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"Are you pregnant? No, no, you go to Nantong, go to Shanghai, and have an abortion immediately. "

The doctor who opened the hospital said to Su Xiaolin, a patient who came to consult.

The doctor's duty is to save lives, but why should the patient give up the fetus in her stomach and let her abort the child with paranoia?

It turned out that Su Xiaolin was born with a disability. Her height is only 1 10 cm, and her feet are tandem, so she can't walk upright.

If you are just short and can't walk upright, it won't affect production.

But when Su Xiaolin was born, her liver, spleen, stomach and kidney were contrary to ordinary people. This situation is also called "mirror person".

Su Xiaolin is the first pregnant pocket mirror person with congenital malformation in China. Prior to this, no hospital in China had produced "mirror people", and the technology was very immature.

Su Xiaolin, who can be stubborn, resolutely refused to abort the fetus and insisted on giving birth to the child.

Su Xiaolin, then 26, volunteered to be an administrator on a public welfare website. She often enlightens people with the same physical disabilities and teaches them to treat life optimistically.

During this period, Su Xiaolin met Yang Haijun from Langfang, Hebei.

Yang Haijun is eight years older than Su Xiaolin. Because of polio, she can only limp.

When Yang Haijun learned the truth about Su Xiaolin, he was very shocked. He didn't expect that Su Xiaolin's physical condition would be so serious.

Su Xiaolin's disability deeply touched Yang Haijun, especially Su Xiaolin's optimism, which always made Yang Haijun feel like a spring breeze. After a period of contact, Yang Haijun got up the courage to show his love to Su Xiaolin.

At the beginning of 20 10, Su Xiaolin and Yang Haijun, who had known each other for two or three months, got married in Qidong, their hometown.

After the marriage, the husband and wife opened a shop in Weizi Village, mainly repairing computers and mobile phones, and sometimes advertising.

With life on the right track, the young couple can finally live like ordinary people.

After half a year, Su Xiaolin felt unwell and vomited everything she ate. Later, she learned that she was pregnant.

When she told the news to her family, she was shocked rather than blessed.

After learning the news, Su Xiaolin's mother, Zhang Yuqun, said to her in surprise, "Can you get pregnant?"

Carrying on the family line is an important event in the family. How could Zhang Yuqun not want a grandson? However, her daughter's situation is really special, and a little carelessness may lead to two lives.

Her family suggested that she go to the hospital to listen to the doctor's advice before making plans.

Su Xiaolin said frankly to the doctor, "I am pregnant", but the doctor's words poured cold water on her.

The doctor said, "How can a person like you get pregnant?" Go, go, go, the sooner the better, stop it. "

Su Xiaolin told her mother the truth, and she also showed her attitude: resolutely give birth to the child.

Su Xiaolin was very strong since she was a child. She thinks she is short except that she can't walk, and she is no different from ordinary people.

Since other girls can have children, why not?

In addition, she also hopes to give birth to the crystallization of love with Yang Haijun.

Zhang Yuqun always respects her daughter's choice. She knew that she could never stop her daughter's stubbornness.

Zhang Yuqun is very entangled. She hopes that Su Xiaolin can have a child so that she can die of old age. But I'm also worried that my daughter will die.

For Zhang Yuqun, Su Xiaolin can live a healthy and happy life. She is already satisfied and doesn't want to ask for more.

During that time, Zhang Yuqun tossed and turned, unable to sleep at night.

But when you open your eyes, you can't help but think about whether to support or discourage your daughter.

Su Xiaolin is a very filial child. She can't bear to see her elderly mother worry about herself.

Therefore, she decided to follow the advice of her family and doctors and abort the child.

When Su Xiaolin was lying on the operating table, ready to play anesthetic, the doctor pointed to the screen and said to Su Xiaolin, "Look, there is a small black spot. This is your child, not yet formed. "

Su Xiaolin turned her head and looked at the other side of the screen. Guilt, struggle, self-blame and pain flooded her mind in turn.

What Su Xiaolin thinks is how cruel she is. In order to save her life, she personally sentenced her young child to death.

Many years later, Su Xiaolin recalled the scene at that time and said emotionally, "That feeling is really, really sad."

The days after the abortion were the most painful time in Su Xiaolin's life.

At this time, the tossing and turning person changed from mother Zhang Yuqun to daughter Su Xiaolin.

Su Xiaolin often thinks that after doing so many tests, there has never been a data telling her that the child's development will oppress her lungs, heart and other body organs, and she will definitely die after giving birth.

After this robbery, Su Xiaolin had a new understanding of her mother and life.

Su Xiaolin said to herself, "If any woman doesn't want to be a mother once, I won't let her life change for me. I will give birth to her children again."

Although Yang Haijun understood Su Xiaolin's feelings, he couldn't help but dissuade his wife from being so stubborn about having children.

Yang Haijun said, "What shall I do if you leave?"

Su Xiaolin thinks she has lost too much in her life.

I lost the right to walk normally when I was born, and then I lost the right to education.

This time, she can finally grasp it by herself.

A year later, Su Xiaolin became pregnant again.

She couldn't hide her excitement and told her family the good news.

They all know Su Xiaolin's strength and loss after the first abortion. Those who opposed her chose to support her.

Su Xiaolin came to the hospital again. She told the doctor loudly, "I'm pregnant."

The doctor said, "Do you want it?"

There was no further inspection at that time, and Su Xiaolin was not sure about the answer.

But when the test results came out and showed that the child was developing normally, Su Xiaolin was so excited that she burst into tears.

Su Xiaolin, who has experienced loss, knows how to cherish it this time.

How eager Su Xiaolin is to be a mother, stroking her lovely little feet and meaty mouth, and listening to the children calling "Mom" one after another, how happy it is.

However, the road to dreams is not smooth after all.

Su Xiaolin is a "mirror image person", which doomed her to suffer more than ordinary pregnant women.

As the child grows up, Su Xiaolin can't eat or sleep. She often wakes up in pain in the middle of the night and then faints.

Because of the special body structure, Su Xiaolin's child develops obliquely, with his head above his left chest and his feet on the right side of his stomach.

Su Xiaolin's stomach is much smaller than ordinary people, only about two fingers wide.

She can feel the baby around her neck, and whenever Su Xiaolin swallows food, it hurts.

However, she can't let the children lack nutrition. Su Xiaolin can only eat it bite by bite with severe pain, and then she will continue to eat it because of pregnancy reaction.

Six months later, the child's skull was directly on Su Xiaolin's ribs.

Su Xiaolin recalled: "That kind of pain, alas, is really beyond words."

Seeing that her stomach is getting bigger every day, it is difficult for Su Xiaolin and her family to find a hospital to give birth.

Caesarean section in Byakki Smoker is a blank in the national medical industry, and no hospital is willing to take the risk.

Su Xiaolin remembered a report she had read before, telling the story of Zhang delivering a baby to a pocket man in a hospital.

Su Xiaolin took her family to find Zhang with great hope. She said, "If you don't take me over, no one will want me."

In the spirit of saving the world, Director Zhang agreed to give birth to Su Xiaolin.

About seven months pregnant, Su Xiaolin is about to give birth.

Su Xiaolin's ward is crowded with doctors every day. They told Su Xiaolin truthfully that the possibility of mother and child being safe is less than 10%, and it is very likely that Su Xiaolin will die on the operating table.

Su Xiaolin had no fear and anxiety at that time, but was thinking about what she could leave for the world.

Many years later, recalling this life-and-death day, Su Xiaolin said with a smile: "I thought about it, I don't have a good place in my body, so I'd better donate my cornea."

At some point, Su Xiaolin smiled more happily. She went on to say, "I just want not to damage the cornea and affect the' secondary sales'."

Su Xiaolin can laugh off such a painful experience. She is strong enough to see it.

On the morning of the operation, Yang Haijun was dragged by the doctor to sign one agreement after another, with a thickness of 10 cm.

The doctor told Yang Haijun and Zhang Yuqun to get ready, and Su Xiaolin left forever.

Zhang Yuqun was miserable and had to rest with the help of her eldest daughter.

At that time, Su Xiaolin could not breathe. If she is delayed, Su Xiaolin may leave on the spot.

Yang Haijun can only pretend to be strong and sign one agreement after another.

"The sun is so beautiful today, I woke up." This is Su Xiaolin's first reaction after giving birth to a child.

Originally, she thought she would die in a coma, but she saw the sunshine outside the window.

What excites her even more is that the child was born safely.

The doctor came to Su Xiaolin with a newborn baby boy. Su Xiaolin looked at this little guy who was only 3 kg and 6 liang, and shed tears of happiness.

It is a miracle that Su Xiaolin, who has a special physical structure and is born with a disability, can be pregnant and premature for more than two months, and can also give birth smoothly.

Fortunately, Su Xiaolin's children did not suffer from congenital diseases due to premature birth, nor did they inherit their parents' disabilities.

Children thrive under the care of their families.

Su Xiaolin has taken her children to David's programs many times, and she often shares her experiences with her children on her account.

Today, Su Xiaolin's child 10 years old. He knew it was not easy for his mother to give birth to himself. He is very filial and sensible, and always introduces his mother to his classmates.

The child will help her mother comb her hair and wash her face at home, and she will take the initiative to push her when she goes out.

Su Xiaolin's efforts finally paid off.

It is because she has experienced despair that Su Xiaolin knows how to share hope better.

Su Xiaolin, who is physically disabled and determined, also wants to contribute to the development of society.

Su Xiaolin joined Suzhou Goodwill Enterprise Management Co., Ltd. and became the operator of "12345" government service hotline.

She always listens patiently to every caller's difficulties and answers their questions patiently.

Shortly after joining the company, the epidemic swept through Suzhou.

One night on 202 1, Su Xiaolin picked up the phone as usual, and the man at the other end of the phone was sobbing.

Su Xiaolin gently asked him what help he needed.

The man said that he had just come to Suzhou to work, and the result was an epidemic. And the validity period of the nucleic acid certificate has passed 48 hours. Travel code with an asterisk,

He has no friends in Suzhou, and no hotel is willing to take him in. It is raining heavily outside, and he is cold and hungry. I really don't know what to do.

Su Xiaolin first comforted him to calm down, and then explained to him the epidemic prevention policy in Suzhou. She said, "I'll help you contact the Suzhou rescue station now. You can go to your community now and explain the situation to the staff. Let's contact together, which is more efficient. "

In this way, the homeless man was successfully accepted by the isolation hotel.

During the epidemic, Su Xiaolin encountered countless such situations. The person on the other end of the phone complained of abuse, but Su Xiaolin always patiently persuaded.

Su Xiaolin is meticulous in her work. She always stands straight.

In her view, this is a respect for the other end of the phone, and it can also keep the voice warm and warm at all times.

At the same time, Su Xiaolin is also an epidemic prevention volunteer.

As long as she has time, she will wear red sleeves and drive her own "six-wheeled vehicle" to the door of the community to take the temperature of the residents and register.

Inspired by her, many disabled people also joined the volunteer team.

Su Xiaolin on weekdays is also very keen on public welfare undertakings.

Taking her own shop as the "base", she set up the "March 8th Red Flag Bearer Su Xiaolin Studio", and regularly held public speaking activities to help those disabled people out of the shadows.

Su Xiaolin and her team regularly hold "Dream Help" public welfare activities, and plan warm-hearted public welfare projects such as "having a wheelchair instead of walking", "taking a group of wedding photos", "taking you to see the flower sea" and "realizing a dream".

Su Xiaolin also often gives lectures on campus, urging children to work hard through personal experience, cherishing the present and not going astray.

Su Xiaolin said: "Adolescent children are easy to lose themselves. I am glad that I can be a navigation light in their lives."

In order to infect more people, Su Xiaolin deliberately published her own experiences and life insights into autobiographical books, such as "Winging Dreams" and "Chasing My Dreams", in order to let everyone draw strength from their own experiences.

Su Xiaolin's optimism inspired many people in trouble. From giving birth to a child, to making a website, to becoming a "good man in China" and "chairman of the Disabled Persons' Federation", Su Xiaolin has been down-to-earth in every step.