How do boys in love restrain their sexual impulses? How do boys suppress sexual impulses?

After men enter puberty, sex hormones are constantly secreted in the body, and various physiological functions are mutated, which makes the reproductive organs and their functions develop rapidly. During the love period, psychological activities related to sex, such as sensibility, emotion, memory and imagination, are extremely active. Girls' bright eyes, white teeth, slim figure and fragrant breath, in short, all the stimuli that girls bring to young men, such as vision, taste, hearing, touch and smell, are all important factors that cause sexual impulses. So, how do boys in love suppress sexual impulses? How do boys suppress sexual impulses?

1. How do boys control their sexual impulses?

First of all, we should get rid of the mystery of sex.

Due to historical reasons, the concepts of "sex" and "sex and lewdness" are deeply rooted in some people's hearts. Therefore, boys should read more books introducing sexual knowledge, enhance their ability to restrain sexual impulses and reduce the mystery of "sex".

Second, when getting along with girls, we should appropriately reduce the continuous love words and too many intimate actions.

From a physiological point of view, touching, kissing and hugging are the most likely to arouse men's desires. Therefore, boys should be good at self-discipline. As Satubia said, "Love is like charcoal. When it burns, you must try to cool it. Let it burn at will, and it will scorch a heart. " Because sexual behavior involves not only the responsibility to oneself, but also the responsibility to others, and it also has an impact on society. The degree of will control in love is the standard to measure whether love is mature or not.

Third, young people should strengthen their will exercise.

When desire arises, we should take corresponding measures to remind and hint ourselves and relieve sexual impulse. Besides having sex with a girl, you can also participate in some beneficial social activities and entertainment activities with her to distract your attention from sex and sublimate your love. You know, true love should be "respectful and noble, not just emotional impulse and whim". In love, understand yourself, love each other, endow lust with new charm, and measure the depth of lust with reason. The wider the love a person doesn't want, the nobler his roommate will be.

Fourth, the correct use of masturbation.

As long as masturbation is regarded as a hobby and does not harm others and society, it can be regarded as an emergency method for men to adjust and channel sexual impulses when sexual pleasure breaks out and reaches the point of "fanaticism" and cannot be controlled.

2. The harm of adolescent sexual impulse

(1) affects study.

Young girls are learning cultural skills. If you fall in love and pursue sexual stimulation at this time, it will inevitably affect your study and make your career accomplish nothing.

(2) Affect the sexual life after marriage

A pair of men and women, premarital sex has a certain sense of illegality, and it is also very likely to cause damage to the woman's private parts and urinary system infection, which will bring harm to the body. If sexual life leads to pregnancy, it will embarrass both parties, especially the woman will suffer more misfortune. At the same time, in order to induce abortion, taking medicine secretly and having an abortion by oneself will cause infection and even lead to serious consequences of lifelong infertility.

(3) Damage to health

Third, premature sex is harmful to health.

Because girls' physical development is not fully mature, sexual life is more likely to cause a series of gynecological diseases such as endometritis, acute salpingitis and pelvic inflammatory disease. If pregnancy is easy to be ectopic pregnancy, if it is not found in time or handled improperly, it is easy to cause massive bleeding and life-threatening.