What if men and women disagree on birthdays? How to resolve the discord between men and women?

There are many ways to get married, and the most important one is the eight-character marriage. The eight characters are the time of birth, which records the state of the five elements of qi at the moment of birth. The Qi of Five Elements is an invisible biological gas field. Everything in the world has an aura, including plants, animals and even an object. For people, the strength and balance of each person's five-element gas field are different. For two people who live together for a long time, the gas fields of both sides will play a role, and the results will be beneficial and harmful, and so on, so their respective fate trajectories will change for better or worse. We can see this from twin brothers or sisters. When two people with the same constellation are unmarried, their luck tends to be similar in many places, such as being lucky in the same year, being fierce in the same year, taking exams in the same year, getting rich in the same year and killing their father. Once married, the difference between good luck and bad luck will be obvious, such as the year of birth may be different, the year of divorce may not be the same, and so on. This is because, although the horoscopes of two people are the same, the horoscopes of their spouses are not exactly the same, and the gas fields are different, which affects each other and leads to different luck. Therefore, it is feasible to adjust people's marriage through eight characters. But we should also comprehensively analyze, judge and treat marriage. Nothing is absolute. Even if the marriage ends badly, as long as two people have a good relationship, there are still many ways to achieve the goal of seeking benefits and exorcising evil spirits. Conversely; Even if the marriage turns out well, if we don't pay attention to each other's communication, the conditioning of the house and the quality of our friends, then our feelings may break down and our marriage may disintegrate. At present, there are generally four kinds of eight-character marriages: 1, and the man's parents marry the son and the object. This woman's parents are going to marry her daughter and her partner. 3. After marriage, one or both parents do not agree that their children will marry the other half. 4. One or both men and women get married, and the marriage result is not good, which leads to hesitation or breakup. Therefore, it is suggested that every married man and woman, or friends who are about to get married, must have a correct view of marriage. Marriage is only a means, not an end. The purpose is to let men and women who love each other better discover each other's strengths and weaknesses, so as to learn from each other's strengths and live together better. Of course, after marriage, it is found that both sides are very serious in personality and conflict. It is very complicated to solve. Besides, our feelings are not that deep. Then, it is not too late to suggest that the other party might as well calm down for a while before breaking up or making up. I need to remind my friends that many so-called numerologists or so-called fortune tellers in society simply judge marriage according to the likes and dislikes of the zodiac or the eight characters, which often leads to the wrong marriage, misjudging the illness like a quack, leading to unnecessary tension between men and women, and even the disintegration of emotional marriage. This is not only the immoral behavior of "quack doctors", but also the recognition of both men and women, and we must never "rush to seek medical treatment". Two days ago, a friend wrote to me and said that he had asked for a sign, which read: "People in the Dragon House in Fengge hope for the bright moon and the cool breeze, and the Yuanyang will be exhausted, so it is difficult to be red in spring." She is worried about whether she will face divorce. Simply put, the meaning of this sign is not divorce, but that two people who really love each other can't be together, so they have to be reluctant to part, and they can't continue their relationship when they meet again. This is what we usually call "fate".