Wei Zi and Guan Hu.

The online drama "The Beauty of Cheongsam" is a hit on the line. It was a detective comedy of the Republic of China in Shanghai, but it turned into a fashion show in Ma Yili.

In the play, naughty detectives frequently flirt with detective Vengo in gorgeous clothes.

Outside the play, female No.1 and male No.2 have an affair with Wu Haochen, the "little earthworm ex-boyfriend" played by Andy in Ode to Joy.

Soon, everyone focused on Ma Yili:

In the play, I flirt with the long-legged Oba man and enjoy the caress of small fresh meat outside the play-old horse, why do you love eating tender grass so much?

After divorcing Wen, Ma Yili became less and less fond of:

Arrogant, advocating women's rights, deserved to be intervened by my best friend and cheated by my ex-husband ...

She laughed at all these stalks. The star never worried about being seen, but she chose to turn a blind eye and go her own way.

After all the ups and downs in the entertainment circle, why can Ma Yili still love like he has never been hurt? Where does her confidence come from?

If Dad is the lover of his daughter in her last life, then Dad Ma must be a perfect lover.

Ma Yili was born in an ordinary working family in Shanghai Lane, and her family was poor, but her parents gave her the only love.

My daughter likes dancing since she was a child, and my father Ma never forgets to collect news about the enrollment of the Youth Art Troupe in the newspaper.

When I found it, I rode my bike and took my daughter into the art troupe.

When Xiao Yi was having a class in the classroom, he was waiting outside the door. Two hours later, he sent her home by bike.

Literature and art classes cost money, and Father Ma can only scrimp and save.

After a rehearsal, my daughter wanted to eat KFC, but he didn't refuse: "Go in and eat, I'll wait for you outside."

Xuan didn't go in From that moment on, she never complained about dancing again. She just wants to take part in the performance as soon as possible to reduce the burden on her parents.

/kloc-After the age of 0/5, Ma Yili began to perform in the Art Troupe, and got the performance fee for the first time, which not only supported the school, but also helped the family to make money.

But such students are not liked by teachers.

At school, Ma Yili, who loves singing and dancing, is very popular, and many male students are around her.

In a final student handbook, the teacher wrote a "poor" in her ideology and morality.

Father Ma immediately asked the teacher for a theory. The teacher said, "Your daughter has puppy love with many boys."

Father Ma asked which boys it was, and the teacher wrote a boy's name. Father Ma asked, "Isn't there more than one?"

The teacher was very angry, and Father Ma was even angrier: "I believe my daughter. If you don't make it clear, we'll go to the headmaster. "

Dad's unconditional trust made her stubborn and proud daughter cry.

A girl's mother's love will make her self-esteem, and her father's love will make her confident.

1994, Ma Yili, 18 years old, admitted to Shanghai Theatre Academy.

Father Ma told his daughter: You care about your love, but you must insist on paying the bill when you go out to eat with boys.

If you want to take the initiative in love, you can't put your posture very low.

She fell in love with a very talented brother as soon as she went to college. When she is not in class, she goes to various rock concerts with her boyfriend.

In the ivory tower, they talked about Pareto love, but they could not avoid the fate of "breaking up after graduation".

After her boyfriend graduated, Ma Yili was busy filming, and they broke up peacefully.

In my junior year, a director named Guan Hu came to the college to choose an actor, took a fancy to Ma Yili, and let her star in the movie Nightcrawler.

Guan Hu has his own way of filming. He advocated that the actors should act on their own, and the script had no specific lines.

This made Ma Yili, who had little experience, suffer a lot, but she was an indomitable person, so she often consulted the director about her role.

Gradually, she found that Guan Hu was bohemian, pursuing freedom, and her personality was similar to her own, so she moved her heart.

On the eve of Valentine's Day, Ma Yili called Guan Hu and said that there was no one to accompany him on Valentine's Day.

The next morning, Ma Yili, who was still washing clothes in the dormitory, received a phone call from Guan Hu: "Come down, I'll be downstairs."

She hurried downstairs and saw Guan Hu flying from Beijing with a bunch of roses in her hand.

Ma Yili likes such vigorous love. When she meets the money she likes, she will take the initiative to seize it; If she doesn't think it's appropriate, she will give up on her own initiative.

When they first fell in love, they were bored together all day.

But life is different from filming. Guan Hu was radiant when filming, but Guan Hu in life was sloppy and needed to be taken care of like a child.

Ma Yili, who is not well-known, often takes care of Guan Hu's daily life. He makes decisions on big and small matters by himself.

200 1, Guan Hu won the film director award, turned around and bought a diamond ring for Ma Yili, which cost 8,000 yuan.

But Ma Yili's dream is to be an excellent actress. She doesn't want to be raised by men.

Two years after graduation, in the preparation of Princess Zhu Huan 3, Guan Hu used her own resources to win the heroine for her girlfriend.

Although Ma Yili hates Wei Zi, a traditional woman, she knows Zhu Huan's fame, and she will certainly become popular.

Sure enough, she became popular, and everyone fell in love with this little "rough" girl.

Life and career often conflict, and Ma Yili, who is busy filming, has no time to take care of her boyfriend's food and drink.

This loophole made Liang Jing, who wanted to stand in the entertainment circle, get a good marriage.

When filming Black Hole, Nicole and Ma Yili became good girlfriends, and they were inseparable and talked about everything.

Ma Yili was busy filming Princess Pearl 3, and spent more time with her boyfriend.

Gradually, Guan Hu found that Ma Yili had a strong personality, didn't like to wait on people, and didn't even want to cook by himself.

At this time, Nicole, who had long liked Guan Hu, stood up. "I am willing to wash my hands and make bride soup for you. How can you cook? You should live for art! "

After filming "Pearl Return 3", Ma Yili quit voluntarily and chose to fulfill them.

Years later, recalling this relationship, she said: "You can't change Guan Hu's character, otherwise his artistic achievement will be reduced;" But I can't give up my career, so I'm breaking up. "

Facing a man who no longer loves himself, Ma Yili turned smartly and never wronged himself.

Because, you can never wake up a person who pretends to sleep, and you can't touch someone who doesn't love you anymore.

Guan Hu and Liang Jing got married in 2005. There is no wedding or wedding photos, and the tenth anniversary will be reissued.

It was also in this year that Ma Yili got to know the article about shooting "A Royal Guard" together.

After filming, the article chased Ma Yili.

But Ma Yili thought the article was too small, and he was a teenager without a beard.

Articles with a little mass at the right hypochondrium, good bite Ma Yili, pestering her is almost a rogue. He vowed to catch up with Mayli.

But after several months, Ma Yili refused, and the article felt hopeless, so she fell in love with the beautiful women around her.

Over there, Ma Yili and Jaco, a classmate of the article, became attached to each other because of the filming of Where Happiness is.

Jaco pursued Ma Yili in the cast, and they often went out in pairs, and the relationship was very close.

The article panicked, heard the wind, left his girlfriend, and immediately went to the crew.

So, the article and Jaco two brothers fell out for Mayili.

She asked the article, "Don't you have a girlfriend?"

The article looked aggrieved: "It's not because you refuse to accept me!"

Ma Yili gave a wry smile. Comparatively speaking, she actually appreciates articles more.

In her eyes, the article is a very talented actor, and he has a bigger dream-to be an excellent director.

Soon after, Zhao Baogang was ready to start filming Struggle, and chose the first hero, David. David recommended the second article to the director.

At an actor's party, Wen got drunk and called Ma Yili to pick him up.

When Ma Yili arrived nearby, the article didn't answer the phone, so she got through to David.

David looked at the drunken products around him and told Ma Yili to come up first.

Ma Yili went, but Zhao Baogang took a fancy to the short hair she had just cut, and took a fancy to the woman who had been hesitating for a long time.

When filming Struggle, Ma Yili felt that he had a tacit understanding with his younger brother David, so they got closer and closer.

The article holds that the closer they are in performance, the more loyal they are to Li XiaoLu.

This made Ma Yili very disgusted, and the article was too naive. She thinks simple and honest David is more practical.

However, David thinks that the senior sister is too domineering. Once she disagrees, she doesn't even have a chance to reply.

When his ex-girlfriend Guan Yue heard about the affair between David and Ma Yili, she immediately sent a message pretending to "congratulate" David.

David realized that Guan Yue was her favorite person, so she abandoned Ma Yili, got back together with Guan Yue, and soon got married.

Finally, the man who stayed with Ma Yili was left with articles.

Relationships that don't aim at marriage are hooligans.

Articles are always associated with Ma Yili for the purpose of "getting married".

In 2008, he forced Ma Yili to get married: "If you don't take me to see your parents again, we will break up."

At this time, Ma Yili was 32 years old. Although her parents never interfere in her love, they want her to get married at the right time.

Looking at the parents who live alone, Ma Yili's idea is very transparent:

"Whether it is a brother-sister relationship, an old man with a few wives, or the same age, there will definitely be contradictions between two people, and marriage needs to be managed."

So Ma Yili married Wen, but there was no wedding, because at the wedding, the father would give the bride's hand to her husband, and she didn't want her father to go through this scene.

Later, as we all know, the article cheated on see you on monday, and Ma Yili forgave him for "doing and cherishing" until they divorced last year.

In order to protect her family, she gave everyone five years to accept it, but she was called a "scheming bitch".

In fact, a few years before the divorce, she lived a depressed life, like a walking corpse.

Finally, her father reminded her that at the age of 20, you worked hard for your parents. At the age of 30, you endured for your children. Now, at the age of 40, you have to live for yourself.

Perhaps the real way to let go is not to punish yourself with the fault of the other party, and choosing one to leave two widths is the greatest achievement.

The opposite of love is not hate, but indifference.

Ma Yili never gnashes her teeth at people who miss it.

Talking about her ex-husband, she said: "Men are eager to realize multiple values in different women all their lives, which is morally impossible to judge."

Because he is not only an ex-husband, but also the father of two children.

She never torments her children with the faults of adults, because she is well aware of her father's position in her daughter's heart.

After the divorce, the article took photos with her daughter many times, and her daughter was not affected by her parents' divorce.

Have to admire the pattern of Ma Yili!

Editor Liu Liu said that Ma Yili changed the image of a little shanghai woman and became a great Shanghai woman.

Love psychologists believe that we have been looking for the substitute role of parents all our lives. If parents give their love full marks, we will always be full of security and initiative in love.

We don't know who the last man in Ma Yili was, but we know that because the first man gave her confidence, she never wronged herself.

I especially appreciate what Ma Yili said at the Magnolia Award Ceremony:

"Women don't live to please others. Everyone has only one chance in the first half of his life. They should be brave, love hard and struggle. They can make mistakes, but remember, they must grow up! "

Ma Yili is Magnolia, always forging ahead, always white and always proud.

Life is different from acting, life is much more difficult, and there has never been rehearsal or calling cards. If you take a wrong step, there is no chance to start over.

Only when you are happy can people around you be happy. Life is always for yourself.

And most of us, for the sake of life, for the sake of family, for the sake of children's parents, have cracks in our feelings and crises in our marriage, just for a false perfection.

If you don't love, just let go and give yourself another infinite road.

Zhang Ailing said: "All women have a place to live. There is no one but themselves."

On the stormy road of life, instead of waiting for others to open an umbrella, it is better to hold up a sky by yourself.