Zhang Guoli's divorce agreement became the pain point of Deng Jie's life. Why?

Zhang Guoli and Deng Jie are role models in many people's eyes. Since getting married, husband and wife have gone hand in hand for twenty or thirty years. But in fact, there are no children between them, which has actually become the pain point of Deng Jie's life. Zhang Guoli and Deng Jie both had a marriage before they got married, so the agreement when Zhang Guoli and his ex-wife divorced was actually a pain point for Deng Jie, so why?

I. Zhang Guoli and Deng's Road to Love Before they met Zhang Guoli and Deng Jie, they both had their own marriages. But Deng Jie's marriage actually lasted only four years, and it didn't take long for her to get divorced. Zhang Guoli and Deng Jie are both actors, so they met. Actually, it's also because of TV series. In the process of making stagnant water, they met. Deng Jie's first impression of Zhang Guoli was not particularly good, because Zhang Guoli gave people a cold and inaccessible feeling. But after a slow contact, Deng Jie was also impressed by Zhang Guoli's talent and thought that he was also a good man. At this time, two people appreciate each other, and the seeds of love are quietly sprouting.

But at that time, when they first met, or when the seeds of love were budding, Zhang Guoli was a family man. So their feelings didn't actually get everyone's blessing at that time. Because their feelings are actually based on the pain of Zhang Guoli's family. And at that time, Zhang Guoli and his ex-wife had been together for several years, and there was a child between them. If you choose divorce at this time, it is actually a kind of harm.

Second, Zhang Guoli's divorce agreement with his ex-wife Zhang Guoli and Deng Jie actually went through some hardships in the process of getting to know each other, and finally came together. At that time, if Zhang Guoli wanted to marry or fall in love with Deng Jie, she must have divorced her ex-wife. Otherwise, she will never give Deng Jie a birthright. At first, my ex-wife didn't want a divorce, and finally she wrote a divorce agreement and promised a divorce. It's also in the divorce papers. After they got married, Zhang Guoli and Deng Jie couldn't have children of their own, and offered to let Zhang Guoli leave home clean. I think this divorce agreement not only became the pain point of Deng Jie's life, but also the pain point of Zhang Guoli at that time, because after all, life was actually more difficult for a long time after divorce.

This divorce agreement, to some extent, may also be that the ex-wife wants to keep Zhang Zhang Guoli, because this agreement is really unreasonable, requiring him to leave home clean, and also preventing both of them from having their own children. Such an unreasonable agreement was nothing more than trying to get Zhang Guoli back, but Zhang Guoli was also very firm at that time and chose Deng Jie, so even such an unreasonable agreement was signed, and finally he came together with Deng Jie.

Third, Deng Jie's life pain points. Now they are nearly 60 years old, but they have never had children, which is also because of this divorce agreement. So this is actually the pain point of Deng Jie's life. Although it was a very happy thing to be with the person you love at the beginning, it will be a pain point not to have your own children after marriage, no matter who you put them on. Although Zhang Guoli has a child with his ex-wife, Zhang Mo and Deng Jie are not on good terms. However, the two of them adopted a child in 2005, and maybe they have let it go to some extent.

Sometimes feelings are so confusing, even after a long marriage. But when we meet the right person, we will still choose to be with each other. Just like Zhang Guoli and Deng Jie, Zhang Guoli chose to lead an honest and clean life, and they worked together. Now, we can see that Zhang Guoli and Deng Jie love each other very much. Although this relationship did bring harm to a family at the beginning, it may also show how stable their relationship is over time. Even if you are not optimistic at first, or even blessed by everyone, your feelings are not in the hands of others. The most important thing is your own feelings.