What is a best friend? Why are there girlfriends?

Sentimentality and willingness to share are the characteristics of women. When you are happy, it is best for someone to know that you are happy and share it with you. When you are sad, it is best to have someone to comfort and share. When you are lonely, you'd better have company. Every woman, in her long life, should have several close friends with Spider Sister. This kind of friend has a warm name called "best friend". The relationship between boudoir friends is thin and long, and it can't be finished for a lifetime.

There are many advantages to having a close friend.

1. Having a girlfriend can decorate your life and make your life rich and colorful. Having a girlfriend can make you feel the happiness that people miss. They are like flowers in spring, blooming in every corner. Time can precipitate, years can kill, but the friendship of friends is unbreakable.

Having a best friend can make you feel a kind of stability. She's like a harbor where you can park at any time. In front of her, you can release your feelings, cross the obstacles of life journey happily and walk through the four seasons easily.

3. Having a best friend will make us feel that we have another sister, and we can pour out everything-we don't have to consider the dignity of our generation as we do in front of our parents, we don't have to be as stiff as we do in front of our boss, and we don't have to worry about our identity and image as we do in front of our colleagues. As long as you think of it, you can express it freely, vent it freely, and get it off your chest quickly. She can accept all this without scruple, give you help when you are in trouble and give you courage when you are weak.

Having a girlfriend can make you look stronger and more mysterious in front of your husband, because he knows that you have "friends and relatives" and will not "bully" you easily, because he also knows that besides him, you have your own world.

After marriage, many women began to show the nature of "valuing sex over friends". These women feel that their energy is limited, and they can't take care of their friends while taking care of their families. Friendship seems to be less important. They are far away from their girlfriends and completely submerged in their husbands' world. When they have conflicts with their husbands, they suddenly find that there is no one to talk to and become exclusive. At this time, if I think of the intimacy of the past again, I feel that there is nothing but regret.

The boudoir is a person we should cherish all our lives. A woman with a close relationship is happy. She will listen to your troubles patiently and comfort you when you are wronged, misunderstood and sad. When you are in trouble, pain and need help, she will reach out to help you selflessly. In your life, no one can share your joys and sorrows like a boudoir, except your relatives. Therefore, you should cherish the boudoir and protect your friendship with it.

However, the friendship between girlfriends is also a good relationship.

1. Friends can't wait by fate. Friendship does not fall out of thin air. It needs cultivation and watering to keep growing. So you must cultivate yourself and make yourself a person that others appreciate and are willing to be close to. When you meet a recognized friend, taking the initiative can strengthen your friendship.

2. Must have a good proper limit. If you are a close friend of junior high school, you should also have a certain distance, so that friendship can be kept fresh for a long time. In your communication, the most important thing is to respect each other's privacy, and don't take "nothing to say, nothing to talk about" as the highest standard of feelings. Whether you become a bosom friend or not depends not on how many words you have, but on understanding.

3. Don't be jealous and don't compare with others. Women will compare themselves more or less unconsciously, and close friends are most afraid of this mentality. When you are jealous of your boudoir, you must adjust your mentality and be careful not to let yourself go astray. When you know that your girlfriend has been promoted, got a raise, or found true love, you should give sincere congratulations and be happy for her at the first time. You must not be "jealous of others" or "not laughing enough". Cynicism can only show that you are stingy and have no wine. At the same time, don't show your pride too much in front of state secrets, so as not to cause psychological imbalance of the other party and put friendship in danger.