How do idols affect children's growth?

Idols have a great influence on a person's growth. Parents usually become the first idols in their children's lives, but as their children grow up, they will explore a wider world. When I was a student, I worshipped Bill Gates, Jobs, Wang Shouren and Zeng Guofan, but I didn't realize what impact these people would have on my future. Looking back now, I chose the IT industry after graduating from college, and my attitude and way of treating children, as well as my understanding and pursuit of life, were deeply influenced by these people. Everyone is what he is today, hiding the books he has read, the roads he has traveled and the people he likes. Whether children can provide richer, more diverse and more constructive environment and opportunities depends on parents' ability and pattern.

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Let the children have fire in their hearts and light in their eyes.

Once a school did a survey, and the results showed that:

"85% of outstanding students have beautiful life ideals, and most of those underachievers have no life goals.

Only when children find what they like and have goals can they have a sense of direction. "

Idols are often people who give children direction and goals in life.

Many people will have such a situation, what kind of idols they meet when they are young, what kind of goals they have, and what kind of life they will eventually have.

So for children, a good idol is a shortcut to growth.

A good idol will have a positive influence on children, make them become upward, self-disciplined and make unremitting efforts for their goals.

Not only that, idols can also inspire each other with children, so that children can become better themselves and gather into the brilliant night sky of the Milky Way.

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Let the children go upstream, not afraid of wind and rain.

The variety "Star Detective" once defined "idol" like this:

"Idol is a mirror, which reflects what kind of person you want to be.

Idol is power, which gives you hope and courage to face life. "

In the eyes of many parents, idols are illusory. As we all know, many children can survive embarrassing and unbearable loneliness just because they have idols in their hearts.

Idols are sometimes the strength for children to walk in adversity.

Liang Qichao also said when talking about parenting classics:

"Reading biographies of celebrities can stimulate people's ambition most, and the wisdom of handling things has increased a lot. Therefore, it is so expensive for ancient people to read history. "

Children with idols can constantly encourage themselves with the deeds of idols, and they can also give birth to hard wings in the face of setbacks.

Behind every shining child, there are countless unknown nights. Fortunately, they are not alone, and the power of idols will accompany them through the most difficult time.

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If there are no idols on the road of children's growth

A lot of education is useless.

In life, we can often see a phenomenon: when children are young, they always obey their parents' instructions and requirements.

But as children grow up, they begin to question their parents' words. Sometimes they listen to their parents on the surface, but they are not convinced:

"Why should I listen to you?"

Especially after puberty, every child is trying to become mature and independent. This also allows us to see the fact that after puberty, parents' influence on their children is getting weaker and weaker.

But at the same time, the influence of idols is gradually increasing. People who have the characteristics of children's appreciation, or the stars of public figures, often become the first choice for children to worship.

Before the child is mature and has not formed a perfect world view, the words and deeds of idols will affect the child and even become the benchmark for the child.

In the process of chasing idols, children will constantly imitate idols, from the character of being a man to the way of doing things. After a long time, it will even be internalized into personality and habits, which will accompany the child for a lifetime.

Therefore, as the first responsible person of children, what parents should do is not to deny their idols, but to attach importance to their role. Guide children to find their own motivation from their love for idols.