What moment makes you feel that the person you love is so cold and thin?

More than a decade ago, there were some things that made me feel that my loved ones were so cold and thin. At that time, I was at the lowest point in my life. At that time, I got a strange disease, with general pain, hypothermia, cold joints, swelling and pain. Finally, I can't even walk, sometimes I can't climb, and I don't even have the strength to eat and hold chopsticks. I went to the hospital for almost a general examination, and it was nothing to check my internal organs. I don't know what it is. Doctors in the hospital can only use hormone drugs to help me control my illness. You can walk after taking medicine, but you will return to your original state without taking medicine. People have changed, which is equivalent to disfigurement. Women love beauty, and everyone knows that I love beauty too. At that time, I had a feeling of falling from the sky to the ground in an instant. Because of my illness, I have also encountered many things that have been hit by people, that is, those unhappy things.

One day, I was recovering from illness in my room on the second floor. When I heard the telephone ring, I went over and answered it. I heard my husband tell his big brother about my illness. Because the telephone is an extension telephone, there are telephones on the first and second floors. I only heard my husband ask my eldest brother, "Can you help me ask her if this disease can be cured in the hospital in your big city?" His eldest brother said, "If this disease is not cured, it will be disabled and barren. You have to plan your retreat quickly, you have to leave ... "The moment I heard these words, I felt that my relatives were so cold and thin. There is only interest relationship between people. If you are not interested, I will abandon you and find another lover. This incident makes me feel that I should take good care of my illness. When I get better, I don't want to stay in this house. He wants to file for divorce according to his own wishes. I don't want to stay in this animal-like family. I don't want to be his ghost.

? A few days later, my mother-in-law told me to kick me out, and I felt very uncomfortable. My husband also wrote me several divorce papers. My heart is full of pain, hatred and betrayal. I tore up several divorce papers and suddenly thought of something. I hid a divorce agreement and went back to my mother's house. When all my relatives thought I was hopeless, I found another doctor to treat me. He cured me of seven lessons, and I turned over like a salted fish, and I was able to cure diseases while working. I asked my husband about the divorce. He said, "No, you can work to earn money, but I won't. Those divorce agreements are for me to test whether you want to divorce. " I told him angrily, "I have heard that you and your big brother abandoned me on the phone." He said fiercely, "what can I do if I hear it?" I got your man, but I can't get your heart. What I can't get will be destroyed. If you don't want to run, you can run from the temple, and all your relatives are here. I will ask someone to be injured in the hospital, and you will take care of it in the hospital? " I dare not say anything. I thought, "He is so poisonous, he is a pervert. No way. " Later, when I was killed by him, he grabbed my neck. When I was dying, suddenly a stranger came to see him on business. He left and I was saved. A serious illness woke me up, and I was no longer afraid of being threatened by his relatives' lives. I ran for my life and went to work far away.

? Many years later, he found a lawyer to falsely accuse me, hoping that I could not get married on that charge and compensate him for other money. This is really an eye-opener for heaven, but I still have a glimmer of hope in every dark cloud. I met another noble person in my life, a court official, who is a distant relative of our Li family. In the out-of-court mediation, I was falsely accused of various crimes by them. They said the fee was enough, so I said to his lawyer, "Are you finished? It's my turn to say that you don't know anything, but you help him falsely accuse me. Aren't you afraid of being struck by lightning? The law stresses evidence, see? What I have is evidence? " I took out the divorce agreement I had collected before, took a look at it and immediately asked him, "Is this divorce agreement in your handwriting? Come and recognize it? " In handwriting. "He was dumbfounded. He thought I tore up all the divorce papers, but I didn't expect to receive one. He can only read the handwriting clearly, and he himself admits that he wrote me the divorce papers. I told the truth that he murdered me, and the court official was very angry. He said: "You also falsely accused others that this divorce agreement was filed as evidence. "After a war of words, actions speak louder than words, and I won. And protected by law, I am no longer afraid of being chased by others, but I feel that my loved ones are so cold and thin in an instant. It's still the person who often says he loves himself, but he has cheated countless times and paid countless times. This man is also the one I earned money to treat him. I helped him along the way when I was blind. At this time, I found that my heart was too soft, which was an unavoidable problem. Later, several times, he asked someone to intercede and wanted me to remarry. I didn't, but I finally got over the soft spot. People should have dignity. Even if he carries me in an eight-person sedan chair, I won't go back to his house. In fact, I thought to myself, "Even if he is an ancient emperor, I can't fall in love with him. From the moment he used me to the moment he threatened me, it was doomed that we would never go on in this life. "

? After the divorce, I lived with my parents and controlled my illness while working. There are too many relatives and acquaintances in the village, and countless taunts have made me understand what indifference is. I gave my parents some money when they bought a new house that year. Who knows my mother heard that divorced women are not allowed to live in their parents' homes and are poor in winter. Because of this, I was almost cheated by an acquaintance. The other party said that the divorce did not go through any formalities. When we got the hukou book to register for marriage, I saw his wife's name on it. I was very angry. I called my relatives in court. He told me that it would be illegal if I registered. If someone else's wife's name can't be registered in the household registration book, I won't get married. I got angry and gave it to the other party.

? From then on, I suffered from fear of marriage, paranoia and world-weariness. My mother got up and moved in, and then she had heart disease, diabetes, and so on. They went to tell a fortune. The fortune-teller said that they drove a daughter away and asked her to buy clothes and cakes ... In the winter, she went home and treated her as a half-son. She also said that the day when their family entered the new house was a day of thunder, and only his daughter could be surprised. I learned all these things from my mother after I came back. I was surprised at the time. I really want to ask if I was born to you. At this time, my heart was completely cold. My mother also said that when I was born, the country gave me a piece of land, and she said that she would give me a piece of land to build a house in the future. At that time, I thought they still had a little conscience, but she just said that she just wanted me to earn money to treat her, stay at home, let me avoid disaster, and then bring good luck to her family. She recovered and lived for more than ten years. Later I asked her if she could give me a written evidence. She didn't want to. This is my so-called relative, who abandoned me at birth, killed me, but failed to give it away, and then took it back for a fortune-telling sentence. Now that I have grown up, she listened to other people's gossip, kicked me out of the house, asked me to find someone to marry, and I was almost cheated by others. My heart is freezing. I have always been withdrawn from my childhood and influenced by these reasons.

? After all, do what you want, but you are responsible for your children's future. No matter how responsible parents are to themselves, they have to help buy medicine when they are sick, and there is no one to raise them when they are old. This should be done.