, so it seems that they don't care about anything, which is too dull.

A man who looks mature, calm and unhurried has fatal attraction to girls.

Second, how to further contact with girls 1. The most important thing at this stage is not to worry, not to make things clear, so that people can see at a glance that you are chasing others. Think about it, most people don't like you at first sight, but they don't hate you at first sight. They are all children of ordinary families. Good feelings need to be realized through constant understanding, so the key to the problem is the opportunity for further development you want. Think about it from the girl's point of view: if you go straight to have sex with someone, the girl must be under psychological pressure. If I find that I don't like you after a while, then this is a trick _? So if you come out with a firm attitude from the beginning, you will basically get bored immediately.

2. To start with a low profile, we must first position the relationship as "friends", which is originally "ordinary friends". You want to be a "good friend". Those with taste can also ask the other party to be a "confidante" or something. In short, don't say "chasing you". Think about it, if you don't mention "chasing" at all, then there is less chance for a girl to "refuse" you-how can you refuse if you don't chase her? This can relieve the psychological pressure of girls and let you have a smooth relationship. Don't fantasize about agreeing to marry you after three days. You should fully communicate and understand. Feelings don't come out of thin air.

3, don't be too impatient in the communication process, relax, don't pester others all day, whoever does this to you will be tired. A good friend of mine told me that the key to chasing girls is eight words-"hot and cold, playing hard to get". You always follow her, and naturally you won't think you are good. If you are cold for a day or two, girls will remember the benefits of your existence. Never show the ambition of "don't marry or not". It is not good to be too fake. Sometimes you can play a little trick.

4. Create opportunities appropriately. I said before, don't do "you are chasing others" right away, you need to get close to girls. At this time, it depends on your creativity. You can collect information and find ways to turn waiting for rabbits into encounters; You can also pretend to be casual and find the best reason to invite someone to do something with you. In a word, this is the most technical place. If you really can't, you can ask your predecessors.

5. Never: It is impolite to give gifts to others casually. Some people are eager to chase girls and like to buy things for others often, but they don't know that chasing girls is the most taboo. As the saying goes, "something for nothing". If you give something to others like this, you are putting pressure on them, and they will feel indebted to you, so girls will try to return your favor. If they can't, they will find a way not to associate with you, so they won't always owe you a favor. If you want to show your sincerity, you might as well invite girls to spend it together, such as finding a good restaurant to eat or an expensive place to play together. Girls can naturally see that you spent a lot of money, but after all, the money was spent by two people, not taken home.

Third, what is a "girlfriend"? 1. Girlfriend is a fact, not a promise. You start dating girls, from "ordinary friends" to "good friends" to "very, very good friends who talk about everything". One sunny afternoon, you "accidentally" took her hand. In "Willow Shoot on the Moon", you suddenly attack and kiss her. At this time, she is already your girlfriend. Whether she admits it or not, she already thinks you are her boyfriend. I know the best. I didn't ask "Would you like to be my girlfriend" until I went to bed. Finally, I am a girl: "Why don't you ask me to be your girlfriend?" So, don't rush to pierce that enough paper, the more hazy the situation, the better for you.

2. What is "confession"? As I said before, confession is actually just a form, and the correct order should be: in fact, you have become your girlfriend, and you can confess to others. Many people don't understand this problem. They always feel that people promise to be their girlfriends first, and then what? I can only say that they are very, very simple and very, very stupid.

3. Have you ever had to confess? Yes, for example, there is a third party, or your relationship with a girl is immature, but two people may be separated for a while. At this time, confession is an immature confession, which is very risky. It is similar to the grim situation when playing Go. The backward side was forced to release the "winning hand". If you win, you win. If you lose, you can only say that you are born with bad luck.

4. Don't export the word "love" easily. I often see "bold confession" in the forum. To be honest, I really think this is a very immature performance. "Love" is a sacred word, which means pursuit, commitment and even a responsibility. A man who casually says "love" is irresponsible.

Fourth, civilized love, can't force 1, not every girl can catch up with good girls, there will always be many people chasing them, it is impossible to satisfy everyone's wishes, and there will always be losers. For example, even if you study hard and master the highest principle of chasing girls, you can't catch up. Look at the problem from another angle. Even if a rural nanny who didn't graduate from elementary school is good to you, you won't fall in love with her if she earns 600 yuan a month to buy you 700 yuan as a gift and is willing to be a cow and a horse for you. If she cries and pesters you every day, you must feel bored. So love needs a material foundation, at least a balance.

2. Chasing girls is a serious social activity. Don't bother others, leave yourself a way out. Why don't men have wives? Some girls are snobs. If you are not convinced, you can get angry and try your best to prove that "she was blind at that time". Never mistake others for yourself.

How to chase girls? How to fall in love?

How much do you care about giving gifts? Of course, first of all, you can't make the other person hate, otherwise it's useless to do anything.