If Daiyu becomes Baoyu's wife and Qingwen becomes a concubine, can they live happily?

Many fans of the Red Chamber said that if Lin Daiyu became Jia Baoyu's wife, it would be nice if Qingwen was accepted as a concubine by Jia Baoyu. Lin Daiyu would cherish Qingwen and live in harmony. But in fact, this is impossible.

Qingwen and Lin Daiyu are very different in culture and personality. Although Lin Daiyu and Qingwen are not very shrewd, Lin Daiyu is sentimental and Qingwen is a piece of charcoal. Lin Daiyu will cry when she is wronged, and Qingwen will quarrel with others when she is angry. Lin Daiyu and Qingwen are simply at odds.

Lin Daiyu once said, "In all domestic affairs, either the east wind overwhelms the west wind or the west wind overwhelms the east wind." This sentence is very reasonable. Wives and concubines can't be sisters. Just look at Mrs. Wang and Aunt Zhao.

Although Qingwen is not as wicked as Aunt Zhao, Qingwen is no worse than Aunt Zhao in fighting for her own rights and interests. If Qingwen is accepted as a concubine by Jia Baoyu, she will feel unfair for the huge difference in treatment and status between herself and her wife, and she will also feel wronged for her son. She will think: Why are my son and his wife's son brothers, and their status and treatment are so different?

Lin Daiyu was originally a suspicious person, but Qingwen's violent temper dared to say anything. Qingwen has always been disrespectful to leaders, and sneers at her immediate boss, the hitter. What the attacker said was inconsistent with Qingwen's intention. Qingwen's quarrel can make the hitter cry.

On one occasion, Qingwen quarreled with Jia Baoyu and xiren alone, but Qingwen won. Jia Baoyu bowed his head and cried. Fortunately, Lin Daiyu came to the circus and called xiren a sister-in-law.

Qingwen was never afraid of her master and dared to argue with Jia Baoyu. Every time she gets angry and quarrels with Jia Baoyu, she needs Jia Baoyu to make up with her afterwards, coax her and even give her a fan to play with. Will Lin Daiyu get used to it?

Once, Qingwen let Lin Daiyu eat the door, Lin Daiyu misunderstood Jia Baoyu, and Jia Baoyu came to make up with Lin Daiyu. Lin Daiyu also said, "The girl in your room should be in charge."