How to treat the emotional entanglements between Lin Chi-ling and Jerry Yan?

Lin Chi-ling and Jerry Yan were entangled in this relationship for 17 years, and finally Lin Chi-ling married someone else.

Judging from their feelings, they are doomed to be unable to get together.

Jerry Yan's family conditions are not very good. Father/kloc-died at the age of 0/2, and later his mother worked as a tailor and raised him and his sister.

Jerry Yan was very unloving when he was a child. He once said when he was a child? Nobody hurts, nobody loves. .

This growing environment makes him introverted, passive to feelings and afraid to express his love directly.

What Lin Chi-ling wants is a stable and healthy relationship. When describing this relationship, she said that she could hold her hand and let her lean on her shoulder.

Unfortunately, Jerry Yan cannot provide such stability and security. He doesn't feel safe himself, let alone others.

A person wants love, and a person is also asking for love, so two people together can only entangle each other, torture each other and be exhausted in their feelings.

So, two people broke up. Later, when Lin Chi-ling was asked about reunification, she said? See what the other person thinks. But Jerry Yan chickened out after hearing this. That depends on her, her attitude? .

I still remember Lin Chi-ling said in "The Story of Qipa":? Love sometimes ends in vain, but after all, you want her to finish what she started. Draw a full stop to move forward. ?

But this period, you don't have to draw it.

Every relationship is more or less influenced by your past.

From the past, you learned how to get along with people, how to express love, how to manage feelings, and even lose your temper and blame your partner, all of which are related to your family.

But if we find our own emotional problems, it is possible to handle our feelings well.

I hope that every dear you can have a good mode of getting along, make a positive result with your other half and step into a happy marriage.

I think Jerry Yan and Lin Chi-ling have deep feelings, otherwise they wouldn't have been entangled for more than ten years. If two people take a step forward, there may be different endings.