Wei Zisheng's daughter has a knot.

Introduction: A year has passed, and I am one year older, but Cupid's arrow still missed me. You even begin to doubt whether you can find love, and you will believe in the beautiful fairy tales of two people for a lifetime? Are you fascinated by love, or is it because your heart is not open?

There is no love spell. The knot of the leftover woman, dear! Did you get shot?

Dare not love.

Girlfriend and boyfriend are on and off, and the noise of the previous generation makes you no longer believe that two people can go for a lifetime. Maybe you saw their failure and mapped it on yourself. You are afraid of marriage bets, failure, and being hurt. You are waiting, but you don't know if you can wait for the person you will spend the rest of your life with.

In fact, love itself is an adventure. It takes courage and hard work to meet a gentleman. Maybe you will meet many gentlemen who were right before. Wrong, but you have to understand that love itself is an experience, which may bring you pain, but it can also help you grow.

Can't love.

Looking at myself in the mirror, my figure is not good enough, my eyes are not big enough, my skin is not white enough, and my nose is not high enough. I feel that no one will pay attention to an ordinary little woman like me, let alone love her. Love never patronizes you, and you will be suspicious and depressed. But you should know that what you lose is not your face, but your self-confidence, but your mentality.

A person who doesn't know how to love himself will never be loved by others. Only by living confidently can your body be full of positive energy, and a positive attitude will make you radiant and charming. Your aura is more important than your face. I believe you will have love, and love will knock on the door.

Don't understand love.

You have a love history of N+ 1, but you always fail. You tell the world that there are no good men in the world, but you don't know that you need to reflect. You don't have to be 100% gentle, but you can't boss around all day like the queen; You can worry that your boyfriend won't come home, but you can't always watch him on the serial phone; You may not be beautiful enough, but you can't always complain about life.

Many girls think that if they find the other half, they will find everything. Can you really transform, manage and dominate him? The answer is definitely no, everyone is an independent individual. The intimate relationship between you is based on mutual respect and trust. He needs freedom, space and your understanding. Love is like sand in your hand. The stronger it is, the faster it spreads.

Don't want love

As a housewife, you seldom go out, stay at home and watch Korean dramas, surf the Internet and read romance novels. You don't yearn for love, but you feel that all the men around you are weak. Your mantra is: my standard for men is ... I might as well die if I marry such a man. You think only Hyun Bin and Takeshi Kaneshiro are worth getting married. Snow White like you must find a suitable prince charming, who will board the colorful clouds and make a life-and-death promise with you.

In your opinion, ordinary men are hard to find, without charm and spark. But don't think about it, you may never meet Song Seung Heon around the corner, and your great youth will only flow away in vain in fantasy, leaving you alone in the end. Life has a dreamy side, but more is a cold reality. Try to associate with others. Maybe there will be sparks. Then you will understand that what really attracts you is not his face, but his maturity and self-confidence.

Maybe you are really a rare animal, with outstanding appearance and bad personality. You have little contact with boys since you were a child, and even talking to boys will be unnatural. No boy will approach you voluntarily. You never know the taste of love. To put it bluntly, you haven't realized it on the road of love.

In fact, you don't have to worry too much, because you have to believe that there will be someone waiting for you in this world, and he will appear sooner or later. What you have to do now is to give yourself more opportunities to communicate with the opposite sex, not necessarily for love, but to know more about the other half of animals, which will help you improve your character and understand love slowly.

Editor's Note: After all, women are not saints, but the leftover women have a kind of saint complex self, lofty and aloof. If you can't let go, be an independent person. What I am most afraid of is that I can't let go of my desire to get married and waste my youth and self in hesitation. The knot of the leftover woman, dear! Did you get shot?