How does a man who is too controlling behave?

Lead: The desire for control is one of the primitive instincts of human beings, and everyone will want to control some things or other things more or less. Usually, people who have a strong sense of insecurity have a stronger desire to control, while those who are cautious, pursue perfection and are always restless in their hearts prefer to control others. The desire for control is a manifestation of inner fear.

How does a man who is too controlling behave?

He criticized everything you did.

He is always under the guise of helping you. Whether you want to improve your life or embarrass yourself, he will always find reasons to criticize you. In fact, he is indulging his desire for control.

He tells you how to treat your body.

He supervises your diet and advises you to take pole dancing lessons. In fact, it doesn't suit you at all, or it prevents you from getting a tattoo. He may care too much about your health and appearance.

He belittled your female friend.

A controlling man will separate his girlfriend from her best friend in his own way. He will refuse to go to the party with your friends, but he always wants to know where you are and who you are with. He always speaks ill of your friend, and gradually you and your friend will be estranged.

He doesn't support your hobby.

If a man is insecure and controlling, he will not support you to do anything to improve yourself unless it is beneficial to him.

5. He doesn't believe you.

If you can't drive his car, reserve dinner seats or take his dog out of his sight, it means that his desire for protection has exceeded the bottom line. If a man doesn't believe that you can do such a simple thing, then you can only be his old friend, not his soul mate.

The most controlling constellation in love.

First place: Leo

The lion is the king of beasts, and it is also the representative of strength. In life, Leo people are born with the desire to control everything and power. Whether in work, career or love, they must be guides and leaders. For love, if your lover is an overbearing and arrogant lion, then a lion with strong self-esteem must always look like "I am in charge of everything, I am the most powerful" in front of outsiders.

Lions are proud not only outside, but also in private. Lions will arrange everything subjectively and plausibly. No matter whether those things are right or wrong, they will think they are right. But if the lion really has you in his heart, then as long as he makes up his mind to lose his temper, the lion will mainly obey and become a docile cat. However, this is only in private. If you don't give the lion enough face in front of outsiders and let outsiders feel that he has the dominant position, it will be in big trouble!

Second place: Scorpio

Scorpio, cold outside and hot inside, seems indifferent to each other. In fact, as long as they get along with each other for a long time, they begin to dig their hearts out, and even take out the "fire" hidden in their hearts: they not only care about and remind each other of all kinds of problems in their lives at all times, but even become more and more bound by everything. Whether the other party accepts it or not, they have to impose their ideas on their lovers.

From "cold as ice" at first to "passionate as fire" later, lovers may feel sweet about this change in Scorpio at first, but over time, they will become more and more incomprehensible and even disgusted-why do you help me decide my affairs? My business, why do you have to participate in everything? In fact, this is the way Scorpio loves a person, but because he loves each other too much, he can't help but participate in everything of the other party and even help the other party solve it himself. This way is taken for granted by Scorpio, and it is also the duty of TA as a lover. Therefore, Scorpio's dominant position in love is not because of his inner desire and domination of power, but because of his love for a person.

Third place: Taurus

Taurus's attitude towards love is serious and single-minded, just like a diligent cow, stubborn in his bones. But Taurus also has a side that most people don't know, that is, it is very possessive. Although it is not as obvious as the lion and Scorpio, this possessiveness will be reflected in every bit of life.

In love, Taurus seems to be very indulgent and tolerant of lovers, and everything can be forgiven without sharp remarks. However, to the surprise of lovers, Taurus often quietly decides and arranges some important things for each other. When lovers find out, it must be arranged by Taurus according to TA's own ideas. Even if lovers want to change something, there is no way to refute it. As the saying goes, "An open gun is easy to hide, but an open arrow is hard to defend." Taurus quietly won the war of love and took the lead.

Fourth place: cancer

For sensitive cancer, love is a very important part of life. They seem to be meticulous about their lovers, and they are considerate of everything, which makes other lovers jealous. But as everyone knows, this thoughtfulness and thoughtfulness, like a strong net, tightly entangles each other and makes them breathless, because it has nothing to do with their lover.

Because I cherish this love too much and am too afraid of losing it. Therefore, for all major issues and minor issues, Cancer has arranged everything in a watertight way, and everything must have its own participation to feel at ease. We should not only know the situation beforehand, but also deal with it together, and even do the aftermath afterwards. This may be a kind of warmth and consideration, but such a cancer also invisibly occupies the dominant position in love, allowing the other party to be obedient under the control of TA.

Fifth place: Pisces

Pisces, who is romantic by nature, looks very casual and easy-going no matter to lovers or anything in love. If lovers can solve troublesome things on their own, Pisces will not intervene. They will appreciate and encourage lovers, but if lovers are in trouble, Pisces can't sit idly by. As long as they intervene, even if lovers stand up and object, they can't stop them from intervening in these things.

This kind of Pisces is definitely "when it's time to shoot." They are desperate to intervene in their lovers' affairs, regardless of their own thoughts and opinions, and feel that it is time to shoot themselves. If lovers don't agree with Pisces' involvement in the incident, then Pisces will earnestly persuade lovers to make them have to compromise, and then solve things with their own ideas and resolute ways. This situation is much more, and Pisces will gradually transfer the dominance to their own hands.