Wei Zi called her brother.

What is the purpose of a woman calling you "brother" but not daring to admit it? When men and women get along, women often call men brothers, which is both sweet and intimate, and usually makes men instantly soft-hearted. However, men don't have to get excited too early. If a woman often calls her friends of the opposite sex brothers, she probably contains a certain category and can't get along easily. In fact, when a woman calls a man "brother", there are also some ambiguous elements in it, which is the easiest for a man to lower his guard.

Many men get excited when they see a woman calling her brother. They think they can be ambiguous and develop into lovers, so they can kill two birds with one stone. However, if a woman doesn't really want to get along with you, but has a strong purpose, it is likely to cause you a lot of costs, such as time, time and energy, economic development and so on. So, what do women think of calling you "brother"? Men still have to figure it out to prevent blindly following the trend in their feelings. Generally speaking, women call you "brother" for three purposes, but they dare not admit it.

First, I want to develop you into a man's best friend and fill her emotional vacancy. Women not only have expectations for feelings, but also have great hopes for heterosexual friendship, which is higher than ordinary friends, but not in love, which makes women very excited. So when they get along with men, if they think they can chat with you and have a tacit understanding with each other, they want to develop you into a male girlfriend.

In the eyes of women, male girlfriends are more intimate than the opposite sex, but they will not develop into love, so they look ambiguous and feel romantic. Moreover, women always have emotional vacancies. At this time, you can find a male girlfriend to accompany yourself in case of inner loneliness. Especially these women who are far away from their boyfriends or husbands, love to let male girlfriends replace the other half to fill emotional vacancies.

Miss Wang, a friend, has made a male best friend and has been together for three years. The couple used to have a very close influence. Not long after we met at that time, Miss Wang felt that she hit it off with her boyfriend, but she already had a boyfriend, and it was not easy to further develop with him. However, Miss Wang intends to develop him into a confidant of the opposite sex, so she affectionately calls him "brother" and expects them to become girlfriends.

That's it. Miss Wang has always called her boyfriend brother, and they have a good relationship. Whenever her boyfriend is not around, she will find a boyfriend to entertain herself. Two people eat together, watch movies together, go shopping together, and go out to play together, which largely fills the inner lack. Therefore, women take the initiative to call you brother, probably because they want to develop heterosexual friendship with you and make you her boyfriend's best friend, thus giving them more emotional waiting.

Second, I want to get your attention and benefit from you. The more practical purpose of a woman calling your brother is to attract your attention, reduce your vigilance and get benefits from you. This kind of woman, ostensibly your brother and sister, actually regards you as a spare tire and expects your investment in them, whether emotionally or economically. When they get along with you, they will be gentle and sweet, which can really melt your heart.

Once this sister is confirmed, it is very easy to fall into an emotional trap without being careful. After they know you, they will find many excuses, either to let you pay for their consumers or to give you gifts and red envelopes. Even, there are some women who call you brother affectionately, but they have regarded you as "most of the culprits" in their hearts, and it is very likely that they will continue to seek loans from you and let you invest a lot of marginal income.

Therefore, when a man meets a woman and calls you brother, don't be too careless. You think you made a pure sister. In fact, she will probably treat you as a completely free ATM. It is not easy for you to have all the influence in her heart, and it is not easy to talk to you when she doesn't need you. Once they need it, they will ask you out. For example, if they have difficulties, especially in the case of high consumption, they will be more tender and infatuated with you, so that you have no reason to invest.

Generally speaking, women don't call their heterosexual friends brothers. If they are not really tempted, they can't touch you at all. Therefore, when a woman takes the initiative to call your brother and intends to develop a further marriage relationship with you, it is probably another plan. Don't ignore it. Their direct purpose is to ask you for money. If you meet them, you'd better avoid them.

Third, I really like you, using my brother's name as an excuse. Women call you brother for a real purpose, that is, they really like you, but they don't show it well and don't understand your mind, so they use "brother" as an excuse. At this time, she will have an excuse to ask you out, and she won't have to worry about being rejected by you, not to mention that others will make irresponsible remarks. In the case of getting along with you, she will constantly test you to see if you like her. If you have a good impression on her and want to develop further, she will be very happy inside.

Therefore, she will deliberately let you have many hints, hoping that you will take the initiative to poke the window paper and then successfully determine the relationship. On the other hand, there is no deep meaning for you to get along with her, and she won't have any expectations. On the contrary, she will become your sister and brother again and always want your care, which won't hurt her.

This is the case with my friend Miss Shen. When she likes her boyfriend, she is too shy to say. What's more, she had a wrong relationship before, worried about being hurt in her feelings, and rashly got along with her boyfriend. So, she deliberately tested her boyfriend, and in the case of communication, she always called him brother, which was very sweet. Hearing this, my boyfriend looks very happy, and plans to develop a closer relationship with him, especially caring for her and caring for her.

In daily life, her boyfriend always protects her, considers everything for him, and her feelings completely exceed those of the general opposite sex. Therefore, Miss Shen is optimistic about her boyfriend's liking for herself, suggesting that he will pursue perfection and constantly provide opportunities for him. Finally, her boyfriend confessed in a tryst, and they soon became lovers. Therefore, if a woman calls you brother, it may be that she likes it very much, but she is not very active and worried about being missed, so it implies that you should pursue perfection. If you are sincere to her, she will be with you.

Conclusion: To sum up, most women call you "brother" for these three purposes, but they just dare not admit it. I want to develop you into a boyfriend and girlfriend to fill her emotional vacancy; Want to get your attention and get benefits from you; I really like you, using my brother's name as an excuse.

When men and women get along, we must find out her real purpose and how to prevent blindly following the trend. If you find that a woman is insincere and has certain plans for you, you can't pester her. Why not avoid it as soon as possible? Naturally, if you find that women really like you, you need to seize the opportunity. If you really pursue perfection, you will get a perfect love. In short, if you fully understand the deep meaning of "brother", you can clearly understand the woman's thoughts and thus advance and retreat.