Single for a few years, where is the fate? Wei Zi

It will be 520 in a few days.

I am often asked questions about marriage. The vast world of mortals, how many melancholy looking for marriage in the night? Where is your marriage?

Marriage, "karma", that is to say, your proper career is related to "cause" and "the fate of two people"

The reason refers to the predestined fate (the most intuitive performance is the eight characters), and there are all kinds of coincidences ... the unknown coincidence is the most fascinating place in love.

Encounter. Fall in love. Misunderstanding. Missed it Even if it is a regret, it is meaningful to experience it one by one.

The fate of the two depends on the hard work of both sides. Fate doesn't come out of thin air. It is a good idea to overcome difficulties step by step and tolerate each other.

After explaining marriage, let's talk about "active marriage".

In the past, time was very slow, and you could only love one person in your life, so there is no ambiguity in "positive fate", which refers to the person you finally married. In today's society, the proportion of divorce has increased rapidly. Some people's original intention when seeking for the exam is to have someone for life, but in the end it is always difficult to do so.

So, how should "positive edge" be defined? Some people specify that it is the right fate to be with you for life, which is of course right. But I think "positive fate" can also refer to the expected next relationship when you measure it.

People will always meet many people in this life. How do you judge how long this person can stay with you? In fact, it is also very simple, which can be judged by different traffic restrictions:

Life is a lifetime.

Long-term restriction

Spend a short time

No matter whether it is a positive fate or not, no matter how long it can accompany you, the key is your inner expectation and emotional planning. Hold the best expectation, do your best, and keep every fate as a positive fate, so as not to lose yourself.

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Let's talk about Ziweixing again. The following contents are modified only by considering Wei Zi's own star situation and ignoring the influence of other stars.

First, everyone will die one day. In the last year of the chart, Ryutsuki Daily will rotate with a period of 12. Therefore, the content of this article applies to everyone, not just those who quit.

Purple MSI, the master of the Big Dipper, can be compared to the characteristics of the "emperor". We will follow this idea in the following content, and the star situation can also rely on this image to assist memory.

Analogy is enough, don't follow the practice of "sticking the stars in the Red Chamber of the Three Kingdoms to the characters" in the fake book. Doing so will inevitably lead to mistakes and omissions, and even the phenomenon of borrowing false loans by mistake will appear.

The characteristics of emperors: strength, management, decisiveness, arrogance and command.

People who are resigned to their fate are very independent. They like to make their own decisions when they encounter things (although sometimes they don't want to know whether they need to be responsible for the decisions), and they will feel bossed around and ordered by others. A similar situation will happen when Wei Zi is sitting in Fude Palace.

Sometimes, people who seem obedient at ordinary times suddenly become strong, or people who have no opinions suddenly start to make up their minds. Maybe it's Wei Zi's turn in his time. Everyone can spin, which is only the side of human character.

People who are resigned to their fate have high self-esteem. Although they are not fragile and sensitive to blx, when they feel humiliated or despised by others, they often have blood on their heads, so it is difficult to tolerate others in the workplace or at home.

With such a personality, people who are resigned will either rise to the highest level in the workplace, reach the management level quickly, and give full play to their positive advantages in personality, or feel bound in more junior positions. After middle age, they often choose to start their own businesses and get out of their own sky.

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How to deal with resigned people in intimate relationships?

Such people tend to be "self-centered" and pay attention to their own feelings. This is actually an advantage in many scenes, but not in love. Sometimes we ignore each other's feelings.

I especially care about each other and want to help, but the expression I say is uncomfortable. This dilemma is caused by the influence of Zixing. Pay attention when communicating, and it is best not to give orders or have pressure.

Say the ugly first. People who are resigned to their fate also have many advantages in love.

Self-reliance is a very attractive quality for both men and women. When dealing with gentle and honest people, the two can complement each other. Some couples will have conflicts because they can't decide what to eat today, but they will not be resigned. They will make up their minds when they decide what to eat.

When it comes to love, resigned people are more like "pragmatists". They will consider the long-term planning of love at an early age and imagine their married life.

For them, a temporary love affair is important, but whether it can last for a long time is more important, so impulsive love is rare for them. From the perspective of marriage, people who are resigned to life are great marriage partners.

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If your lover or people around you have purple personality, how do you get along with them?

Wei Zi, like the emperor, needs "the right to speak" and "attitude". Pay attention to mutual respect when communicating. When making a decision, if it directly concerns Ta himself, ask Wei Zi for his own opinion.

Although Ta is likely to delegate power, it will only take one look and will not change your decision, but "ask or not ask" is very important.

"Angry" is a common situation. Although sometimes, you make a particularly reasonable and extremely correct suggestion, but when you make a resolution, it seems disrespectful, and people who are resigned will say no.

The above is not to say that you need to deliberately agree and flatter, but a tendency to get along. Deliberately catering to feelings can't last long. You should know that a person drinks cold water and warm water.

Of course, marriage and love are only a part of life, and you can't affect your state because of some setbacks.

I hope the person in your heart can hear your sigh.