Is the highest fate of a woman good or bad?

The highest fate of a woman is kindness.

Generally speaking, men are yang and women are yin. But there must be yin and yang in the eight characters to balance. What you said may be roughly that women's lives seem to be more yang than yin, or they may all be yang. This situation will be what you said: a girl looks like a man. As the saying goes, marriage will be bumpy, and some are on the other hand. Of course, there are also many excellent ones, and they may have a slightly worse temper, such as unyielding personality, hard temper, short temper and independent mind. The balance of yin and yang between men and women is better, or there are more men and fewer women.