Being bargained before marriage, why not leave?

There is only one reason why they don't leave, that is, bargaining before marriage, which is based on a certain material basis. They regard marriage as a transaction, so sitting together before marriage is like talking about business. First talk about the bride price and all kinds of money, and then they naturally get married. If they don't talk properly, they will break up. In this negotiation process, there will certainly be room for bargaining, so in this part of bargaining.

In fact, I am very opposed to injecting some material things into pure love, but I can't help it. The real society is such an atmosphere. Not to mention others, we can only do as the Romans do and follow this social situation. So when we get married, both parents may talk about money when they meet. It's not that we are too material, but how can we live without material?

Some places still follow the custom of bride price. To tell the truth, my daughter dragged you to be your wife for nothing. Shouldn't it be a bride price? It should be, but you can't talk like a lion. I can't get the money you want. Of course, I have to bargain with you. For example, if you ask me for 300 thousand bride price, then I don't have the money in my hand A young man who just started a business can give you 6.5438+10,000 yuan. As a result, at the other party's house, 6.5438+10,000 yuan was ok. Talking is better than nothing, so I agreed. As a result, the wedding came as scheduled.

To sum up, marriage may not be so pure after injecting love, but it is a social situation. Before marriage, the two families will have a negotiation, which is also a bargaining process. If they reach an agreement, they will naturally get married.