How to self-stimulate positive energy

Let me tell a story first. This story is true. Some psychologists found that before 1 1 years old, his son was in a poor mental state and always looked sad. His son is called Charlie. At present, he is hiding his son's photo. There is no smile in the photos from childhood to 1 1 year old. Even when you should be happy, you are worried. Charlie has been very careful since he was a child. This is both a good thing; Always get into trouble. Because other children don't care, Charlie is easy to care and even sad. Then, as a father, Ninard often sat by his bed to help him solve his worries and let his sons tell them one by one, hoping to solve the problems through him. However, it is difficult to have an effect. On one occasion, Charlie told his father that what made him feel most guilty was that his grandmother left his name when she left her will before her death. He thinks grandma will leave him some money. Little Charlie has a lot of knots. Said that a female classmate didn't like him, and that the teacher looked at him with strange eyes. Later, he went to the sixth grade of primary school. In fact, the average child should be carefree, but he is always listless every day because of the negative emotions caused by depressed emotions and sad psychology. Dad asked him: Why are you doing this? He said that he was always worried that his ability was not strong and his life would be poor in the future! Now the society is also very complicated. At that time, my father was already a psychiatrist. But I can't help him. After a concert, my father drove to pick him up. On the side of the road, my son is sitting in the passenger seat. When my father saw his face, he was very sad and didn't laugh. At this time, I drove past a small shop. There was a sign next to the shop, and there was an advertisement on it that said it could predict your future. Just in time, it's early! Father suggested stopping here to do some shopping. After entering the store, my father suddenly had an idea and said, Charlie, would you like them to make a prediction? It may be very effective! Charlie agreed. Charlie went into a small room behind the shop. After entering the cabin, Charlie didn't come out for over half an hour. After coming out, the father paid the fee and pulled the child to the car. He suddenly found that this time the child smiled, grinned and was in high spirits! It turned out that the forecaster was a woman, so Charlie said: Just now, the female teacher said: I want to live a happy life! I will definitely be admitted to the university! You will find a great job after graduation! Will play a role in the movie! Maybe, I will become a movie star. She predicted that I would make a lot of money and many girls would like me. Finally, a beautiful girl will marry me. She has a kind heart. We will live in a big house with a swimming pool, and we will have two children! I will live a long life, and my whole family will live a long life. This is the best prediction for my life. In fact, as we all know, this forecaster must have said all the good things about my child. The life she gave her son was perfect and smooth! But is this really the case? Not necessarily! However, since then, the father has found that his son has completely changed. Now his son has grown up. He did go to college, but it was not the best one. He does have a job, but it's not as good as the forecaster said. He is also married and has a normal life, but since 1 1 met the forecaster, Charlie's life has really changed completely. He works and lives contentedly now, and seldom feels depressed again. Of course, there are ups and downs in life. I want to say something off topic. This is a true story. In the words of China people, this astrologer is actually a fortune teller! Why is there a market for fortune tellers? Because it will give you a beautiful expectation, not necessarily scientific and reasonable, but it will arouse your long-term expectation. After arousing expectations, it will stimulate positive energy in the human body. Make children become excited and positive from the original low and melancholy process. Of course, I believe this psychologist will continue to encourage his son, stimulate his benign emotions and give him a steady stream of positive energy. I found that many patients in clinic, patients who have recovered well, often take good things seriously. Ouch! My index has dropped again. How nice! And those less positive information are ignored intentionally or unintentionally. This is the patient with great wisdom. On the contrary, patients with poor recovery are often those who take bad news seriously and pay special attention to negative information. Today, I have low back pain again. It wasn't like this before? There must be something wrong! Maybe it's a sign of recurrence. You see, this indicator is 29% more than last time. It must be a relapse. Seriously, these people tend to relapse more easily than before. Why? Because they have been receiving negative energy. In fact, the news itself is not important. If you interpret it from the negative, it will become negative energy! Negative energy should be avoided and eliminated! In fact, any indicator will go up and down! So I'm talking about positive energy, that is, people should always stimulate their positive energy and give up negative energy. There are many ways to stimulate. A very important factor that causes the tension between doctors and patients today is that many doctors are not good at stimulating patients' positive energy, always instilling some negative news and strengthening some negative factors! This is a very important aspect of the decline, absence or absence of interpersonal relationship in the medical field today. I really appreciate a famous saying of a late American medical scientist: medicine occasionally cures, often helps and comforts forever. Comfort and help include stimulating his positive energy and helping him resist negative energy. In fact, the most important weapon for doctors to treat diseases is not surgery, not drugs, but to adjust his positive energy first! This is the unpublished theory! This is a wise saying!