The boyfriend is Liu Fengren, and his grandmother gave him a visa, saying that he would marry three wives. I am his first girlfriend. We have been together for three years and have always had a good r

The boyfriend is Liu Fengren, and his grandmother gave him a visa, saying that he would marry three wives. I am his first girlfriend. We have been together for three years and have always had a good relationship. Once, I visited a friend who had a successful career and chatted about my fate. I asked: Is there fate in this world? He said: Of course. Let me ask you one more question: What is fate? Since destiny takes a hand, what's the use of struggle?

He didn't answer my question directly, but just smiled and grabbed my left hand, saying that it would be better to read my palm first and tell my fortune. After talking to me about lifeline, love line and career line, suddenly, he said to me: reach out and make an action with me. His action is to raise his left hand and slowly clench his fist. Finally, he asked: Have you grasped it? I replied in confusion: Hold on tight. He asked again: Where are those fate line? I answered mechanically: in my hand. He asked again: Excuse me, where is fate? I was shocked and suddenly realized that my destiny was in my own hands!

He went on calmly: No matter what others tell you, no matter how the fortune teller calculates it for you, remember that your destiny is in your own hands, not others' mouths! This is destiny. Of course, if you look at your fist again, you will find that there is still a part of your lifeline outside and you haven't caught it. What enlightenment can it give us? Most of our destiny is in our own hands, but some of it is in the hands of "God". Throughout the ages, the meaning of "struggle" is to strive for it with a lifetime of hard work.

Philosophy of life: destiny is always in your own hands.

Chaoshan people are really superstitious. My sister is Chaoshan people.