12 constellation couples quarrel. What minefields are there?

Every couple will quarrel, especially when they just live together, because they don't know each other very well. It takes a running-in period to get better slowly, but sometimes it will take hours to print. But everyone has their own bottom line, don't touch it. Then, come to the 8 18, 12 constellation lovers to quarrel in the minefield.

Principle 1: "Listen patiently."

Suitable constellations: Aries, Gemini, Virgo, Capricorn.

In the above four constellations, Aries is impatient, Gemini loves to talk but doesn't like to listen, Virgo and Capricorn are more or less conceited, and it is the easiest to "be reasonable and convince others by reasoning" when quarreling. The war is bound to escalate. Try to listen carefully to each other's demands, take turns to speak and communicate clearly, and you will find that you may be at fault, so as to solve the dispute better.

Principle 2: "Positive"

Suitable constellations: Cancer, Virgo, Libra and Pisces.

The above constellations are used to emotional thinking when considering things, which leads to too many negative emotions or intentionally or unintentionally insinuating your dissatisfaction when quarreling. For example, when there is a contradiction, you will always say, "You don't love me, you don't care about me. You weren't like this before." Raising a small problem to a big level will make the other party disgusted and at a loss. Try to express your dissatisfaction positively, such as "I know you are busy at work, but I still hope you can take time to spend with me!" " Simply put: talk well!

Principle 3: "Reflection on mistakes"

Suitable constellations: Taurus, Leo, Sagittarius, Capricorn.

Taurus and Sagittarius are single-minded, while lions are always aggressive, and Capricorn is stubborn. Therefore, when quarreling, they always put the blame on each other first, hoping that the other party will unconditionally accommodate themselves and admit their mistakes. If everyone refuses to admit their mistakes, try to take a step back and admit their mistakes before talking about each other's mistakes, so as to communicate better.

Principle 4: "Give each other a step" is aimed at constellations: Aries, Leo, Scorpio, Aquarius, either with a higher heart than the sky, or a dark belly, or an iceberg after a thousand-year quarrel. * * * The same thing is that they are not willing to make up after quarreling, but in fact, many times they can be recovered in one step, even if WeChat sends an expression. People who care too much about face can easily become the Millennium single dog.

Principle 5: Constellation "Don't turn over old scores": Cancer, Virgo, Scorpio and Pisces always try to turn over old scores when quarreling to find more evidence to correct each other's mistakes, so as to make each other feel more guilty and admit their mistakes, but in fact, this will only cause each other greater anger, and it is endless to turn over old scores all day. We should change "you did this last time" to "what if you do this in the future".

Principle 6: "Don't do it" for constellations: Aries, Leo, Sagittarius and Aquarius, especially boys. Don't do it, don't do it, don't do it, don't do it, say the important things three times. Two people quarrel, hug, and it's over. Once you do it, you will go up a level. Even if it is reconciled, it will leave a serious crack. Besides, you will refrain from doing it and throwing things. Here, Miss Sister recommends several ways to vent: playing games, running, eating, doing housework and buying at buy buy. Anyway, everything can be discussed, no need to start work!

Principle 7: "Don't say goodbye" warns the above impulsive constellations: Aries, Gemini, Sagittarius, Libra: Even if you are angry again, don't threaten each other with breaking up unless you really calm down and think carefully, because angry breaking up will hurt both parties, and minutes will lead to irreparable results.

Principle 8: Don't have a cold war with the constellations Taurus, Virgo, Scorpio and Capricorn. To be honest, when the above constellations are cold, it will snow all over the world. The lethality of the cold war lies in killing people's enthusiasm and expectation bit by bit. During the cold war, both sides were tortured and tried to figure out each other, but due to lack of communication, they could only go further and further on the road of misunderstanding. Therefore, compared with the cold war, my sister hopes that you will have a good fight.