What did your college love experience teach you?

I never think that love is just how two people meet by destiny and how to be happy together. Love in college is a compulsory course for everyone.

It can be said that it is really a pity that universities don't talk about a love, which is a small flaw in their youth.

The feeling in college is different from that after graduation. Everyone is still relatively simple and true, and most people are experiencing their own ignorant and young love enlightenment stage. Love in this environment is actually the process of two people growing up together. What we learn from it is how to love, trust and understand.

Love in college, no matter what the final result, is good that we all become better people.

My boyfriend and I met in high school, and we always liked each other before, and we were together in college. Before I was with him, I was an eccentric person, afraid to communicate with others and express myself. But do you believe that someone will really come to save you in this world? Without any intention, it just happened naturally.

In the interaction with my boyfriend, I found that almost every time we quarrel, I will be a little selfish. I hope that things will be done according to my own preferences and decisions will be made according to my own ideas.

Of course, sometimes his impatience and bad temper make me unbearable.

That's it. Two people who clearly love each other have some irreconcilable contradictions. Feelings are going through a great test.

Some people say that if you love each other enough, you will change for him. Yes, I quite agree with this sentence. I still remember when my boyfriend and I were deadlocked, I said, "What should I do? Since you can't accept me like this, do we still need to be calm? " At this time, he will see through me.

"I hope you can change your temper, otherwise not only I, but also people around you can't stand it. If you go your own way, I can only say "I will accommodate you" but you still have to change. "

In the face of this sulking man who can tolerate you because he loves you, why can't he make a change?

Even if the process of this change is very long, very long. I changed it for four years.

If you can't tolerate others in your life and be kind to someone from the heart, there is only one reason. You don't know how to love someone, and you don't know how to love the world.

And love is a warm current that melts the cold heart.

In college, we are full of childishness and domineering. In fact, except for parents and lovers, no one can directly hit our hearts. Let's correct our shortcomings and become better people. We seem to be a little afraid of the outside world and dare not open our hearts to others completely, but we also hope that in our youth, there will be a shining person who will light up our lives and turn us into an elf full of love and happiness.

Learning to love is a lifelong task. We not only love those who are kind to us, but we can really embrace the world with open arms, feel everyone's goodwill, tolerate everyone's flaws, respect, trust and understand. As long as there is love in your heart, you will always be invincible.

In fact, my boyfriend and I were separated for a while in the first semester. At that time, we were in a confused period, thinking that love hindered us from pursuing our own future. In fact, now that I think about it, it's not the fault of love. It's that two people haven't tried to talk to each other, and what the other really wants.

I found that what I want most is him. No matter what the future holds, I hope to have his participation. Besides, with him around, I am more motivated. In fact, it doesn't affect my pursuit of my own ideals. It's just a question of how to balance feelings and study. Of course, this is another story. Most importantly, I found that in my heart, love has become the most important thing, and it is unparalleled.

If we learn to give up something for love, pay for love, and do our best for love, we will truly become a flesh-and-blood and caring person, and we will really graduate from college.

This trait is not only helpful to communicate with the people we love, but more importantly, it inspires your way of thinking to measure the world. What kind of eyes do you see the world with? The highest state is to see the world with "love".

So brave enough to love, you will find that it is love that makes us better people.

And youth is the best testimony of all these "people".