Who can help me describe the story of "taking the bird but losing the horse"?

Once upon a time, there was an old man named Niu X. One day, his horse was lost and people comforted him. He counted it with his finger and said, "Is it a blessing or a curse? Don't reveal the secret! A few months later, his horse came back, and he brought a good horse from Woody. Everyone admires him!

He has a son who likes riding, but the old man always won't let him ride! One day, the old man suddenly asked his son to ride a horse. His son was very happy and rode out. As a result, he fell back and broke it! Everyone thinks that the old man is always telling their fortune, so his son is punished by heaven, so everyone comes to comfort him and give his son something. He squeezed his fingers again and said, you can't reveal the blessings and disasters! After a while, the conference semifinals were killed and all the young people were recruited into the battlefield. The old man's son didn't go because he retired! Old people in the village admire them more and more!