Fortune-telling in Qianfo Temple _ Fortune-telling in Qianfo Mountain

What if the family is too superstitious?

Parents are too superstitious, which is not a good thing. I think a little superstition is fine, but too much superstition will delay many things.

What if you have a superstitious parent? As a child, it is not easy to interfere too much. But some superstitions really need to be stopped, otherwise it will lead to catastrophe. Just before, I saw a woman who went back to her mother's house after giving birth. The child is ill. Her mother took her children to that superstitious place and pricked them with needles. The result became more and more serious, and his daughter felt something was wrong. She couldn't stand it any longer and sent the child to the hospital.

It is no problem to say that acupuncture is the way to see a doctor, but if superstition can prick children with needles, it will only do more harm to children. Therefore, in the face of these life-threatening situations, we must stop them in time. As children, it's hard to say how parents are wrong. We must use the right method. You can coax him, tell him the dangers of superstition, and tell him the examples around you.

My mother is a little superstitious in our family, and my father is not superstitious at all. The contrast between the two is particularly large, so I remain neutral in the middle, believing a little and not believing a little.

If my family didn't believe me at that time, my mother would think there would be some ghosts and gods. When I was a child, I often saw that one of the methods that my mother often used was to stand water with chopsticks. Just put three chopsticks in the bowl, and then pour water on the chopsticks. When I was a child, I looked very angry and thought that there were really those things. But when I grew up, I learned physics and so on, and I thought that thing could have stood up. It's not that unclean things will stand up.

But every time my mother makes it, chopsticks will feel that there is something when they stand up. If you don't stand up, there will be nothing. Many times, I told him that it was not like this at all, and he wouldn't believe me. But it doesn't hurt much, so let her go! As long as it has no influence on his body and mind and our family, I think it is better not to interfere too much.

And those who burn incense and worship Buddha now, I think they are also quite superstitious! Before the college entrance examination, my friend invited me to burn incense in the Qianfo Temple over there. Because it is said to have the effect of 1000 Ford Buddha. I thought it was enough to burn incense and bow down. But I didn't expect to burn a incense, but it cost hundreds of dollars. I think this is obviously cheating money, and it is meaningless to worship Buddha.

If you use Buddhism to cheat money, I feel too heartless. But some people are willing to fight and suffer. Anyway, I will never spend money to build a temple again. As for parents, we should also advise them at this time.