What are the reasons why men don't want to have children?

Giving birth to a child is childbirth, which is the last link after a woman is pregnant. So, what are the reasons why men don't want to have children?

Cover your face first. My brother was out of line and was married by a child. At that time, it was still in the early 1990s, and getting pregnant before marriage was still an extraordinary phenomenon. My brother was only 22 years old, but I was still very excited about having a man of my own. Of course, it has something to do with my life background. First, I live in a small town, and marriage has long been a routine phenomenon.

Second, because I was already working at that time, although my income was not high, I barely made a career; Third, my girlfriend and I are middle school classmates and know each other very well. So, at the age of 22, I did two important things in my life. Now that I think about it, I really answer the old saying in our hometown: early birth and early birth. Generally speaking, women may be more cautious than men in giving birth to children, and few men are unwilling, unless men and women with abnormal feelings are another matter. The instinct of men is to reproduce. For most married men, getting married and having children is both a social concept and a family responsibility, which is normal, just like drinking dried radish porridge.

Of course, the current social order is very different from before, with various values fighting against each other, and some men are not as anxious as we were, showing extraordinary IQ. Oh, my God, isn't that a fairy? According to my brother's logic, there should be five reasons why men don't want to have children after marriage. First, the pressure is too great. This is the most excuse. Yun Yun wants to give children the best educational environment and living environment. This is purely alarmist, and a simple living environment is actually the best educational environment. Second, I haven't adapted to the role change. In other words, I played too hard and wanted to be a good husband, but I didn't have the courage to be a good father.

The third is Dink's thought. Some men really don't like children. Dink is also an attitude towards life, but at least we should respect the wishes of both husband and wife. Fourth, not loving his wife enough. Needless to say, although some men are married, they still walk with their ex-girlfriends. Of course, they don't want to have children. The fifth is to leave a back road. This kind of man is generally disappointed with marriage, staying away from marriage and leaving a way out for divorce, many children will have more resistance.

There used to be an idiom that all roads lead to the same goal. The explanation in the dictionary is that we can reach the same destination through different channels, which means we can get the same result through different methods. In modern times, with a new understanding, all children in China have various ideals, for example, they all want to be heroes, teachers and scientists. When they grow up, they all become the same ideal: buying a house. This is the same goal. I summed up five reasons why men don't want to have children. Although the reasons are dazzling, in a man's mouth, all the reasons will have one, and that is the first one: too much pressure. Too much cover pressure is a panacea. Apply it wherever it hurts and itches. Stop rubbing your eyes. Calm down. This requires women to say goodbye slowly. I am an old man, and I really want to give a piece of advice to a woman in marriage. A husband who doesn't want to be a father is not a good man. Even if the pressure is really too great, at least you should have a small plan, instead of putting on a fearless look like a tortoise eating the weight.

Only by knowing what men really want can we prescribe the right medicine. There is a story in Laughter in the Woods: I rented a monk's room and studied all my life. I played every day and went back to my room in the afternoon to ask the children to get books. The children looked at the selected works and said:? Low. ? Holding "Hanshu" and looking at it, he said: Low. ? Holding the historical records again, I looked at them and said: Low. ? The monk asked:? These three books, one of which is familiar to everyone, are all knowledge, and all are low clouds. Why? Health:? I want to sleep and use a book as a pillow ear. ? After all, this man just wants to sleep. No matter whether he is dozing off or touching someone, you don't know his ultimate goal, and it's useless to listen to his explanation. As far as I know, with your present conditions, he doesn't want to have children because of too much pressure. I'm afraid there are some skeletons in my closet, but you just don't know them. So you are angry only because your emotional intelligence is too low to grasp the real reason why he doesn't want to have children. Of course, maybe he didn't just do it for? Sleep? That is wrong. I slapped myself.

As for how to deal with yourself, I think you must wait until you know the truth about your husband before making a decision. I'm not a blind fortune teller, so I can't guess at random. It's just that a woman's choice is always a mystery, or she should proceed from her own will. When Zhuangzi was fishing in Lishui, he wanted to get married with Chu Xi, so he sent someone to invite Zhuangzi. Zhuangzi caught a turtle and cried. The messenger said you were crying for Mao. I cry for the tortoise. You are not an environmentalist. Why are you crying? I heard that the king enshrined a ghost of 3,000 years in the ancestral temple? There is such a thing. But for the tortoise, is he willing to die, to be sacrificed to show his preciousness, or to crawl in the mud alive? This? Of course, I want to live well. Any woman wants to live well. According to your present situation, you can play after pregnancy. If he doesn't practice double cultivation of yin and yang with you, no matter what his reason is, as long as he is stubborn, he will be kicked.