Modesty in love, how to change this passive situation?

It is very humble in love, and it often appears in unequal love. Because love often comes from one party's active pursuit and the other party's passive acceptance, and the one who actively pursues is often the most passive. Sometimes it's really two of a kind. After meeting, both of them feel that the other party is particularly to their liking.

It is inevitable that the active pursuit of love will bring humble status or be in a passive position. Who let the active pursuit of this party can only like others, but can not let others like themselves? Therefore, the active party must be passive. At the beginning of love, one party will be very passive. You should tolerate each other's thoughts and behaviors, because you like each other, but you can't be sure that the other person likes you enough, or you can be sure that you like him very much, but you can't be sure that he likes you that much.

To change this humble state of love, we must plan the final gains and losses, because change is risky. If you can't accommodate each other, then you two will have conflicts. If we can't reconcile this contradiction, we will eventually go to Africa, so change is risky. But if you say that two people have a fundamental contradiction and think that you can't solve the problem, then you must learn to take the initiative to take risks. But this is a crazy nirvana. If successful, then the relationship between the two people will be more equal, and the future progress will not be smooth sailing.

There is a saying on the internet, lick the dog, lick the dog, and there is nothing in the end. I think this sentence is very appropriate. Love should be equal. Two people can be active or passive, but there should be no distinction between extreme and humble. If there is a humble party, it proves that this love is not equal, and the future progress will not be smooth sailing, and most of them will fall apart.