Love secrets of long-distance lovers 33 strokes, love heats up!

33 strokes of long-distance love, the more you talk, the sweeter it is, giving each other a sense of security.

1, people in long-distance relationships should set a set of rules, including the frequency of meeting and the number of calls, and what not to do.

2. If the other person is in a bad mood and doesn't want to talk. You can wait for him to relax for a day or two, and he will tell you when he wants to talk. Don't contact him too often, which may make him more sad. Sometimes not talking is good company.

When you start to feel psychologically distant from each other, you might as well find a suitable time to have a heart-to-heart talk with each other and express your doubts frankly.

4. If you have a quarrel, don't delete your friends, don't miss the phone, and don't blacken it. It really hurts. .

When you are in a bad mood, you can directly say that you are in a bad mood. Don't hold it back, or the other person will mistakenly think that you are weak.

It is ok to quarrel, but the main point should be "Let's take a break first" at the end, not "Let's just let it be".

7. If you don't reply or reply to the message in time, tell the other party what you are busy with in time.

8. Occasionally, you can plan the appointment arrangement for the next meeting together and prepare a surprise for the other half to look forward to.

9. Say I love you once in a while, often say I miss you, don't always say things like breaking up, maybe when the other person will be serious.

10, negative energy should be properly spit out.

1 1. Say good night before going to bed. Is it real sleep, not fake? Good night?

12, the circle of friends leaves each other's footprints, don't leave them empty, which will make TA feel that he is not integrated into your world.

13. Keep in close contact. Couples can share daily things, not just when something happens.

14, share with each other, give each other a full sense of security, don't be stingy with what you want to share, and let each other know what you are doing in another place.

15, create opportunities to meet and express your love in the days when you can meet and be together!

16, lovers must trust each other. Girls are delicate and sensitive. If the tone is a little wrong, they will be suspicious. In fact, boys are not completely safe, so they understand each other. Asking if there is anything wrong, mutual suspicion will disintegrate trust.

17, never chat in the process and resolutely put an end to "Hey, what are you doing? Have you eaten? Can I help you? What, nothing, then I'll hang up .. This kind of chat is not advisable.

18, expressing feelings, expressing your feelings is very important for the development and stability of love.

19, send acacia thousands of miles away

From time to time, prepare something for the other half in a different place and send it to express your love.

20. Try to cross two places at the same time.

You can experience dating together, such as going to two places to watch movies at the same time, and then discuss it.

2 1, try to cultivate some * * * with the topic.

Expand some interests of * * *, for example, everyone likes American dramas and movies, and we can watch or chat together.

22. Make warm little videos for each other from time to time.

You can collect the photos you usually take together and make some warm little videos from time to time to make your feelings stronger.

23. Let * * have a goal.

You can work towards your goals and make progress together. 24. Proper preparation for surprises will increase your mood.

25. Keep looking forward to each other.

Say what kind of date you want next time, and then fill in the plan for the next date bit by bit, so that the expectation of love will not fade.

26. Never have a cold war.

Falling in love and quarreling are inevitable, but long-distance relationships can't be cold war.

Once the cold war, if we don't contact for too long, the relationship will be just like a direct breakup, and the fake breakup will become a real breakup.

27. Use a sense of ceremony to promote that you are not single.

* * * with couples' heads, etc. Feel the state of love and give your partner a complete feeling.

28. Set a time to end the long-distance relationship.

A long-distance relationship will feel that you are in love with your mobile phone, and the person you love can't be around you. It is easy to have no confidence in love.

29. Learn to listen

Listen clearly to your boyfriend's distress, don't be in a hurry to comfort him, learn to listen, and then put forward a targeted response.

30. Meet regularly

Agree on the number of times you meet, and give each other a hug when you meet, so that each other will feel that you miss him very much.

3 1, seize the mood

If you can't give a solution, grasp the other person's emotions. At the same time, learn to recognize emotions, and then give * * * feelings accurately, so that the other party can feel your understanding.

32. Warm and comfortable

Tell each other: No matter what decision you make, I will support you unconditionally.

Or accompany each other, as long as the other person's emotions are vented, the pressure will be greatly alleviated.

33. Keep a fixed contact time every day.

It is very important to maintain a fixed communication frequency. No matter how busy you are, you should call 10 minutes at least every day to express your feelings.

It's not difficult to be in a different place. What is really difficult is your getting along and interacting.