What are the eight behaviors of women who deeply love men that are very demeaning?

Zhang Ailing said: "People will always feel happy when they are close to happiness, but they will be swayed by considerations of gain and loss when they are happy." In fact, the same is true of the woman you love deeply.

When love begins to sprout, like the warm sunshine in winter, it shines on the body and warms the heart; When love blooms wantonly, it is like a muddy water covered with dense grass. It's like tying your feet with a rope. The bones bleed, struggle and ache all over. The deeper you love, the deeper you sink, and the more you worry about being swayed by considerations of gain and loss.

Love will slowly corrode a woman's brain, making her willing to lose her mind, lose the bottom line and principle of protecting herself, and devote her life to loving someone. However, the more a woman loves a man, the lower her value in the eyes of a man. Especially the following behaviors of women who love men deeply are very damaging to their personality:

0 1, find the right person and be on call 24 hours a day.

When a woman is in love, she is easily captured by a man in a few words and falls into his gentle trap. Women are immersed in sugar-coated shells carefully fabricated by men.

The right man and woman can be wronged or even paralyzed by themselves, and they can be on call 24 hours a day. She regards a man as her world, he stands in the center of the world, and she becomes a slave crawling under his feet.

Love should be happy, not tired; Love should be giving to each other, not struggling alone; Love should be mutual respect, not dust ... women are always around the man they like, which proves that men don't care enough about women's feelings. Because she doesn't love enough, she will "consume" her love at will.

02. When the man is away, she checks the post and calls one after another.

Love makes women lose self-confidence and gradually worry about losing each other, so they want to hold him tighter and see him more firmly. For example, look at the mobile phone and wallet of a man at home at any time; When men are away, she often patrols the sentry and makes phone calls one after another, hoping that men will report their whereabouts to her 24 hours a day. ...

Many loves begin to change qualitatively in doubt, lose confidence in doubt and break up in quarrels. The deeper a woman loves, the more insecure she is, and she wants to turn love into a rope and tie a man to her side.

But in the world of love, women don't trust men too much, and watching him too closely can easily make him feel depressed and suffocated. As we all know, men are like quicksand. The tighter a woman holds, the faster she may skate.

She takes care of men's daily life.

When you are in love, you should have a gesture of falling in love, which is more conducive to establishing a good relationship model. For example, on the anniversary, he gives you a handbag that you miss, and you can also give him a gift that he expects; You cook a delicious meal and he goes into the kitchen to wash the dishes once. ...

In love, a good mode of getting along should be that men and women care about each other, give and receive love from each other. Only in a virtuous circle can love last longer.

After a woman falls in love with a man, she likes to integrate love into the details of her life and slowly arrange her life. Although women are carefully handling everything for men, they gradually make men feel taken for granted, forgetting to pay and the feeling of taking care of women. Gradually, he no longer pays for women, no longer feels grateful, and no longer really loves her.

04. When a man betrays love, it is easy for a woman to forgive him.

When a woman loves deeply, it is easy to lower her bottom line and principles. Even if a man betrayed her, she is still willing to forgive, as long as he can come back to her.

When a man betrays love, he is actually telling a woman that he doesn't love her. Although men don't admit it, they keep saying that the person they love most is their wife. In fact, the fact that men don't love her has long been integrated into life. Because you don't love, you will become indifferent; Because you don't love, you will ignore your family; Because you don't love, you will abandon love and lose your heart.

Women easily forgive a man's betrayal, which will make him more unscrupulous. A woman will swallow her pride and lower the bottom line, which will make him more fearless. Once you are unfaithful, you don't need a hundred times. Because a man who changes his mind is like bad food, even if he barely fills his stomach, it will cause all kinds of discomfort.

05. Women have been begging men not to break up.

A woman can love a man forever, or she can love a man with all her strength, but she can't lose herself and her dignity for a man who doesn't love her.

Some love, like flowers that bloom prematurely in other seasons, is destined to wither earlier. Some love is destined to only teach some people to grow up, not enough to accompany them for a lifetime. If a relationship ends sooner or later, a woman has been begging a man not to break up, even if he stays, it is only out of sympathy, not love.

Twisted melons are not sweet. In order to love a man, a woman is humble to the dust, and often she can't be cherished by a man, and it is difficult to get a man's sincerity.

06, accommodating men in every way, never expressing opinions.

When a man decides to pursue a woman, he must be attracted by some bright spot in her. The unique personality between people lies in the difference of water chestnut, and the scenery presented is bound to be different.

When a woman gets along with a man, in order to win his favor, she will indulge him in every way and never take the initiative to express her opinions, which will make his love dull.

Because at the beginning, the shining point that women attracted him has gradually faded, and women have turned themselves into vassals of men. Without any valuable accessories, they have lost her charm value.

07. Break up if you disagree, so that you can gain more love.

A woman says she broke up a hundred times, but once is not necessarily true. Because women regard this method as a means to gain more love and attract men's attention by "threatening" men.

In fact, when a woman is in love, breaking up without saying a word will make a man feel that she is too casual about love, and at the same time make him feel that maybe she really doesn't love him, so she will break up again and again. Every time a woman says goodbye to a man, it is undoubtedly a nail in his heart.

Women tell the "lies" of breaking up again and again in the name of love, which will make men feel at a loss. Its essence is "deception" and its consequence is fatigue. Finally, the man's heart was broken and he let her go.

08. Go for love, give up career and future for him.

For love, women are like moths, regardless of the consequences, regardless of the cost. When in love, a woman can give up her career and her future for love and a man.

Perhaps, a man has the ability to give her a good life, but once a woman gives up her dream and career for love, she becomes a parasite in love and has to rely on a man to live. This kind of love will make women gradually lose confidence and lose themselves.

When a woman gives up her personality and economic independence, she gives up her equal status. Only truly outstanding women, who are independent in personality and economy, communicate with men on an equal footing and fall in love on an equal footing, will attract each other deeply at the same time.

In love, a woman must have a good posture, be elegant and learn to improve herself. Don't sacrifice yourself blindly for love. Paying too much will only accelerate the passing of love. And self-protection, is to preserve the charm value. Women can't control men by "management", so it's better to invest in themselves to attract men to get close to her and cherish her.

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