After Wei Zi, I felt sick.

If your expectation for your partner is "clear as water", then it may be really hard for you to let go. Because, judging from the phenomenon that you are in a trance all day, this expectation is very important to you. And finding out that he is masturbating directly breaks your expectations and makes you find some truth in the relationship between the two sexes, which will make you feel uncomfortable, and you will feel uncomfortable.

However, since you have found it, you'd better not take it to heart. Because you can't digest it yourself, if you hold it, then you are likely to have several situations-

Otherwise, you may find other reasons elsewhere and take it out on him inexplicably to confuse him.

Otherwise, you may regard him as an unclean person, a bad person and a disloyal person from now on.

Otherwise, you may not say anything to him, but secretly suppress yourself to internal injuries and feel that you are no longer loved by him.

You know, these situations will shake this precious relationship.

Instead, I suggest you don't carry this thing alone. Take it out and talk to him. It's better for two people to face it together than for one person. If you don't know how to say it, just tell him what you sent. I think what you said is very clear and good, and I'm sure he can understand after reading it.

As long as he knows that the discussion is coming with you, then at least your relationship will have a new opportunity.