What kind of love do you think is true love?

The first thing that comes to mind when I see this problem is the love between men and women. True love is often something that everyone has been exploring. No one can describe what true love looks like, just imagine some plots and events, and then say, in that case, I think it is true love. For example, the true love of Wei Zi and Er Kang is that "mountains have no boundaries, heaven and earth are in harmony, and only dare to break with you".

But I think when it comes to true love, people think of men's and women's feelings for the first time because it takes a long time to find true love between men and women, which is hard to come by, and it needs to go through various tests to identify whether it is true love. At the same time, we often ignore a kind of love that exists in ourselves and everyone is associated with it, that is, maternal love, fatherly love and a series of family ties. This kind of love is undoubtedly true love.

Everyone ignored it because they were sure it was normal. From this kind of true love, we can deduce some characteristics of true love and depict the shadow of true love. This is why true love will eventually develop into family ties. Whether it is family or true love, there are similarities. The former is the sublimation of the latter.

When it comes to parents' love, the most commonly used adjective is selflessness. Therefore, I think true love must be selfless. I want to be willing to pay for each other without asking for anything in return. I will be very happy after paying for each other, and I will be very satisfied to see each other being good. This feeling is true love. Now a lot of love wants to be rewarded. Seeing that the other party pays less, they will shrink back and dare not continue to pay. This will not end.

Then think about the second description, which is that it will last for a long time and will not change easily. That is, firmness is eternal. If love can't change, regret or let go of each other when encountering any problems, then this kind of love is true love. Many feelings can't last after some setbacks, and love that only exists in the comfort zone is not true love.