My husband and I quarreled when we came back from burning incense in the temple.

Burning incense is a religious belief and a way of praying. However, in the process of burning incense, if we pay too much attention to our prayers, we may ignore the people and things around us, thus causing some unnecessary conflicts and disputes. Here are some possible reasons for the quarrel:

1. Disagreement: When burning incense, you and your husband may have different views and practices on certain religious beliefs or ways of praying. These different views may lead to disagreement and eventually to quarrel.

2. Poor communication: In the process of burning incense, if your husband doesn't hear your prayers clearly, or you don't understand his thoughts, it may also lead to misunderstandings and conflicts. Therefore, good communication is very important to avoid unnecessary misunderstandings and quarrels.

3. Stress and anxiety: In the process of burning incense, you may feel stress and anxiety because you want your prayers to be answered. These emotions may affect your mood and behavior, which may lead to quarreling with your husband.

In order to avoid quarreling with her husband after burning incense, you can try the following methods:

1. Respect each other's beliefs and opinions: It is very important to respect each other's beliefs and opinions in the process of burning incense. If you and your husband have different beliefs or opinions, you can try to understand and tolerate each other.

2. Maintain good communication: Before burning incense, you can discuss the contents and methods of prayer with your husband to avoid misunderstandings and conflicts caused by poor communication. At the same time, after burning incense, you can actively communicate with your husband to understand each other's thoughts and feelings.

3. Relax: Before burning incense, you can do something relaxing, such as taking a deep breath, meditating or doing some relaxing exercise. These methods can help you relieve stress and anxiety, so as to better face the process of burning incense.

In short, burning incense is a way of faith and blessing, which should be faced with respect, understanding and tolerance. If you have a quarrel with your husband because of burning incense, you can try to solve the contradiction through communication and understanding.