How to evaluate the current social college students' mate selection criteria?

Five thousand years after reading the twenty-four histories, it has never been so difficult for young people to get married in modern society.

In real estate, capitalists export inferior social values, the whole people make money by hook or by crook, and the savings of three generations are handed over and put into houses. Decades later, it became a pile of reinforced concrete and construction waste.

The imbalance between men and women of the same age directly leads to the difficulty of mate selection for young men and women, just without the need for female pairing.

Looking back decades ago, husband and wife, father and son, mother and son could all turn against each other. Father and son are the closest blood relationship in the world. The emperor tried the case, but he still knew how to maintain filial piety and refused to let the children of the parties testify in court.

There is a big problem in this society.

But abroad, it is very easy to get married in western countries. Take the less developed areas whose economies are not as good as China's, such as Ukraine and Brazil. The ratio of male to female is 1:7, or even higher. It is very easy to fall in love and get married. The other person mainly depends on whether you are interesting, emotional, loyal and spiritual, and rarely emphasizes the material level.

Japan, which has always been despised by our neighbors, gave up its royal membership and married a commoner. Why not learn from it?

Our mate selection criteria: it is best to find a poor farmer at first, poor and white, and the ancestors have been the best for dozens of generations, and can be recommended to study and go to college. The youngest son of the landlord's family was discriminated against and no one wanted to marry him.

Later, I asked for bicycles, color TVs and sewing machines (in retrospect, these things are worthless at all).

Up to now, houses and cars in big cities are standard.

What's more, it's acceptable to just ask for money from relocated households and nouveau riche, even if they are in their teens or twenties.

To say the least, the object we are looking for is in good condition, well matched and excellent. In case someone is down and out, has no money, or is seriously ill, will it be difficult to break up directly?

what do you think? There are cars all over the street, and the expressway is blocked for more than ten kilometers. It can be said that most of them are very rich. Why treat marriage as if you have never seen the world and don't have enough to eat? You have no manners at all.

Marriage in this mode can't stand a little storm. Decades later, the only child, the four-year-old parents are old and weak, or the real estate market is seriously declining, or one's career is frustrated, many families will encounter the crisis of falling apart.

Everyone is comparing, blindly impetuous. Parents compare their children with each other, do well in college exams, work well, and earn high wages; Young people compare cars, clothes, consumption levels and company benefits; Old people have nothing to do, but there are too few people who can grow vegetables, flowers and write calligraphy in the countryside with peace of mind, and they are afraid that they will not enjoy it. What happened?

Thousands of years of culture, sages have been teaching us to be poor and happy, and ill-gotten wealth is nothing to me.