Roommates are particularly vain in front of others. What should I do?

I think it's your roommate's problem to like vanity. Your roommate has nothing to do with you. You just need to be yourself and don't care too much about your roommate's affairs. After all, even if your roommate lives in vain, it won't affect you. At most, you will feel that it is blocking your eyes, but this only needs you to correct your mentality!

A vain person is actually inferior at heart. He needs many friends who can satisfy his vanity to cover up his inner emptiness. I think silence is the best way. When you agree with him, you satisfy his vanity, but you get your own emptiness. When you refute him, you add fuel to the fire of his vanity: "Look, he is jealous!" " "When he was silent, he was silent. It is better to regard him as a good observation object. The so-called threesome, it is better to learn from him.

Generally speaking, most vain people like to brag about themselves in front of others, some like to brag about their glorious experiences, some may regard stories heard by others as their own experiences, or brag about things that they can't actually do, and show their cleverness by pretending to understand. A vain person is actually empty inside. Superficial vanity and inner emptiness are constantly fighting. Before their vanity is satisfied, they will feel pain because they are not as good as others. After satisfying my vanity, I am afraid that my true self will be exposed to others, and my heart is always worried and tortured.

Therefore, I think people are vain because they have such distorted self-esteem in their hearts. In order to get others' affirmation, praise or envy, one does not hesitate to pretend to be fat in the face, which may even lead to serious consequences of illegal and criminal acts. Therefore, we should recognize the essence of vanity and tell ourselves to adjust our mentality in time and live a down-to-earth life.