Should a person accept his fate? So what if you don't accept your fate? Where is the motivation of life after accepting fate? Mr. Zhong: Whether to accept fate is usually a question to be considered. You don't need to be brave to be a man. You have to accept your fate, and then you will reflect and know where your problems are. Resignation is not doing nothing, but accepting the status quo, knowing where the problem lies, trying to adjust and not complaining. If you don't complain, you will feel that your life is natural, good or bad. The burden in your heart will not be too great, and you may get better. What happens to people suffering from emptiness is mostly a matter of mentality. If we can't break through their mentality and open their lives to set them free, they will be locked in there. If you can start life, even if it is as small as a firefly, it will be as bright as the sun. The light energy in your heart can't be generated, depending on whether you are willing to accept it or not. If you can accept it, your motivation will be great. Acceptance is a kind of strength of Kundao, and the so-called "frozen frost is firm", the original loose frost slowly turns into hard ice, and the energy keeps condensing, and eventually it will break through the ground. That is, after resigning, power began to appear; The boss said I was incompetent, I accepted it, the teacher said I was stupid, I accepted it, my friends thought I was poor, I accepted it, I totally accepted it. I should have no place to live and do what I should do. Without any thoughts, energy will begin to gather, and the height, breadth and depth of life will be produced. I will gradually recognize many things in my life and make breakthroughs, enlightenment and transcendence. I don't accept my fate, but I think I should live better and have more money. But everyone's innate and acquired conditions are different, and some people really can't meet his expectations. Failure to accept fate may inspire people to work harder, but the expectations that follow will only create more difficulties. "I just don't accept my fate, I will rush." With such a rush, I only see the target and nothing else. Although it is possible to succeed, it will also bring higher risks. It's like fighting in kung fu. You only care about offense, not defense. Seeing each other's chest empty, I rushed over and punched. I didn't expect the other side's foot to kick up first. In Lao She's Camel Xiangzi, the hero Xiangzi is a man who refuses to accept his fate. When he was young, he was full of energy and worked hard towards his ideals and goals. But he knows that it is difficult for people to exist independently from the environment. When the environment is bad, it is difficult for individuals to make a breakthrough. Coupled with limited ability, it is of course counterproductive. No matter how hard he tried, his ideals and goals never appeared. Unfortunately, he refused to accept the fact. Whether it was his previous efforts for the ideal or his later self-indulgence, his heart was always resistant and uneven, so he lived more painfully than anyone else. Everyone wants to go to college, but one in a hundred. The rest who refused to accept their fate squeezed into other universities, mostly wasting their original talents. Who knows, many intellectuals don't know the world, don't know the common sense of life, treat people with things, and are arrogant and rude, because everyone refuses to accept their own destiny! Why live without expectation? Your heart is free. You won't want to pursue this and that all day, and you will be more sure of your path. No idea to pursue, no dream, just walk and watch, you will find that the road is more beautiful and more solid, even if you don't reach your destination, you will feel enough. After resigning, the value of life will be continuously realized, perhaps not very high, but in the process of realization, every step is true. If you don't accept your fate, you must achieve your goal. Even if it is only one step away, you still feel disappointed. For this step, why deny the past thousand steps? ! No, every step is a step, and every step makes people feel very happy. Although from humble origins, everyone has the opportunity to slowly transform the world into a paradise, that is, a "paradise on earth." It is not a real heaven, but it is very close to heaven. By tacit understanding, all roads lead to Rome. Learn to look at yourself from all angles, and you won't fall into a dead end. Go straight and find no other way. There are many realms in life. Different realms have different kinetic energy. Zhuangzi talked about "real people, gods and even people". After accepting his fate, he will become a "demigod" with no desire and expectation in his heart. In the hearts of ordinary people, do you still like a person without desire? But because there is no desire, it is possible to put ideals and missions into practice and become more like human beings. The traditional thought of converging attack often gives us a lot of wrong information and even brings us great pressure. If you do something according to the traditional thinking, you are likely to sacrifice a lot. For example, in the five-ethics relationship, the five ethics can only maintain their respective shares, but cannot be integrated. Traditionally, it is required to combine the five ethics, especially the husband and wife. This is problematic. Most people can't get together, only "most people" can blend. If the average husband and wife want to integrate, the relationship will become very tense, not only with high standards, but also standardized. How? You can't do it. Get rid of this concept of harmony, and you will find that when husband and wife are not slaves, they should be the freest friends. But now couples are like masters and servants, bosses and employees, even masters and slaves, but rarely like friends. Is this marriage painful? Extremely painful! What has tradition given us? If we can't help the benevolent, why should we suffer so much? Considering others, most people have no real moral ability. The real moral ability is to consider others, not to force others to yield, so caring is to pay, not to control. If traditional values force us to submit, then even doing good deeds is hypocritical and false, which violates the real truth of being a man. The real truth of being a man is that in this relationship, we can do our best, get what we need, get what we want, respect each other, rely on each other and be free from each other. Many things must be given greater flexibility between grasping and letting go. When we experience and accept this situation, we will be more flexible about the so-called responsibilities and views, and our relationship will be more relaxed. Respect for the ethics of others is a model, and once the ethical relationship is standardized, it is a mode of death. Fate is to face this model, understand its problems, accept its value and fundamentally activate our role. The relationship between husband and wife should be respectful, not demanding, and do what they want, not what they are asked to do. The reason why marriage becomes the grave of love is that both parties are in the ethical category and have not really accepted their roles. This role does not refer to the name of husband and wife, but refers to a man or woman with a partner, so that life can begin, because marriage is the operation of yin and yang, not the dominant role of male superiority and female inferiority. Therefore, if you have the ability to accept your fate, both men and women will have better power to adjust and accept it. It doesn't matter much whether you accept yourself alone or accept your fate. If you have a relationship with others, your resignation will have a great influence. Of course, in order to pursue the fate of life, even one needs to accept fate, which is different. It doesn't matter if a capable person doesn't accept his fate. If he doesn't accept his fate, it will only get worse. He has to accept it to know how God works, and his frustration will not be too great. After accepting my fate, my energy will be more stable and the direction of my life will emerge. When I see the exit, I won't complain about things, my heart will be freed from grievances, and my life will begin!
How to understand that when people are young, they are "most afraid of resigning, most afraid of not accepting", lose confidence in life in the future, lack the heart to go in, and stick to a place. Although he is a teenager, he exudes the breath of the elderly-he is most afraid of resignation.
The overall situation has been decided. Things have changed a long time ago, and I have no ability. But I just want to bet all my money on a big one, and I want to make a comeback overnight-I am most afraid of not accepting my fate.
That's how it is understood.
Do your best if you don't accept your fate. Yes, I refuse to accept my fate.
Second, you must be sober when you are young.
Third, don't lose this wonderful time.
Fourth, believe in yourself and come on.
What's the difference between resignation and resignation? Let your life be that you have taken everything. If you don't accept your fate, you don't believe in anything. We must fight to the death.
I don't accept my fate, but I have to accept it. Some people can tell fortune, and I'm a little curious. Fate = fate+luck, people are born with a life, which is determined by the good and evil in previous lives and has nothing to do with the good and evil in this life. The good and evil in this life change luck, so it can change fate. However, fate is not so easy to change, to some extent, it is to be reversed, so some people are not bad people, just unhappy, just short-lived. That's because they haven't done enough to break through the life they were born with. Therefore, we must actively do good. Only good and evil can change our destiny. When doing anything, good and evil will increase and evil will decrease. Even if good suffers temporarily, the blessing of the whole fate will increase, and it will increase a lot, but evil is just the opposite. If you can control everything and do good deeds, you are not mortal, so you can make the gods cry. Of course, this needs to be practiced slowly. The so-called mind cultivation is to cultivate this. The better a person is, the better his luck will be, and the fate of a very good person cannot be bound. Does fate exist? Of course, and it can be changed through our efforts. The Four Disciplines is a book about moral cultivation. The author, Yuan Lefan of the Ming Dynasty, was written at the age of 69. The author tells the story of changing fate with his own personal experience. If you hit this book, you will get fame and longevity. If you hit it, no child will get two children. There are books, movies and TV plays, which can be found online.
Why should I accept my fate! I just don't accept my fate! Many girls like this indomitable character.
But don't be too rash.
Sometimes you have to accept your fate.
If you don't accept your fate, you must work hard.
Strive to meet your own requirements
I am a cup, do you accept my fate? Haha, I am a man. Just let nature take its course. The most important thing is health. Love is not directly proportional to figure.
I believe in fate, but I don't accept it. Oh yes. This is what people should earn for themselves.
Accept my fate. Accept your fate, everything is destiny takes a hand!
However, if you just leave it to fate, then everything will lose its meaning. If you fall, you can lie there and accept your fate, but it should be even a child's instinct to get up.
As long as you try your best, you may get the greatest return; But if you don't work hard, you are doomed to get nothing.
Admitting failure means admitting failure to one thing, but don't believe it is doomed, and make a comeback if you have the chance!