Is the gathering, parting and parting of life really arranged?

In our life, we will actually experience many things and meet many people. No matter who you meet, he is the one who should appear in your life. This is by no means accidental. Many things are God's best arrangement. Most people's reunion, meeting and missing have their meaning. On the long road of life, we will experience gathering and parting, or we may turn around and disappear. These are fate's arrangements. Some people meet by chance, and some people may be destined. Whatever the outcome, this is an experience in your life. Therefore, the gathering and dispersion of life is the best arrangement. Zhang Ailing once said: It is a fate to meet the right person at the right time, and it is a misfortune to meet the wrong person at the right time.

Meeting the right person at the wrong time is helpless, and meeting the wrong person at the wrong time is cruel. You see, there are many encounters in life, and each encounter will be different. Result. In fact, no matter who you meet in life, you should start from yourself. After all, you will understand that the person you meet in this life, whether good or bad, will always have a meaning or mission when she appears in your life. Maybe it will teach you something, maybe it will make you see more clearly. No matter what a person brings you, it always has its value. The encounter and separation of life are all arranged by ourselves. What we have to do is to adapt to the arrangement, live our own lives, grow better, become better ourselves, and find that we are not influenced by anyone.

People always have to understand that we will meet all kinds of people in life. Some people will teach you to grow up, some will live with you, some will miss you, and some will make you remember something and then turn around and leave your world. In life, getting is a kind of fate, and losing is also a kind of fate. Regardless of gains and losses, it is an experience of life. Only through these experiences can a person grow better. I don't regret losing it, and I'm not surprised to get it. Keep a normal mind and face life, and you will get what you want. People cherish and lose when they have it, learn to be indifferent, and don't care too much about gains and losses, so as to live a better life. Sometimes, if you care too much about the result, you will lose yourself.

Life will teach you something, something you can't control. All we have to do is learn to let go and let nature take its course. In some cases, you may cherish a thing or a love relationship, but it is more your own feelings than others'. After all, there are some things you can't decide for yourself. Don't overemphasize a person, it will be easier to lose. When you realize that a relationship has deteriorated, you should turn around decisively, don't stretch out your hand to stay, face it calmly, and waving goodbye may be the best way to let go. You know, since a person has chosen, it is useless to do anything. Excessive persistence and persistence is a burden.

Putting it down properly may be a kind of wisdom. The most incompetent thing for a person is to be trapped by so-called things and feelings, so that he has no self. Some things are predestined, whether you accept it or not, it will happen and exist. Therefore, it is the best state to accept and face as much as possible and keep a peaceful mind to face everything in life. As someone said, you go, I won't see you off, you come, no matter how difficult it is, I'll pick you up. There are arrangements for meeting and parting in the world, so there is no need to worry too much and avoid them. Many things are inevitable, and what should come will come. What we have to do is to face everything calmly, find our own life, find the best ourselves and become better ourselves.