He who puts down his face can achieve great things.

He who puts down his face can achieve great things.

Going back to my hometown during the eleventh holiday, I didn't expect to go to court with my menstruation and cousin.

The reason is that my cousin had to give up his high salary in the city and go home to start a business two years after graduating from a famous university.

If you don't agree with menstruation, you will die if you object. My cousin is determined to come back and open a fast food restaurant.

Menstruation cried to me: a good boy, admitted to a famous university all the way, found a good job in a big city and insisted on going back to his hometown to do business. Knowing that he is like this, what books can I offer him?

Cousin said: in first-tier cities, high salary also corresponds to high consumption. Pour my parents' money, that is, help me pay a down payment of 70-80 square meters, which is far from being rich. Not to mention the climate.

But if you use this money to invest in this fast food restaurant, it will be very hard in the short term, but in the long run, it will definitely be better than working for a foreign company.

My uncle retired as the deputy director of an enterprise, but he didn't object. However, he said that the face of menstruation could not be put down, and he also advised not to move.

Speaking of face, menstruation has been competitive all my life and I want to be ahead of everything. After graduating from college, this son stayed in a foreign company in Shenzhen, but she followed the scenery a lot.

Now, I suddenly heard that my cousin is going back to his hometown to open a fast food restaurant. I'm really going crazy.

My mother and I, with the help of two people, persuaded menstruation to believe:

His own son is not an ignorant man. Of course, we will carefully examine the market, and if we don't do it, it will be a blockbuster.

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On the way home, I chatted with my mother and told the story of my early menstruation.

I had a chance to take the college entrance examination during menstruation, but unfortunately I missed the exam because I got hepatitis A that year.

The next year, grandpa asked her to repeat. She felt ugly on her face and refused to go anyway.

In this way, the menstruation with good grades went directly to the factory and became a female worker.

Fortunately, smart and witty menstruation managed to be a man all the way in the factory and married her uncle who was already the director of the factory at that time. Life is carefree.

The year after my uncle and I got married, my uncle's father fell ill and spent most of his savings.

My uncle wants to give up his position in the factory and go into business. Menstruation didn't agree. For this matter, the husband and wife quarreled a lot.

If not, I don't know what will happen, because I found out that I was pregnant with my cousin. My uncle had to compromise because he was pregnant with menstruation.

In my uncle's words: stay in the factory and continue to intrigue.

In this way, I fought until I retired.

My uncle often feels depressed and depressed. Looking at the friends who went to sea in those years, he made great strides all the way, and there was no good way but to sigh.

Because menstruation and uncle are in the same factory, when the laid-off tide hit in the 1990s, husband and wife had to go together.

And uncle has been a deputy director, and he has to choose to be laid off and go home during menstruation.

She put all her energy into her son, counting on him to get ahead, make a face for her and be ambitious. No wonder she is like this.

Menstruation pays attention to face all his life. But in the end, many things just didn't work out as she wished.

My cousin is a bit of an uncle. He knows how to move at the right time. The most important thing is that he never takes face seriously.

He doesn't think he is a famous college student. I don't think it is shameful to go back to my hometown to start a business.

From this point of view, I respect my cousin very much. Talking to my husband about this matter, he also agreed with me.

It seems that it is not the face that is more admirable, but the person who is willing to put down his face is more admirable.

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Speaking of face, I think of one of my husband's classmates.

Speaking of this man named Dapeng, everyone can't help but give him a thumbs up.

Because he was still studying and his family was poor, he got up early and worked as a milkman.

When other students are still desperately arguing with everyone about what brand of mobile phone to use and what brand of clothes to wear, he has found out all the routines for delivering milk. I built my own milk delivery station in my hometown before graduation.

By the time other students were busy with the job fair after graduation, he had gone home and started recruiting his own milkman.

Now, Dapeng not only delivers milk, but also sets up its own milk supply point to provide milk for a well-known brand.

Because Dapeng has been busy running business, he doesn't pay much attention to his image. At a class reunion, he didn't shave, but came here in some sloppy clothes.

The students laughed at him. He was a big boss. Why are you still so careless about your image?

Dapeng said: As it has just started to expand its new business, it should be delivered to the other testing institute as soon as possible 1 hour after the first batch of milk sources are sent for inspection, so as to achieve the best testing effect. So, I really got up early this time.

Fortunately, the test results of the other side are ideal, which is likely to lead to new cooperation.

Having said that, Dapeng's face was unconsciously covered with smiles, which made these neatly dressed students instantly dim.

Speaking of which, I think of a classic sentence once said by Li Ka-shing:

"When you put down your face to make money, you are sensible. When you earn back your face with money, it means you have succeeded. When you can earn money by saving face, it means that you are already alone.

When you still stay there drinking and bragging, pretending that you don't know anything and only love the so-called face, it means that this is your life. "

The starting point of Dapeng is lower than each of us.

But because he is willing to endure hardships and put down his face, he is willing to start from a milkman at the bottom and step by step out of his own starry sky for everyone to look up to.

It was the original "no face" that made Dapeng "very face" now.

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In fact, "saving face" is a tradition of China people.

Xiang Yu, a great hero in ancient times, committed suicide in Wujiang River. After the defeat, I felt "ashamed to see my elders in Jiangdong", so I killed myself and gave up the opportunity to make a comeback.

Liu Bang, Emperor Gaozu, was originally a street hooligan. In order to succeed, he is a person who can completely pull his face down and step on his feet.

He has lied, cheated, dug corners and established relationships on the Internet.

Han Xin, who can endure the humiliation of his legs, can't get the reuse of Xiang Yu, because Xiang Yu feels that he has no face with such people! But Liu Bang not only used it, but also reused it.

The ancients did this, so do we today?

How many people can be familiar with the saying "a man lives a breath, a tree lives a skin".

The education we received since childhood is that we must lose face by breaking our teeth and promoting blood circulation.

However, is face really more important than the result?

A person who doesn't know you will decide whether you are worth meeting through face;

But a person who knows you will definitely decide whether to respect you or not because of your personality, and will meet you for a long time.

After all, face is only a temporary package.

How far you go and how high you go will always depend on how hard you work and how far you can go.

In fact, no matter what a person lives, someone will make irresponsible remarks about you.

Focus on how to make yourself stronger in order to stand higher and go further.

When you are free, read biographies of famous people, see Yun, Shi Yuzhu and Ding Lei.

It depends on how much they have paid, how much effort they have made, and how much humiliation and pain others can't bear on the way to becoming rich.

Perhaps, you will learn how to put down your face and achieve your own success.

Li muyao

Real name Li Lingling, born after 80;

Writing is a beautiful thing, just for the sake of mood.