The male teacher began to beg me to get a room in the classroom.

Oral: Xue Xin

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I have been working for four years, and I have a chance of promotion before the end of the year, provided that my English is good. So I signed up for an advanced English training class. The class is full of qualified people, but there are fewer girls. Moreover, I am lively by nature, and I like to do some little tricks, which often attract the attention of boys in my class. They all praised me as beautiful and lovely, and I don't think there is anything wrong with it. But a boy secretly confessed to me, and I refused. However, the bigger problem is coming. The teacher who teaches us English even has a special preference for me. Every time after class or before class, she would talk to me, even in front of her classmates, saying that girls should learn from me, be cheerful and enterprising, and dress well to have a good future! Although the teacher is not much older than us, I feel embarrassed because all the students know that he has a girlfriend!

If it's just like this, it's ok, but on a rainy day a month ago, all the boys left after class at night, and all the girls were picked up by their boyfriends, leaving only me and the teacher in the classroom. Actually, the teacher has an umbrella, but I don't understand why he doesn't leave. I was just about to talk to him when he spoke first. He said Xue Xin wanted to tell you something. Actually, I like you for a long time. Although I have a girlfriend, it doesn't prevent us from dating. We can be lovers. Look, it's raining outside, and it may be quite cold. Why don't we get a hotel room and talk about your future? When he said this, I could see that there was a strong desire burning in his eyes. He was a little scared and his face changed. Perhaps he also felt his rudeness and added: the teacher has never asked anyone, but in the matter of feelings, he must try his best to fight for it! After that, he stared at my eyes hard, and I avoided his eyes and rushed into the rain without saying a word. To tell the truth, I only had one feeling at that time: this man is really shameless and despicable to the extreme! It's really bad for teachers' morality to think about having an affair when you have a girlfriend. What is even more ridiculous is that he is obviously a hypocrite and pretends to be just!

However, although I refused his hospitality this time, what should I do next time? How can I give him bad breath and keep him away from me? Thank you for your suggestions!

Yaqing replied:

I have a girlfriend who is also targeted by a romantic man and openly asks for a room with her. She replied without thinking, "Yes, but can I take my boyfriend?" The romantic man ran away at once. And you are a teacher, and your girlfriend is still bothering you. You are obviously a pervert. You shouldn't be soft on him, but he is your teacher and you shouldn't offend him too much. If he makes such unreasonable demands again, you might as well say, "Wait, my gynecological examination will come out next week." It will definitely keep him away. And he was guilty first, so naturally he won't spread what you said!

Oral: willow branches in the wind

I have been ready for divorce since I accidentally learned that my husband was cheating on me. Although he promised repeatedly that it wouldn't happen again, I was still worried. I even want to find an affair to find balance. Is this right?

Yaqing replied:

At present, the most important thing for you is to see if he has brought back any diseases from other women, so as not to infect you. Then, keep an eye on your passbook, bank card and wallet. Don't think that I will encourage you to be unfaithful to him, so the woman who retaliates will die miserably in nine cases out of ten.