What should I do with my own horoscope? What's wrong with my own horoscope?

What if I am a Chinese character? Reader's question: I am a 22-year-old female and my boyfriend is 28 years old. My family members believe in birth dates, and they can calculate whether birth dates are compatible. They calculated that neither of us met the date of birth, but there was not much problem in our relationship.

At first, the family disagreed, saying that they didn't know where he came from and that he was far away. They have never met my boyfriend, and now they are beaten to death with a stick because they don't agree with each other. I feel very uncomfortable.

Can't we really be together if we disagree? No? Because of this kind of thing, they always tell me something about people around them. I didn't believe it at first, but I believed it to some extent because it was related to our feelings. But I always feel that if I believe in my life like this, will I live in numerology?

From my own life, I don't believe it, because my mother says my life is not good, but I think it's ok. Wherever I go, I always meet someone who makes me feel grateful. I feel lucky to meet many good people. So I have always felt that even if there is incompatibility, it is always possible. Will impossible people choose to escape because they are told that their birthdays are incompatible? What should I do?

General, when do people need fortune telling most? Even when you are not satisfied and confident, have you ever thought about when you are most dependent on the horoscope and zodiac?

We try to verify the preset by fortune telling and fortune telling. We try to let fortune-telling and the results of fortune-telling help us light up our hopes. We don't believe in fortune-telling, we believe what we have long believed.

Therefore, your family's opposition to fortune telling is actually just an excuse. If you are opposed to being with your boyfriend, you will feel that the result of fortune telling is reasonable in doubt, but it also shows that you are not sure enough about this relationship and are not so confident.

You said there must be a way to get a result that doesn't match the eight characters. I agree, the way is that you really love each other, get along well and live happily. In other words, the most accurate fortune teller is yourself, and only you can control your life.

If you don't believe that you can change your destiny, if you don't believe that you can live a happy life, from the day you were born, you just sit and wait for death. Since everything is destiny takes a hand, why fight?

Instead of trying to find a way, it is better to find a valid reason to convince your family, or find a reason to convince yourself to be firm in this relationship.

Finally, I hesitate to say, don't convince your family. Judging from their blind fortune-telling results and their opposition to these two things without meeting your boyfriend, they are a little ignorant, and I don't mean to offend. After all, every family has a difficult experience, but I hope you will not be biased. Reason will guide you to make the right decision, rather than relying on fortune telling. # Love #

Guo Jiangjun, Master of Science, Beijing Normal University, a second-class psychologist, is popular in Han Han No.1 Middle School. After eight years of psychological experience, WeChat "We are all sick in our hearts" (ID: Stay Normal), and the book work "The world prefers you to heal yourself" is in progress.

The above is about how to deal with your horoscope, and it is about the sharing of horoscope. After reading the eight characters, I hope this will help everyone!