Why don't some people like to send friends?

Every mother is proud, and of course I am no exception. I also hope that my children will become better, better, more obedient and more sensible ... and then I will take some photos in my circle of friends to bask in.

Before Children's Day came, my son's kindergarten held a small ball shooting competition, and he won the first place. Moreover, he also achieved good results in the quick calculation exam and won the prize. So my brain opened wide and I decided to take some photos, bask in my circle of friends and be proud. I don't want to "lose" to other people's children all the time. I really want to get a game back.

But my husband stopped me. He said, "Don't make friends. Few people really like other people's children ... "

Then she clicked on the comment window. I thought she was going to be sarcastic and talk about the child's shortcomings, and she was going to watch a tearing drama. I didn't expect her to reply: honey, it's so cute! A Mu! When I grow up, I will be Yang li Ping or Caiqi Yang ... Come on!

Except a few people in this world, such as your relatives, your closest friends, your children's teachers … few people really like your children!

Praise your children is mostly perfunctory, and more people are jealous of your children being so smart, so sensible, wearing such noble and beautiful clothes, playing with so many high-end toys ... and then always trying to surpass you and compare your children. ...

Your child is clever, and my child is smarter; Your child wore a pair of Nike shoes, and so did my child the next day ... It's not a sunbathing, it's a comparison between parents, it's a vanity. ...

Therefore, I often see some mothers in the circle of friends, saying that their children's toothbrushes and toothpaste are German, watercolor pens are American, oil pastels are Korean, milk powder they eat is Dutch, and diapers they use are Japanese ... This is obviously showing off their wealth. Grandparents' sense of accomplishment. Children have become a label for parents to show off their wealth.

According to the past, my children did well before Children's Day. I dare not make friends, and I am unable to compete with others for children. We held a family meeting, bought gifts for our children, encouraged and rewarded them, and praised their progress with practical actions. We are glad that the children like it. ...

Good children are educated, not exposed to the sun.