Why are Scorpio and Virgo hacked the most?

Scorpio and Virgo, these two constellations are the easiest to be hacked among all 12 constellations.

Scorpio is described as a sinister villain with strong jealousy and revenge, while Virgo is called "turtle hair". They are regarded as picky and stingy guys. In short, people in these two constellations, you'd better stay away from them, otherwise, you will definitely be ugly.

On the Internet, someone told about their love experience with Scorpio, saying that they were controlled by the other party. Some people say that they are gloomy and always unpredictable, trying to spy on all your secrets; Of course, there is another possibility, that is, they can fool around by themselves outside, but you must be a virtuous and heroic woman at home, and so on. As for Virgo, that is a word, annoying, annoying. I keep nagging every day, from dressing up to every move, as if they were watching me. I have to say something to you. It's really more annoying than my mother.

Ok, ok, I admit that you are right, but do you need to be enemies with them, who account for one-sixth of the world's population?

Each constellation has its own advantages and disadvantages. When we are talking about how insidious Scorpio is and how bitter Virgo is, have we ever found fault with other constellations? Isn't it wrong that Aries is rude, Taurus is stubborn, Gemini playboy, Cancer is suspicious, Leo is arrogant, Libra is picky, Sagittarius is talkative, Capricorn is indifferent, Aquarius is lofty, and Pisces is clingy? When we find fault with others, have we carefully examined our own shortcomings?

From the astrological point of view, each of us is a collection of multiple constellations. Your sun sign may not be Scorpio or Virgo, but can you guarantee that your moon is not one of these two signs? Can you guarantee that your rising sign is not one of these two signs? Also, your main constellation, one of your Venus, Mercury and Mars, is not in these two constellations?

In fact, everyone, more or less, the important planets in his chart, or the constellation where the rising point is located (that is, the rising constellation) and the constellation of destiny (that is, the constellation where the destiny star is located) will fall in Scorpio or Virgo. In other words, one aspect of our personality will always have the characteristics of these two constellations.

Not only that, psychologically speaking, Scorpio's strong desire for control and Virgo's strong desire for perfection are actually our human nature.

Want to control everything, this is everyone's subconscious mind. Don't you see, through the ages, how many people have the dream of being king and dominating, and for what? To put it bluntly, is it not because you want more? Describe it with a commendatory term, that kind of idea is called "ambition", and describe it with a derogatory term, that is "ambition". Regardless of ambition or ambition, in short, who wants to be a normal person and does not want more money, higher status and more rights? However, Scorpio people's desire for such people is too full, and their mentality and Chengdu, which they want to achieve by hook or by crook, are enough to keep people in other constellations at a distance.

Whether at home or abroad, people usually don't have much affection for those guys who are too ambitious and controlling. Why? Because you took what I wanted in my heart but couldn't get it, am I not a head lower than you? Scorpio people are easy to succeed because they are resolute and persistent in their goals. In the corporate rich list, we can find many scorpios. However, shooting at the first bird will inevitably alienate them from the public. Who told these people that they are so powerful that there seems to be no other good way except to criticize them thoroughly in character?

So, what about Virgo? Sorry, Virgo, your pursuit of perfection will also bring you trouble. In fact, everyone wants everything to be perfect, but everyone knows that the world is not perfect. Isn't there a saying that "life is unhappy, nine times out of ten"? Emperor Qianlong, who claimed to be a "perfect old man" at first, was dug up hundreds of years after his death. What does this mean? Doesn't that mean you are too ostentatious? Therefore, you'd better not talk about the word "perfect", otherwise, you will only be hated.

Virgo's fault is not to pursue perfection. If you are strict with yourself and demanding perfection, forget it. Anyway, that's your business, not mine. But if you will impose such excessive perfectionism on others, you will inevitably criticize and nag others and cause them boredom. Are you the only person in the world who is absolutely right? Of course, the general public can't tolerate a guy who is above himself, pointing fingers at himself and finding fault? Who do you think you are? Is it God? Come on, God wouldn't dare to be so picky every three days, okay?

Now you should understand, right? The biggest problem for Scorpio and Virgo is that there is something in their personalities that will make others unhappy. What is this unhappy thing? That is: being dominated, being controlled, being picky and being used as the tool of the other party. Scorpio regards others as tools of their own control, while Virgo regards others as animals that can be analyzed. Of course, this will only cause public anger.

But, to be fair, which one of us doesn't have the shadow of these two constellations in his heart? Human nature is selfish, because it is selfish, it is arrogant, so it likes to be above. Yes, everyone has this kind of humanity. You have it, I have it, and everyone will have it.

Then, after knowing the darkest side of your heart, how should you face it?

There is only one solution, and that is tolerance and introspection.

We can't control others. Even if you are in a high position, even if you are rich, you can't control everyone's thoughts, words and deeds. Forcing others to obey you is just wishful thinking. Especially in terms of feelings, people who want their other half to do what you say will only come back disappointed in the end. The result of control will only cause the resistance and anger of the people you control.

The only person we can control in this world is ourselves. We should restrain ourselves and make demands on ourselves instead of forcing others to obey us. No, it's okay. Only when you do it, others will trust you and follow you. Self-cultivation, governing the country, leveling the world, self-discipline, no one will follow you.

We can't force others. Perfection does not exist. Even if it exists, it's just what you ask of yourself. People who criticize others because they are not doing well are not noble themselves. You know, when one finger points at another, there are four fingers pointing at yourself. So be tolerant.

Sit still and think about yourself all the time. Gossip is not personal.