Song Dandan was saved by Ni Ping, but why still won't talk to her?

Speaking of Ni Ping, we all know that she is an excellent host and actress. She and Zhao Zhongxiang have been hosting the audience on the stage of the Spring Festival Gala for many years. She is graceful, beautiful and confident. She talked in Kan Kan, Kan Kan in the center of the stage and was deeply loved and sought after by the audience.

Ni Ping let us see the true state of a host. She is good at grasping people's feelings and hearts, and her acting skills are also very good. She once won the Golden Rooster Award for Best Actress.

Ni Ping has always been witty, very generous, and likes to joke, so he is also very talented in comedy.

Today, I want to talk about Song Dandan, Ni Ping's best friend. Everyone knows that Song Dandan is the queen of the sketch world. She always looks at her and loves her to perform for the audience and bring wonderful works.

What I want to say is that 23 years ago, Ni Ping saved Song Dandan's life with a phone call, but Song Dandan still refused to talk to Ni Ping. Let's walk into their world together and learn the story.

0 1. 196 1, a baby girl was crying in a military compound in Beijing. Song Dandan came to her parents, and her arrival added a lot of laughter to the family.

Her father was a soldier in his early years, and after he retired, he became the secretary of the Beijing Federation of Literary and Art Circles, and his mother was a teacher.

Song Dandan is the youngest child in the family, with one brother and two sisters in the world. Because the family has a large population, parents have been busy working to earn money to support their families, so Song Dandan was brought up by her grandmother since childhood.

When I was a child, Song Dandan's academic performance never got up, so her parents often urged Song Dandan to study hard, and Song Dandan, who didn't like reading, was always uninterested in learning.

Therefore, Song Dandan regretted losing the college entrance examination. For the future, Song Dandan had to find another way out. She is very inclined to performing arts, so she entered the performance training class of Beijing People's Art Theatre, and successfully entered and became one of them.

Song Dandan is very talented in performing arts and is always thorough. Through his own efforts, Song Dandan became an actor.

1984, Song Dandan also played Ganoderma lucidum in the drama A Wedding, and won the first prize of the Ministry of Culture and the excellent actor award for his wonderful performance.

Song Dandan, an outstanding actress, has appeared in the TV series "Find the World" and the movie "Crescent Moon" successively, and won the Best Supporting Actress Flying Award and the Italian Silver Award at the 4 1 salernitana Salerno International Film Festival respectively.

Her acting career has developed quite smoothly. With her humorous style, she also stepped onto the stage of the Spring Festival Evening, bringing an essay "Lazy People Dating" to the audience.

The success of this sketch can not be separated from the help of Song Dandan's good friend Ni Ping.

02. When rehearsing this sketch, Song Dandan didn't know which dialect was better because of the dialect problem.

Song Dandan and Ni Ping talked about this topic when they were eating, because Song Dandan is from Beijing, and his accent is not like that of a rural person. Ni Ping, who likes to learn Shandong dialect, suggested using Shandong dialect.

Since then, Song Dandan has been learning Shandong dialect and talking with Ni Ping. In the end, Song Dandan's sketch "Lazy Dating" quickly became popular, and the lines in it: "My name is Wei Shufen, female, 29 years old, and I am still unmarried ... It has become a classic.

Therefore, Song Dandan became famous, his career was pushed to the peak, and he stepped onto the stage of the Spring Festival Evening one after another, bringing countless classic sketches to the audience.

With the smooth development of her career, Song Dandan also gained emotionally. She and Ying Da came together. On July 1989, 13, Ying Da and Song Dandan got married in Dongcheng District Sub-district Office.

After marriage, Song Dandan gave birth to his son Batu, and the family of three lived a very happy life.

However, this marriage only lasted 10 years. 1997, Song Dandan and Ying Da walked out of the Civil Affairs Bureau together. Song Dandan accidentally saw a reminder message on Ying Da's mobile phone, which showed:

"Things done? When will you go home? "

Only one month after the divorce, Ying Da and Liang Hongcong reorganized their families. When Song Dandan learned about it, he felt that he had been played. She also knows that they are already ready, just waiting for her to talk about divorce.

During that time, Song Dandan's feelings were deceived and her world was plunged into darkness. She once thought about suicide. Years later, she recalled:

"I was 36 years old when I divorced. This is the most insecure age for a woman. I once fell into despair and felt abandoned by the world. "

"Lacrimosa during the day, talking with a pillow at night."

One day, when Song Dandan was trying to end his life, Ni Ping made a phone call. When answering the phone, Ni Ping asked her what she was doing, and Song Dandan replied:

"I want to die."

Ni Ping:

"Don't stay at home alone, don't die, come to my house to clean the floor! What are you doing dead? "

03. In this way, Song Dandan came to Ni Ping's home, and Ni Ping cooked a sumptuous meal for her and began to open her heart.

Ni Ping once suffered the emotional betrayal of consent, because after experiencing it, she can fully understand Song Dandan's feelings. After enlightening Song Dandan, I advised her to take the child with her.

And support her to live a good life. After that, Song Dandan rallied and took custody of Batu. Mother and son live together, still living their own wonderful lives.

It can be said that Ni Ping saved Song Dandan's life. They are sisters who talk about everything and have a very good relationship.

But many years later, I found that Song Dandan and Ni Ping didn't talk much, and Song Dandan was speechless about this "love-hate" girlfriend.

She said on the show that Ni Ping:

"She is very smart and speaks well, but sometimes jokes actually hurt others' self-esteem. She never thought she was joking in her heart, so she had no idea that the other person was hurt. "

She said that she once got together with many distinguished friends and introduced Ni Ping to everyone:

"Sister Ni Ping is my best friend and a good friend for many years."

Who knows, always joking Ni Ping freely to 1:

"Who is your good friend? We have only known each other for a few days. "

There seems to be no problem with such jokes, but Song Dandan, who has always been saving face, feels humiliated in front of his friends.

Song Dandan said that she can joke in front of acquaintances, but joking in front of new friends hurts her self-esteem.

And also shouted to Ni Ping from a distance in the program: "Ni Ping, do you know why I don't care about you for so many years?"

Although sometimes jokes really hurt people, they are good friends who talk about everything. Although they have talked less in recent years, they often get together in private, hoping that friendship will last forever.