I love Ziwei.

A Dream of Red Mansions begins with the theme of "talking about love", which talks about not only simple love and friendship, but also family ties. Speaking of affection, I have to say parents, but in children's memory, the father is always serious, and the mother, whether strict or gentle, is the most dependent person for children. A Dream of Red Mansions understands the world, so many mothers are also written in the book. They all have different looks.

"Mother" is a very special word. The first person a child babbles is a "mother", because the child grew up in her arms before she was one year old. Mother is the person that children have to talk about when they grow up. There are many mothers with different temperament and shapes in A Dream of Red Mansions, and look at their influence on their children's life.

First, the loving son of a clever mother and parents is far-reaching. The first kind of mother in A Dream of Red Mansions can be regarded as a clever mother. They think of their children from the bottom of their hearts. They may not understand their behavior at first sight, but after a long time, they will understand their pains. The so-called parents love their children, which has far-reaching influence.

Jia has been very successful in educating her children, and the marriage she chose is also of great significance. Jia has three children, Jia She, Jia Zheng and Jia Zheng. Although Jia She and Jia Zheng are unlucky, they are also very virtuous. Jia She was only influenced by others later. Jia Zheng and Jia She are men who can get married anyway, so Jia Jia has more love for Jia Min and attaches great importance to her marriage.

Jia's fortune is in full swing. If she can send her daughter to the palace, she can consolidate her position. However, Jia Jia did not choose to sacrifice her daughter's happiness. She married Jia Min to the Lins, who have been a scholarly family for generations. Lin Ruhai is kind, affectionate and prosperous. This arrangement can not only make Jia Min happy for ordinary women, but also lead a rich life.

For two children, one inherits the title and the other inherits the Guo Rong mansion. Both of them have their own interests and will not compete. If Jia Min didn't die young, she would live a happy life. Jia is far-sighted. She has long considered the future of her children.

Jia Min, the best mother, tried her best to plan the future for Daiyu when she was ill. Jia Min is lucky to marry the Lins in this life. She has a husband who loves her deeply. Although Daiyu is the only daughter under her knee, the couple are still very good. If Jia Min doesn't die, she must take good care of Daiyu and make her happy forever, but a sudden illness forced her to make good plans for Daiyu's mention.

Lin Ruhai loves Daiyu, but first of all, Lin Ruhai's busy work may not be able to take care of Daiyu. Secondly, if Lin Ruhai remarries or remarries in the future, his love for Daiyu will also change. Therefore, in order not to let Daiyu be wronged, it is the best arrangement to send Daiyu to Grandmother Jia.

Jia Min had already told Daiyu about the Jia family and the way of the world, so that Daiyu could be easily tested by everyone, and then get Jia's concern and attention. Jia Min taught Daiyu's intelligence, alertness and poetic brilliance well, which not only cultivated Daiyu's tolerance, but also made Daiyu find spiritual comfort.

Attack mother and Liu Wuer's mother, respect children's dreams, and do your best to help children get an extraordinary life. Xiren and Liu Wuer are both servants of the Jia family, but they both have an extraordinary dream of being a senior official. Aron wanted to stay with Baoyu all the time, so when his mother offered to redeem him when the family conditions were good, Aron flatly refused to die. Later, when she saw Baoyu's intimacy with Aron, Aron's mother acquiesced in her practice. The attacker's family is not a burden to her. Her mother wants to treat her as a slave if she has no money, but once she has money, she wants to redeem her and let her get the happiness of ordinary people. However, when they saw Xiren's dream, their families did not force Xiren to respect her choice when she went home. If her dream didn't come true, they also reserved a way for her to go home.

Liu Wuer is just a little-known girl. Because of her temperament and appearance, comparable to attacks and peace, so has been unwilling to ordinary. She wants to go to Yuan to make great achievements. Her mother is in charge of the kitchen in the Grand View Garden. Although Aunt Zhao's nephew Qian Huai kept hitting on her, Liu's mother refused. She hopes her daughter will have a good future in the long run. Sister Liu respected her dream and refused Qian Huaijia's marriage for her. She is willing to fulfill her daughter's dream, whether she is entrusting someone or looking for a relationship.

Despite all her mistakes, Wang Xifeng has a heart for her daughter. Wang Xifeng never believed in the retribution of the underworld. She has always felt that everything she can do with her own abilities and rights is reasonable. She is not afraid of anything. She thinks she can control the whole situation, but she always thinks about her daughter. On weekdays, Wang Xifeng took care of her daughter and gave her the best upbringing.

Qiaojie got smallpox, and Wang Xifeng actually worshipped the goddess of acne; Qiaojie got sick after eating a piece of cake in the Grand View Garden. Granny Liu said after listening that she met a flower god. Search immediately asked people to pay paper money to show their respect. Search never believes in ghosts and gods, but she is still willing to do many things for Qiaojie.

When Jia's house was robbed, everyone feared for himself. Wang Xifeng sent Qiaojie out of Jiafu early, but it was only because the trustee was not good that Qiaojie was sold to the brothel. But grandma Liu, who was planted by Wang Xifeng in her early years, was finally saved and gave her a stable life. Wang Xifeng is not a good person, but she is the best mother.

Second, the confused mother, preference and indulgence are not as good as after all. When people say that a child is not sensible, they will mention that the child's mother didn't educate the child well. For example, Mrs. Xing also mentioned her birth mother and was kicked out, asking her mother to take her away. The reason why I can't blame my father is only because my mother is the one who has been with my children for the longest time. There are good mothers like Jia Min and Wang Xifeng in A Dream of Red Mansions, but there are also some confused mothers. Their preference and connivance for children will eventually harm their lives.

Aunt Xue, seemingly generous, has taught two of the most overbearing and sensible children. Spoil is not love. Aunt Xue seems to be the most generous person in the Jia family. She laughs with people and loves her nephews and nieces, but she has educated two children with completely different personalities.

Aunt Xue didn't educate her children well at all. Her blind preference and indulgence made Xue Pan develop a domineering and fearless character. Because when he makes a mistake, someone will bear the consequences for him, and she will eventually bear the unshirkable responsibility for her own sins.

Baochai completely lost herself because she knew too much, and even sacrificed her happiness for her family. Because Baochai didn't say anything, Aunt Xue acquiesced that she didn't need it, but a precocious child like Baochai was also unhappy.

Aunt Xue is really not a good mother. She loves her two children very much, but she didn't educate them well. Xue Pan runs amok, and Baochai hides her folly and is cautious. Neither is necessarily good.

Mrs. Wang has been hurting children in the name of "for your own good". What kind of mother is Mrs. Wang? The children who grew up beside her, Yuan Chun, Jia Zhu and Baoyu, were excellent, but Mrs. Wang made every child very sad. Mrs. Wang's strict discipline made Jia Zhu die young for no reason; Although Mrs. Wang sent Yuan Chun to the palace as a lady, Yuan Chun was not happy at all. She went home to visit her relatives for several hours and cried several times, which is rare.

Baoyu is suffering because of Mrs. Wang's cruelty to the girls around him. Mrs. Wang made every child very sad in the name of being good for the children.

Mrs. Wang educates her children in the traditional way, only paying attention to their bodies and lives, and never caring about their psychology, so her self-righteous kindness often hurts them. This kind of education will only turn children into marionettes, without life and consciousness.

Your mother, the most dishonest mother, made her two daughters suffer all their lives. You Laoniang didn't abandon his two daughters, and took them to remarry to the You family, which was You Laoniang's kindness to the two children. However, with the decline of Youjia, Youjia married Jia Zhen to fill the family business, and Youjia was equivalent to climbing the family.

Jia Zhen has always been lewd and smooth. It's impossible for your mother not to know that Jia Zhen is a man, but she dare not intervene to protect her and let your sisters fool around with Jia Zhen. This wrong step led to the tragic fate of Second Sister You and You Sanjie.

You Erjie secretly married Jia Lian as a second wife, and was later brutally killed by Jia Fu's deep house compound. You Sanjie wanted to marry and start a new life, but Liu refused, and finally she committed suicide. If your mother gave advice to his two daughters and took good care of them, how did this happen?

Third mother's love is a sealed time, but still warm. No one in the book will blame her, whether she is a caring mother or a confused mother. Mother gave us life, which is the greatest gift. In my impression, my father is a far-reaching benchmark, and I can look up and guide the direction, but no matter when, where and under what circumstances, my mother is the warmest person to rely on and look for.

I didn't understand my mother's love when I was a child. I always thought my mother was strict with my father. Later, I learned that this was my parents' strategy, "one plays the bad COP and the other plays the bad COP".

Every time a mother hits her child's stick, it hurts in her heart. If the father is often away from home, he will alienate his children, but the mother will not leave you anyway and will protect you.

Children grow up from embryos in their mothers' bodies. Mother and son listen to each other's heartbeat for ten months, feel each other's breathing and pulse, and get nutrition from their mothers through umbilical cord. Even if the child is born, he is still an inseparable part of the mother. Children love to cry, but their mothers won't cry when they hold them. Listening to the familiar heartbeat is an innate sense of security. Some children have to touch their mother's lips and hands to fall asleep. Sometimes when they are hurt, when they cry silently, only their mother can be the first to find and feel it.

When I called home, my mother agreed that this was home. As long as you go home, the years are still the same, and time may pass, but home stays in the past, and the time you stay is the deepest love.

Generally speaking, A Dream of Red Mansions depicts two kinds of mothers. The first category is smart mothers, who often have a good sense of the overall situation and think deeply about their children early. Jia Mu, Jia Min and Wang Xifeng can all fall into this category; The other kind is confused mothers, whose indulgence, negligence and preference lead their children astray, and those who love too much can't breathe. Families don't have a choice, inherit the wind. No matter what mother did wrong, they are still the softest place in her heart. Motherly love is a sealed time and the warmest place. Don't be ashamed to express your love for your mother, but tell her that you love her, and don't wait for the regret that "the child wants to raise and the relatives don't wait"!

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